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"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

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"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

My name is Zhang Xiaomei, I am 27 years old and I am a marketing specialist. I got married last year, and my husband Li Shuo is a project manager in a foreign company, and he is a career-oriented man. Our married life is quite happy, and the only regret is that the relationship between our in-laws is not very harmonious.

I gave birth to a baby the other day, and I couldn't have been happier. Who knew that the actions of my mother-in-law and aunt bothered me again. They find fault with me every day, saying that I can't take care of newborns and find all kinds of faults. Yesterday, my aunt said that I was feeding the baby in the wrong position, and I finally couldn't bear it anymore and yelled at her: "I'm a, I don't need you to point fingers!" When my mother-in-law heard this, she also became angry, saying that I was ignorant and rude, not like a normal daughter-in-law. I had a big fight with them, and then I was so angry that I couldn't speak, so I had to hide in the bedroom with the baby in my arms.

In the evening, my husband came home, saw my sullen appearance, and asked me with concern what was wrong. I told him about the quarrel with my mother-in-law and aunt during the day. He frowned and persuaded me, "Mom and aunt are all good for you, you shouldn't talk back to them." They love the baby so much, and they also want to help you take care of the child. Just let them nag and don't take it personally. ”

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

When I heard this, I felt even more aggrieved, and said to my husband with red eyes: "You only stand on my mother's side, and you don't understand my feelings at all! They make things difficult for me every day, can I not be angry? This is still called good for me? I am really fed up, I have to move back to my parents' house!"

When my husband heard that I was going back to my parents' house, his face suddenly changed: "Why are you so unreasonable? I just gave birth to a child and need someone to take care of it, and I am too busy with work to take care of you, it is a good thing that my mother and aunt can help, but you want to leave and let me take care of the child alone?"

I held back my tears and said, "I've had enough of being wronged for this child, and you still blame me for being inconsiderate, so I can only take the child out of here, so as not to embarrass you again!" After that, I picked up the baby and walked out.

My husband chased me out and pulled me: "Xiaomei, calm down, let's have a good talk." The child is still so young, it is not safe for you to go out with him alone. ”

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

I shook off his hand and left the house without looking back. I came to my parents' house with the child in my arms, I thought they would warmly welcome me back, but I didn't expect my mother to see me break into the door, there was no happy expression on her face, just frowned and said: "Why did you run back again, didn't I say it last time, my daughter is an outsider when she marries, and she can't run to her mother's house all the time, if you are so willful, what do others think of your husband's family!"

When I heard my mother's words, my eyes immediately turned red, tears came out of my eyes, and I said aggrievedly: "Mom, why do you say this about me, I have already come back with the baby, I want to be close to you, I really put up with it on my mother-in-law's side, you see that I don't even have a place for you to go, you can't talk about me like this anymore!"

The mother was unmoved, and said solemnly: "Even if your in-laws treat you badly, you should still think about improving the relationship, how can you run back? You will embarrass your husband and his family." By the way, did they call you?"

I lowered my head and whispered, "Yes, my husband has called several times and sent messages asking where I am and asking me to go back, but I really don't want to see them now." "

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

The mother frowned and said, "It's not right for you to run away for no reason, you are not responsible for your husband, and you will cause us trouble." Of course, your family welcomes you back, but you have to learn to face problems and not run away when something doesn't go your way. You call your husband back and say that you are here, so that everyone can rest assured, so that no one will look for you everywhere. "

Although I was still aggrieved, I also knew that what my mother said was reasonable, so I called my husband back, saying that I was at my mother's house, so that everyone should not worry. My husband was relieved to hear my voice and said that he would respect my decision, but hoped that I would think twice. My mother-in-law and aunt have been looking for me to take good care of myself and my children.

After hanging up, I sat down next to my mother, who patted me on the shoulder and said, "Okay, there are some things that need to be calmed down and thought about again." You have a good rest at home for a few days first, and trust that time will solve the problem. ”

Two days later, my grandmother suddenly said that she wanted to see her grandson, but my parents thought that I had just come back and it was not convenient for me to go to my in-law's house. My grandmother came by herself in the car to see me and the baby. She was overjoyed to see the baby and teased him with a smile on her face. I thought to myself, grandma treated me well, and it was forgivable to only care about the baby, so I warmly welcomed her to eat and stay.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

In the evening, we chatted, and my grandmother said that my husband and mother-in-law missed me. She said: "I know they sometimes overcare too much, but they are all family, you don't run back to your parents' house at every turn, you have to learn to be considerate of the elders." You say, don't you?"

