<h1>"Eighteen send-offs"</h1>
"Eighteen Sending" is a classic singing passage in the Yue opera "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai".
In the story, from the Hongluoshan Academy to Zhu Yingtai's home, there are exactly eighteen miles, and to Liangshan Bo's house, it is also about eighteen miles.
"Three years of love with the same window is like the sea, and the mountain uncle is difficult to give up the Yingtai, and they are sent down the mountain with each other, and they come up to the Qiantang Road."
After three years of getting along day and night, the two had a deep affection for each other, and they said goodbye, and Liang Shanbo sent Zhu Yingtai home.
Three years ago, in order to study and for freedom, they embarked on this path, so that they had the opportunity to know each other until they finally fell in love. Eighteen miles is nine kilometers, nine kilometers, nearly 10,000 meters of school road, for Liang Zhu is still too short, too late to fall in love at first sight, but too late to tell each other their hearts.
Everyone walks through this "eighteen-mile road", because of a casual choice, because of the unexpected arrangement of Heaven, meets a stunning person, and he only exists for a period of time.
When reading, boys chase girls or fall in love, it is popular to send girls home, even if the two people's homes are in the opposite direction of the school, boys will conscientiously send girls to the door.
It was the only time of day when two people could spend alone, and although the road was only one or twenty minutes long, it was almost inevitable to meet classmates and teachers, but it was already a rare and exclusive time.
Especially at that time, the school rumored that there was a girl who came home alone from school and met a bad person on the road, and the school leaders and teachers attached great importance to it.
Our homeroom teacher repeatedly stressed in the class,
"The girls in our class don't go home alone!" Better to go back with the boys in the class! ”
"Don't be careless, giggle, didn't you hear it!?"
This is probably the most popular of all the orders of the class teacher in three years, and the most enthusiastic response of the students.
Since then, the number of male and female students who go to and from school together has indeed obediently increased, and boys have ridden to and from school, and when they meet girls in the class on the road, especially girls with good feelings, they can naturally ask, "Take you away?" ”
The secret favor of the teenagers has become a blatant protection, and everyone tacitly agrees, but there are high-sounding reasons.
One of the boys' home in the class was less than ten minutes on the north side of the school, and the girl's home was on the south side of the school, and it took twenty minutes to walk.
After an appointment, the two also silently waited at the school gate.
Every night at nine o'clock in the evening, after the night self-study, the boys stood at the school gate, sometimes holding bottles of drinks, sometimes holding lollipops.
Obviously the same distance, every time the boys can arrive early.
I rode home with a few friends every day, I often met them on the road, the boy sang very well, the voice was like Xu Song, especially at that time, the song list of junior high school students, dominated by the three giants of QQ music, the girls in the class often surrounded his seat between classes, to listen to him sing, but often unsuccessful.
When the boy has the only one to cherish, all the good is only willing to give to this person. When encountered on the road, I occasionally hear boys singing, and on the lively road after school, girls want to listen to him sing.
A few other times I saw the boy walking around to the girl's left-hand side and pushing her inside the road, not understanding what it meant.
Many years later, I slowly understood that those shy words did not meet their intentions, replacing "like you" with "I will send you home"; saying "I want to teach you to play" as "you play is so ugly"; those who want to say hugh' worries, insinuations, asking "Do you want to continue to be at the same table?" "Do you have someone you like?" Thinking he could summon up the courage to show you something, he bought a glass of rose-flavored smoothie and ate it himself.
In the young years, we silently offered our liking, making the memories like secret treasures, which are still taking root many years later, so that I can take some sugar from the memories.
<h1>You are the chapter I hid in the book</h1>
Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, for love and freedom, ended their young lives.
In our time, there is no need to give life to love, but there is no love that is comparable to life.
The beginning of Dickens's Tale of Two Cities does indeed cover all the ages: "This is the best of times, and it is also the worst of times; this is an age of wisdom and an age of stupidity." ”
Our future seems to be full of hope and disappointment; we seem to have everything and at the same time seem to have nothing.
We look at the many, many choices, the variety of sounds, the sounds are fascinating, and most people are waiting for the only answer in life.
I was at a friend's wedding, the groom was dressed in a straight suit, his hair was meticulously combed, sitting in front of the mirror, sitting on the couch with a few buddies, discussing the difficulties he would encounter when he would pick up the bride.
The makeup artist with the mask was putting on him, and after a few glances, the groom stared at the makeup artist, pulled down her mask, and suddenly his eyes turned red.
The makeup artist then put on the mask and continued the work at hand.
The groom turned his face, not knowing what expression he could make, just smiling.
Later, the girl watched him walk out the door surrounded by everyone, then packed up her makeup bag and quietly left. In the lively celebration of the crowd, this small wave flashed by.
Maybe she knew before that today was to take a look at what the boy would look like this day;
Perhaps she did not know that the impermanent wind of fate had once again blown him in front of him.
The groom's affectionate singing voice sounded, and I was a little sad. I thought that this kind of thing was rare in life. Watching fairy tales and idol dramas since childhood, I have always thought that all love stories are a lifetime and a couple, over a mountain, and lovers will eventually become dependents.
When I grew up, I found out that this was not the case. Regret and miss are the common things in life, meeting different people will have different futures, and people encountered in life will leave traces. In the past, I thought that what I gave up was just a love, and missing that person, I actually missed a life.
In the end, we can only live a life in one choice after another. It is said to cherish the present, and it is true that we must have such a mentality, but there will always be misses and regrets in life, and we must admit and allow them to exist.
In "The Best of Us", Lu Xinghe said to Geng Geng, "Those who suddenly appear in our lives never appear until you are ready, they are all surprises." ”
I rejoice and cherish those surprises. In life, there are some short companions, who have their own established distances and will live a life of their own choosing.
Once, in the midst of the hustle and bustle of the crowd, I singled out him at a glance, only because the circle of light was so dazzling that it made people feel that he was full of eyes.
And it is precisely because of his dazzling that my whole youth shines brightly.