To gain a foothold in the entertainment industry, you need to have outstanding beauty or excellent acting skills, but Zhang Lingxin is the latter. Although she is not a peerless beauty, her extraordinary acting skills have brought one masterpiece after another to the audience. Despite her smooth career development and excellent acting skills, her emotional life has always been shrouded in mystery.
According to legend, after 16 years of long-distance love, she always insisted on not having children until she was 36 years old before welcoming a child, and now her family is happy. Therefore, many people wonder why she would rather risk becoming an advanced maternal age years after deciding Dink?
It is worth mentioning that Zhang Lingxin can be said to be a veritable "third generation of stars". Her grandfather Zhang Fa was already very famous as early as the 50s of the 20th century. And her parents are intellectuals, and they have invested a lot of attention and cultivation since she was a child. Although she was expected by her father to go to the Shanghai Theater Academy, Zhang Lingxin longed for the Beijing Film Academy, and after unremitting efforts, she was finally admitted and got to know Huang Xiaoming, Chen Kun and other star classmates.
During her time at the academy, she met her current husband, Hu Yaozhi, an outstanding talent who graduated from the Beijing Film Academy and is also a famous director. Hu Yaozhi was known for his strictness and was highly respected, and both men and women respected him. And it was in this environment that Zhang Lingxin became one of his students.
Although he had heard about it before, Zhang Lingxin had never really experienced Hu Yaozhi's strictness. It wasn't until a morning class that she really felt Hu Yaozhi's sternness. At that time, there were only more than 40 people in the entire class, and there were 35 people who were late, and Zhang Lingxin happened to be one of them. Faced with this situation, Hu Yao was furious and did not hesitate to expel all latecomers from the class and punish them with a whip. Some girls even begged Hu Yaozhi to treat them leniently, but he still treated them equally.
However, Zhang Lingxin did not dislike Hu Yaozhi like other classmates, on the contrary, she was full of admiration for him, and often discussed professional knowledge with him after class. Every time she met Hu Yao, she always had a happy expression on her face, and there was no sense of rejection or fear at all. Hu Yaozhi also fell in love with this diligent and studious student. As time passed, new ideas germinated in Zhang Lingxin's heart. In class, she always sits in the front row and actively answers questions from the teacher, even during recess. Every time she looked at Hu Yaozhi, her gaze was always focused and appreciative.
Initially, the essence of the simple teacher-student relationship between Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin had not yet been detected, just because he regarded Zhang Lingxin as the innocent little girl who loved to learn and Xi. However, as smart as him, gradually, he also noticed Zhang Lingxin's unique feelings for him. It's like a small seed that quietly takes root and sprouts.
In the sophomore year, in order to find an ideal job, it happened that Zhang Lingxin was discovered by the filming team of the TV series "Never Look Away", and since then she has stepped into the door of the showbiz and opened a new chapter in her life.
This surprise made Zhang Lingxin happy, but it was also accompanied by a hint of worry - walking on the set meant that it might take months to not see her beloved Teacher Hu, and her college career was short, and she hoped to spend more time with Teacher Hu. Therefore, she firmly decided that she must spend the rest of her life with Teacher Hu, and no matter how the future changes, they will always depend on each other.
Zhang Lingxin is a bold and frank woman, and she will express her heart's yearning honestly. At the end of a school day, when the classroom was empty, she found Teacher Hu to ask for advice, and took the opportunity to leave the teaching building together to confess affectionately.
However, Hu Yaozhi rejected her without hesitation. Hu Yaozhi understands that as a student, the teacher-student relationship is not suitable. In addition, she has just joined the crew of "Never Look Away" directed by Zhao Baogang and is facing the beginning of her career, and any negative news may have a serious impact on her career.
In the face of Hu Yaozhi's refusal, Zhang Lingxin was not sad, but figured out some clues from Hu Yaozhi's words. Teacher Hu may be hinting that although the teacher-student relationship is not a good match, can it be successful if it is changed to another identity?
Since then, Zhang Lingxin's love for Hu Yaozhi has become stronger and stronger, and his care for him is even more meticulous, preparing breakfast for him every day, and even bravely confessing his admiration for Hu Yaozhi again at the graduation ceremony.
Hu Yaozhi's heart has been completely attracted by the girl who illuminates his heart like a little sun. This time, Hu Yaozhi responded to Zhang Lingxin's confession, thus starting an unforgettable sweet love run that lasted for 16 years.
