Preface
In our traditional culture, etiquette has always been regarded as the basic norm for people to get along with each other.
And the older generation often warns us: there are three kinds of etiquette, no matter how embarrassing and embarrassing these three kinds of etiquette are, we must stick to our own principles and not blindly follow.
Today, I'm going to share with you these three special etiquettes that may require some effort on our part, but they can help us shape good relationships.
01 Don't praise lightly
Older generations often say, "Kind compliments can make people happy, but excessive compliments can make people get carried away." Therefore, we should refrain from complimenting others.
While moderate compliments can increase mutual affection, if we praise everyone without hesitation, it can cause compliments to lose their authenticity and credibility.
Learn to observe and appreciate the true strengths of others, and give praise when appropriate, so that we can truly convey our sincerity and respect.
02 Do not interfere in other people's private affairs
Respecting other people's privacy is a basic social etiquette, and older generations often teach us that we should not arbitrarily interfere in other people's private affairs, whether it is family, friends or colleagues.
While we may care about each other, excessive attention and interference can be unpleasant, and we should give others enough space and respect to respect their right to handle their own personal problems.
Only when the other person really needs help or is willing to share it, can we show concern and help in moderation.
03 Don't ask others about their income
Asking about salary is an awkward topic that is often reminded by older generations to avoid such behavior, and while income is an important aspect of our lives, it is also a sensitive subject.
Blindly asking about someone else's income can cause stress and distress to the other person, and even cause unnecessary embarrassment.
We need to understand that a person's worth cannot be measured solely by his income, we should pay more attention to the talent and ability of the other person.
In social interactions, don't focus too much on money, but focus on communication and common interests with each other.
summary
The teachings of the older generation warn us that there are three types of etiquette, and these three etiquettes are the tacit understanding and respect for our relationship with others.
In modern society, in the face of various complex interpersonal relationships, we should keep these principles in mind and strive to cultivate our social skills and cultivation.
Respecting the privacy of others, avoiding excessive compliments, and not asking about income are all small gestures that can help us build good relationships and increase trust and friendship.