Deng Yaping refused to apologize! Explain that the ignorant are fearless: it is equivalent to a newborn calf that is not afraid of tigers
Table tennis star "Big Devil" Deng Yaping has commented on the diving star Quan Hongchan twice, the first time was in a program after the Tokyo Olympics, when Quan Hongchan was born and became a blockbuster, winning the gold medal in the women's 10-meter platform at the Tokyo Olympics, and breaking the world record.
Later, Deng Yaping, Ma Weidu and others participated in a certain program together, and Deng Yaping said at that time that Quan Hongchan was ignorant and fearless, which caused an uproar. After 2 years, Deng Yaping came out again to comment on Quan Hongchan, mainly to clarify what she said 2 years ago, let's take a look.
Let's talk about the first comment first, she said: "Quan Hongchan, a small team member, is indeed psychologically extraordinary, and maybe, there is such a genius, but at the same time, there is also her ignorant and fearless, and she also has such an advantage, she has no interference, you seem to be a competition, the Olympics, but in fact there is no audience, if you bring the audience, with interference and noise, can she still dance like this?"
We can see from the first review that Deng Yaping clearly praised Quan Hongchan, but secretly she was more dissatisfied and questioned.
Now, 2 years after the first comment, Deng Yaping may also have seen the strength of public opinion, and many people are on Quan Hongchan's side and ask Deng Yaping to apologize. She may also feel that there was something inappropriate in her original remarks, so she stood up to find face for herself.
But instead of apologizing, she had another explanation. She said: "Regarding my original evaluation of Quan Hongchan's fearlessness of ignorance, due to the recent incident, a lot of relevant information appeared in my comment private messages, and I even received strange text messages and phone calls. The moment Quan Hongchan won the gold medal in the Olympics, I seemed to see myself in her, she was also a little girl, she also came from a family that was not wealthy, and she also had the same recklessness to participate in the world competition for the first time, I liked her very much, she was too similar to me. ”
Deng Yaping continued: "From ignorance to knowledge, the psychological pressure will be greater and more difficult after that, because others are taking us as a target to study, and the fearless ignorance of the ignorant is not without knowledge, but refers to her fledgling at the time, and she does not know what pressure is, and its synonym is that the newborn calf is not afraid of tigers." ”
So the question is, since it is now said that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, why didn't they say this word when they commented at the beginning? As a high-achieving student and public figure, Deng Yaping should be very concerned about her words and deeds, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, this word is not a very obscure word, she should have known this word a long time ago, why didn't she use it in the first place?
As a top student at Tsinghua University and an elite figure who taught English on his own, why didn't he say this word earlier? Obviously, explanation is tantamount to a cover-up. Those who can speak are not as good as those who can listen, and they can only be described more and more black. Now she almost apologizes, but she just refuses to apologize, which shows that her emotional intelligence is not high, and she has been trying her best to maintain her so-called dignity.
Isn't apologizing tantamount to admitting a mistake?
In fact, daring to admit mistakes, daring to admit one's own shortcomings or mistakes, is also a kind of progress, a kind of behavior worthy of praise, and it also requires courage to sweep thousands of troops in the field of table tennis, but dare not be responsible for one's own words? [Text/Fighting Jianghu]