Although Zhang Lingxin and Hu Yaozhi held hands and entered the marriage hall as they wished, their relationship was criticized at the beginning. Zhang Lingxin's friends, as well as her professional partners, have asked her more than once: "Are you really ready to be together? Are you sure your life will be full of happiness?" At this time, she always replied firmly: "We will be very happy!"
Similarly, Hu Yaozhi said in an interview with the media: "In the process of getting along, I will respect and pay attention to Zhang Lingxin's opinions, and give priority to her views." is clearly aware of this dedication, when he learned that Zhang Lingxin was unwilling to enter the siege of marriage, he did not publicly object. After all, he knew that she longed for a free life. Therefore, for so many years, he has never mentioned marriage, and is only willing to spend every spring, summer, autumn and winter with Zhang Lingxin, and compose a gorgeous epic of love together.
Faced with the approaching state of older pregnant women, Hu Yaozhi's parents were anxious. However, Zhang Lingxin still resolutely remained single, which made the Hu family think that it was really unfair to Hu Yaozhi. This puts Hu Yaozhi in a dilemma, because his family keeps urging him to get married, and his girlfriend insists on Dink's opinion, which makes him feel tormented.
However, as recently as 2014, a trip completely changed the deadlock. Hu Yaozhi proposed to Zhang Lingxin for the first time, and this time, Zhang Lingxin did not refuse as before, but readily agreed to Hu Yaozhi's request, which was undoubtedly a huge surprise for him, so that he was so excited that he couldn't sleep all night.
We should respect Zhang Lingxin's personal wishes and decisions. Although she firmly stated that she didn't want to get married, this had touched the bottom line in her heart. But we should note that she and Hu Yaozhi have gone through a long 16 years together, whether it is mutual support in their careers or bits and pieces in life, they have been deeply integrated into each other's souls.
Her relationship with Hu Yaozhi has gradually changed from the original strong opposition to marriage to compromise, which is undoubtedly a brave expression, confirming that she has no reservations and no longer hesitates in the face of this relationship.
Although she looks tough and independent on the surface, she is actually full of soft girlish feelings on the inside. In the complex environment of the entertainment industry, many women have long focused on men's attitudes. Even though she has a strong personality, she still can't help but be affected by this emotional struggle. But this is a true reflection of human nature.
However, when faced with Hu Yaozhi's formal marriage proposal, Zhang Lingxin still felt nervous, and asked sincerely: "If we really get married, can you still treat me like this?" Hu Yaozhi replied without hesitation and firmly: "Yes, I will love you even more, and care for you more than ever!" Hearing Hu Yaozhi's sincere promise, Zhang Lingxin also relented, and said with a smile: "Then when we go home, let's go and get the marriage certificate that belongs to us as soon as possible!" Hu Yaozhi was so excited when he heard this, and even went to the government department in person to learn more about the various processes of the wedding, and finally received a valuable marriage certificate with Zhang Lingxin.
Although they have become a legal couple, the realities of their new life remain, such as how to balance pregnancy with career development, and the challenges that older mothers may face. Zhang Lingxin has always adhered to the belief of being a Dink family, and her past experience made her deeply aware of the impact that marriage may have on her body and the inconvenience of becoming a full-time wife. However, Hu Yaozhi has a strong interest in parenting, and whenever friends and relatives visit with their children, he will always look at them intently, and he is reluctant to leave for a long time.
They have known each other, fallen in love, and have been together for nearly 30 years. Hu Yaozhi is 46 years old, and it is indeed a little late to give birth to a child, but seeing that his wife feels so sorry for him, and considering that he is willing to share the responsibility of raising children, he no longer forced his wife to change her mind, but began to think seriously about this issue.
Finally, in 2016, they welcomed their baby son, and the family loved and cared for him very much. Under the baptism of life and the wind and rain, they gradually adapt to and enjoy this warm and sweet family. After marriage, Zhang Lingxin still maintains her charm, beautiful, confident, and cute, as if the years have not left a trace on her face. Not only that, but the happiness and stability brought by marriage make them more relaxed and confident than before, and from time to time show their life full of hope and confidence to those around them.
In marriage, Hu Yaozhi cares for his wife meticulously, only hoping that she will always be happy and happy, and in the workplace, he puts forward extremely strict standards and requirements for his wife, and he hopes to present the audience with works with deep connotation in this way. Behind this kind of devotion is a loyalty and dedication to art, but also a husband's endless love and support for his wife.
Faced with the dual pressure of career and married life, Zhang Lingxin fought tenaciously and bravely met every challenge. In the end, she proved her worth with her excellent acting skills and rich character shaping ability, winning the love and recognition of a wide audience. Today, their family of three lives a happy, warm and romantic life, which is enviable.