After thinking about it all these days, I gradually realized that running back to my parents' house might not be the best option.

Then, I realized that it takes effort on both sides to maintain a harmonious family. I shouldn't always admit that I have been wronged, but put myself in the shoes of others. My mother-in-law and aunt should also cherish and appreciate my care for me.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

My mother-in-law shook her head weakly and asked me not to blame myself. She said that she forgave me for all my temper and mistakes, and only begged me to take good care of my husband and grandson. I nodded silently and assured her that it would.

In the days that followed, I accompanied my mother-in-law every step of the way. Occasionally, she is in better health and can still hold her grandson and talk. I also listened to her story and let her talk about her thoughts and instructions to her husband. Instead of being self-centered, I did my best to help this sick mother-in-law through the last days of her life.

My mother-in-law finally left this world peacefully in the company of us.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

I started to take the initiative to help my aunt with household chores and take care of her daily life. My aunt was visibly surprised, and she smiled and said to me, "Silly girl, you have finally grown up." I also looked at her with red eyes and nodded.

One day, my aunt accidentally broke a cup while washing clothes, and she quickly bent down to pick it up, but suddenly her waist hit the corner of the table, and she couldn't straighten up in pain. I hurriedly hugged her and comforted her softly: "Auntie, I'll clean up, you go and rest for a while." ”

Since then, I have made up my mind to be kind to the people around me, especially the elders who raised me. I began to take the initiative to chat with my aunt and listen to her reminisce about her youth. Gradually, my aunt seemed to be a different person, and she was not mean to me in the past, but very amiable.

"People, it's just about communicating more and understanding each other. "One day, my aunt suddenly said. After hearing this, I suddenly realized, nodded and said, "Auntie, you are right, I must learn to be more considerate and listen to others in the future." ”

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

Today, the baby is half a year old. I would patiently teach him "grandma" and "auntie" and tell him that these were people who loved him. My husband has a lot of pressure at work, so I no longer complain, but try to take care of his daily life. We often go back to our parents' homes to visit our parents, and they are very welcoming to my husband's son.

A few days ago, our family finally sat down together again for a reunion dinner as before. I looked at everyone at the table and my heart was filled with gratitude. I think the most precious thing about people is family and friendship. No matter what difficulties I encounter in the future, I will always keep in mind the meaning of life, cherish the people in front of me, and strive to understand and tolerate each other.

After the reunion dinner, I began to sort out the relics left by my mother-in-law and grandmother. The old box was filled with their clothes, letters, and photographs. I looked at them lightly, as if I saw them vividly appear in front of me when they were younger.

One day, I pulled out a stack of letters that read "To my dear daughter." I was shocked to find out that this was actually a handwritten letter written by my mother-in-law to my husband many years ago!

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

I read it word by word, and the tears could not stop flowing. I finally fully understood the difficulties of a mother, especially in the face of an only child, and the love and concern she gave was so great. My mother-in-law's hard work and care must have far exceeded what I knew.

"Mom, you've worked hard. I will always remember your kindness to our family. I gently stroked the letter paper and said to my mother-in-law in my heart.

Recently, we were thinking about having another child. My husband smiled and said to me, "Our family will be warmer." I nodded happily, filled with hope.

Looking at my husband and children, I feel extremely happy and satisfied. I finally understood that my loved ones are my most precious treasure. No matter what happens in the future, I will always keep in mind the teachings of my mother-in-law and grandmother, so that the friendship between my family members will be like a warm lamp, gently illuminating everyone's heart.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

I will also pass on this friendship. I teach my children to respect and care for everyone around them. When he starts a family, I will tell him that no matter how the years change, the company of his family will always be his strongest backing.

In the world, the most beautiful emotion is the warmth of home. It transcends time and space, connects the past and the future, and makes life complete and meaningful. This is also the most precious gift left to us by the older generation.

