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Men are a sign of "fake love" for you, let it go as soon as possible

author:Marriage counselor Liu Jie

Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie

In the complex emotional world, every woman longs for a sincere love.

However, the reality is not always as it should be, and some men, for various reasons, may not really love you, but use a "fake love" method to disguise their true intentions.

So, how to identify a man's love for you, whether it is true or false? The following four manifestations may help you unravel this mystery.

01

Just say but don't do, sweet words are more sweet than actual actions

If a man always talks sweetly to you and promises you a good future, but he does not fulfill it in actual actions, it is likely that his love for you is only in words.

Because true love needs to be expressed through action.

For example, he might say, "I'll buy you that necklace you've always wanted." But when you mention when you are going to buy it, he is always vague or makes all kinds of excuses to excuse himself.

This kind of behavior of only saying but not doing is actually a manifestation of "fake love".

Men are a sign of "fake love" for you, let it go as soon as possible

02

The concern for you is superficial and lacks in-depth understanding

A man who truly loves you will care about every detail of you, including your preferences, dreams, and even minor emotional changes.

And if a man only cares about you on the surface of "have you eaten" and "have you slept well", it means that he does not really want to know you deeply.

For example, he may send you a concerned text message when you are sick, but he will not be there for you when you need his company.

He may give you a gift on your birthday, but the gift is completely different from your preferences.

This superficial concern is actually a manifestation of a lack of true love.

Men are a sign of "fake love" for you, let it go as soon as possible

03

Always "busy" or "absent" when you need him

If a man "happens" to be busy or "absent" when you need him, it may be a sign that he doesn't really mean it to you.

A man who truly loves you will stand by you when you are in trouble or need support, rather than making excuses to stay away.

For example, when you encounter a grievance at work, or something happens at home, he will always avoid you with the reason of "overtime" or "business trip".

Or, when you need his help to solve some practical problems, he is always pushing back and not willing to help.

These actions are enough to show that he is not willing to give too much for you, and his love for you is limited.

Men are a sign of "fake love" for you, let it go as soon as possible

04

Ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex that makes you feel uneasy

A man who truly loves you, he will know how to keep his distance from other members of the opposite sex, and will not make you feel upset, or make you misunderstood, and make you sad.

But if a man maintains an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex while dating you, then his love for you is not single-minded and he does not really love you.

For example, he will keep in close contact with multiple members of the opposite sex on his phone, even in front of you, flirting with other members of the opposite sex, and not caring about your feelings.

Even if it will hurt you and make you sad, he doesn't care, and he doesn't want to change at all.

Of course, these manifestations mentioned above are not absolute, but if you find that the men around you have these behavioral tendencies, then you need to be vigilant.

Shakespeare once said, "The road to true love is never smooth." ”

In the process of finding true love, we need to learn to distinguish between true and false love, so as not to be confused by "fake love".

When you meet the man who is truly willing to give for you, cares about every detail of you, and is always there when you need it, you can be sure that you have found true happiness.

I hope that every woman can have a pair of discerning eyes, see through those false love disguises, and find the person who is truly worthy of entrusting her life.