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Comparing Guo Qilin and Andy, don't say that Guo Degang will educate children

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introduction

Deyun Club's newly opened Deyun Film and Television account has been updated daily, although the "Zi Bu Yu" story series has been temporarily suspended. However, through the latest short video content, we can't help but find another issue worth paying attention to in Deyun Club: Is there a suspicion of partiality in the education of Mr. Guo Degang's treatment of his two sons?

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In the latest video, Guo Degang's youngest son Andy sat firmly in the C position and became the focus of everyone's attention. At the same time, if Guo Qilin is present, it seems that he will not have a chance to sit in the C seat. This has led to reflections on the way education is conducted, especially under the question posed by Hou Zhen: Andy has learned skills such as cycling and go-karting, what should he do next? Hou Zhen's answer made people think deeply - practice courage.

Comparing Guo Qilin and Andy, don't say that Guo Degang will educate children

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This is reminiscent of Guo Qilin's childhood, and his timidity may be related to the absence of his parents and his lack of security. However, Andy now has more love and companionship in the family environment. Through the short video of Deyun Club, we can feel Andy's happiness and self-confidence in the process of growing up. In stark contrast, Guo Qilin faced his father's strict requirements when he was a child, and even was constrained by the "godson in front of people" in terms of diet.

Combined with Mr. Guo's many references to Andy in his storytelling, we can see a sense of pride and pride. He even shared Andy's experience of teaching himself Chinese characters, and through shopping on Taobao, Andy mastered quite a few Chinese characters. This has led to a rethinking of traditional notions, especially about whether or not to send children to kindergarten. Mr. Guo chose not to let Andy go to kindergarten on the grounds that the adults in the family could not do without him. However, this may be a misunderstanding, because the purpose of kindergarten is not only to learn knowledge, but also to help children adapt to getting along with their peers and socializing on an equal footing.

Comparing Guo Qilin and Andy, don't say that Guo Degang will educate children

Perhaps, Mr. Guo was more influenced by his apprentices in his treatment of Andy's education. In the short video of Deyun Film and Television, we can clearly feel the love for Andy, making him the protagonist of the account. However, compared to Guo Qilin and Tao Yang when they were children, Andy seems to have a big gap in terms of cuteness and confidence. This expression of affection is also reflected in Andy's disrespect for art, which contrasts with Zhang Yunlei's attitude when singing.

conclusion

Maybe Mr. Guo has made up his mind and does not plan to pass on the career of Deyun Club and cross talk quyi to Andy. Although every parent wants their children to grow up happily, is it necessary for their children to appear on the camera and endure public opinion and evaluation? Perhaps, for Andy, who does not plan to engage in cross talk music, this is not a process that must be experienced. While pursuing children's happy growth, it may be possible to pay more attention to cultivating their equal social skills, so that they can be more confident and mature in getting along with their peers. This may be a more holistic view of education.

Comparing Guo Qilin and Andy, don't say that Guo Degang will educate children

Recently, Deyun Club's new Deyun Film and Television account made me feel a little conflicted. Although the update of the "Zi Bu Yu" story series has been suspended, the daily content is still being pushed. This time, I don't have to face the filters of fans, and I don't have to endure embarrassing toe picking, but it seems to reveal another problem of Deyun Club: in the education of his two sons, Mr. Guo Degang seems to be a little eccentric.

In the latest video, Guo Degang's youngest son Andy sat firmly in the C position and became the focus of everyone's discussion, while Hou Zhen was rare to see. If Guo Qilin was present, it is estimated that Hou Zhen would not sit in the C position. This led me to think about Guo Degang's bias towards the education of his two sons.

Comparing Guo Qilin and Andy, don't say that Guo Degang will educate children

In the video, Zhang Yunlei mentioned that Andy has been able to ride a bicycle, drive a go-kart, etc., and perform very well. Hou Zhen suggested that Andy should practice courage, and at the same time suggested that Guo Qilin's timid problem when he was a child may be related to the lack of security caused by the absence of his parents. This perspective reminds me of Guo Qilin's experience as a child, the loneliness caused by the departure of his parents, and the extraordinarily strict parenting style that followed.

Mr. Guo mentioned Andy many times in the commentary, full of pride and pride. Andy did not go to kindergarten, but was taken care of by "idlers", who taught themselves Chinese characters through Taobao and even knew more words than children who went to kindergarten. However, it is debatable whether this particular way of education is justified.

Comparing Guo Qilin and Andy, don't say that Guo Degang will educate children

Observing the content in the short video of Deyun Film and Television, Andy seems to have become the protagonist, although this is a joke, but it actually highlights the gap between Andy and Guo Qilin and Tao Yang when they were children. Andy comes across as confident and bold, but this personality can be the result of being spoiled. In one video, Zhang Yunlei tried to teach Andy to sing Taiping lyrics, but it turned out to show the child's overbearing.

I think Guo Degang may have forgotten the lesson of "Godson Hutong". He may have overlooked that kindergarten is not only for learning, but also for children to adapt to getting along and socializing with their peers. At home, adults tend to indulge children, and even more so in Guo Degang's house, apprentices come and go, who doesn't spoil Andy?

Although it is every parent's wish to make their children grow up happily, is it necessary to make them the focus of the video? Teacher Guo once said that he must bear public opinion and evaluation in this business, since he doesn't want his child to engage in cross talk music, why let him become the object of public attention? This may be a question worth pondering. Is it in line with the attitude of a responsible father to let his children bear the pressure of public opinion in front of the camera?

In general, Deyun Club's new account has brought some interesting content, but the bias in the education method has caused me to think about Guo Degang's family education. Moderate care is a matter of course, but whether children need to be put in the public spotlight and how to balance the education of both sons may require deeper thinking.

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