As the days passed, my relationship with my husband got better and better. My husband's work is going well, and our financial conditions are gradually becoming better.

One day, my husband said to me with great interest: "Wife, let's sign up for a cruise group, just the two of us, go abroad and relax!"

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

I was so happy that I excitedly agreed. In the past, we had never traveled alone because of various concerns. Now that the children have grown up, it is a good time for us to be alone as a couple.

I can't wait to look at the scenery photos of various countries on the Internet and imagine the romance of my honeymoon. My husband was also busy discussing the itinerary with me, and we were looking forward to the trip like a young couple.

Finally, when the bus came to pick us up and take us to the port, I couldn't wait to get on the bus before I even had time to pack my luggage. Sitting on the deck facing the sea breeze and listening to the cheerful music downstairs, my husband and I snuggled together, as if we had returned to the breeze of the past.

"Wife, how do you feel?" My husband smiled and put his arm around my shoulder.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

"It was perfect!" I said happily.

When the boat docked, we had a relaxing day on the island. At night, my husband and I hugged each other on the big bed in the hotel room, as sweet as during our relationship.

"My dear, when we were young, we would have had days like today. I said, staring into my husband's eyes.

"Yes, we still have a lot of good times to cherish together. "My husband gently stroked my hair.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

I was so moved that tears welled up in my eyes: "Husband, I'm sorry, I was ignorant at the beginning, and I always let you worry." Now that I have grown up, I will always support you and take care of you. ”

"Fool, it's all over, and you were very cute at the beginning. My husband kissed away my tears, "It's good now, I'm the happiest." ”

yes, I'm happiest. I think that life will not be smooth sailing, but as long as we learn to be tolerant, understand and support each other, there will be infinite tenderness and sweetness waiting in our old age.

This journey has allowed me to see a different family and a different life. I was determined to be frugal and save money with my husband to achieve more dreams. I also want to urge my children to accompany us more, and it is their responsibility to honor the elderly.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

On the way home, I leaned on my husband's shoulder. Looking out the car window, the city is high up, with dense trees and pedestrians passing by. I think that I have experienced so much in this life, and I am also grateful for all the things it has brought me. When things don't go my way, I don't just run away, but I have to learn to be tolerant and understanding. When life is good, I need to be grateful and have joy in my heart.

Life is like this, the years are quiet. I am grateful to my husband for being with me over the years, and I am grateful for the happiness that family happiness has brought me. The long road of life, walking hand in hand with you is the greatest honor in my life.

Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, our children have grown up and started a family. Now they have also given birth to lovely grandchildren, and our family is thriving.

Every holiday, children and their families come back to visit us. The joyful scene of the family huddled around the dining table was the most comforting and happy for me.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

"Grandma, eat it, this is my best dish!" My daughter-in-law smiled and scooped up a spoonful of vegetables and put it in my bowl.

"It's delicious! Our daughter-in-law is the best cook!" I happily complimented.

"Grandma, shall we take you on a trip next time?" My grandson hugged me and was coquettish.

"Of course!" I smiled and stroked his head.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

After eating, the family sat in the yard and chatted. My son suddenly said sadly: "Mom, you and Dad have lived alone all these years, and it has been hard. We're not around, don't miss us too much. ”

I shook my head and said gently, "Child, it is not easy for you to start a family, and we are naturally happy for you. Your dad is still physically strong, and I can take care of daily life, so I'm not alone. It is our greatest happiness to see you grow up safely. ”

I nodded and looked at my husband gratefully. Although his years are no longer there, his eyes are still as affectionate as they were back then. I know that with him, I will never feel lonely.

Over the years, my husband has always been with me. When I was cornered, he gave me strength; When I was confused, he gave me direction. Although we will have quarrels, we will always reconcile in the end. I thank God for giving me such a confidant, and I have no regrets in this life.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"

Life is too short to create as many memories as possible. I hope that in our later years, we can go out and see the world; You can do what you love and live a life without contention.

I believe that the tree of life that has experienced wind and rain will surely bear the sweetest fruits. After birth and death, we will finally be in the ground, and we will use our life experience to tell future generations that the meaning of life is to learn forgiveness and gratitude.

"Mom, let my sister-in-law move out, I'll go home for confinement, she's an outsider" "Girl, who's your mother"