The smarter the child, the harder it is to carry? Brain Science: If there are 3 manifestations, you can steal the fun
We raise a child and always want him to be good in all aspects, especially IQ. If children are smart, we adults will be happy.
Then do you know what aspects children with high IQ generally reflect?
Brain science believes that IQ is composed of multiple aspects.
If the child excels in these areas, it means that he has an IQ. It's just that children with high IQs will be slightly different from others.
Is it harder for smarter kids to bring? Brain science, if there are 3 manifestations, you steal the fun.
One: 3 kinds of outstanding performance
Children with high IQ often have the following 3 manifestations.
(1) Active and strong thinking ability
Looking closely at the children around you, you will find that those lively and active babies generally turn their heads quickly. Not only are they physically flexible, but their brains are also flexible.
This is because from birth, children develop various senses.
Active children will develop their balance and sense of space in jumping up and down.
For example, climbing trees, he needs to use both hands and feet to exercise the coordination of his limbs; jumping, he can perceive the space up and down left and right of distance, thus developing the imagination of space in the brain; Touching everywhere, he can sense the size of the object, the roughness and smoothness, and so on.
These senses will leave an impression on the child, which will develop thinking skills.
(2) Love fantasy and strong observation
Some children, when he sees something, it is just an object in his eyes. But some children, when they see something, they can associate a lot of pictures.
For example, I saw a 3-year-old child who was swinging and saw a cluster of branches, and he would say, "It's like a cloud, I can touch the clouds in the sky with my toes." ”
A child who loves fantasy has strong observation skills and retains very, very many pictures, situations and plots in his mind. Children who have been imaginative since childhood will not be poor in language when they grow up.
(3) Clear logic and strong expression
In the child's brain, the left brain is in charge of logic and the right brain is in charge of language. The best development result is the balanced development of the left and right brains, not focusing on one aspect of development.
Children with balanced development of the left and right brains, he not only has strong expression skills, but also has particularly clear logic. He can explain the cause and effect of a thing clearly, not upside down, or say half of it.
A child with clear logic shows that he has strong thinking ability; A child with strong verbal expression shows that his brain is flexible and can express what the brain thinks fluently.
In general, an active child will be more "difficult to bring", because he can hardly stop. Parents should always pay attention to his dynamics, for fear that he will run away if he is not careful, or do dangerous things.
Children who love fantasy, he may say something that makes you cry and laugh, but it is not difficult to bring, but he is not willing to sit obediently, likes to observe everywhere, and find "material" for his fantasies
Children with clear logic and strong expression are not so "easy to deceive". He wants something, you make an excuse to fool the past, but he can analyze it with you and defeat you with his "magic language".
Although the child may be a little "difficult to bring", as long as the child is smart and smart, we have more care and patience, what does it matter?
Two: how to protect your child's IQ
What aspects should we pay attention to when raising children, which can protect the child's IQ development?
(1) Do not destroy the child's imagination
I once read a little story that moved me very much.
The child is bouncing in the yard and the mother is cooking in the kitchen. The child shouted at his mother, "Mom, I'm going to jump on the moon!" ”
The mother did not laugh at the child's stupidity, but answered naturally: "Okay, but remember to come back, mother immediately fried the dish." ”
When a child says something that is fantastical and seemingly unreasonable to adults, we should not "correct" him, but protect his imagination.
In this way, children will be more willing to use their brains to think, observe, and then develop their own unique thinking and imagination.
(2) Encourage children more
We need to have a pair of eyes that are good at discovering the strengths of children, and then encourage them more. Children will become more and more confident and believe in themselves in our encouragement.
A confident child who will focus on what interests him and will use his brain on what he is good at.
If the child is always hit, he will divide a lot of energy to doubt himself, or he will always be on the defensive and withdrawn.
Such a state is very detrimental to brain development. Therefore, we need to be good parents who encourage our children, so that we can better help him grow.
(3) Don't give your child too many restrictions
A mother told me that when a child draws, he has to draw a dog in a tree. Mom thinks, how can a dog jump into a tree, it should draw a cat.
She asked me, what can I say to get my child to change his mind?
My answer is, why do you have to impose on children what you think is "right"? Let your child draw whatever he wants.
In our daily life, we should not give the child too many restrictions, which not only limit his actions, but also limit his creativity.
Including the child wants to play in the mud, sand, and water, this is his nature, we can create conditions for him to play, rather than blindly restricting.
As long as children do not do things that hurt others and violate morality, we may as well be more tolerant.
In this way, the child can better exert his intelligence and become a high-IQ baby.
Does your baby have the above 3 points? Let's talk about it~
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