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Tears
Editor|anecdote
Recently, Chen Lihua held a grand dinner, she invited Zhang Jizhong , Wang Weinian and many other well-known figures in the circle.
Now she is 82 years old, her body is blessed, and she is even a little unstable when walking.
But it was not her husband Chi Chongrui who supported her, but two other men.
It turned out that Chi Chongrui was sitting and playing with his mobile phone with his head down, and there was no contact with her.
Throughout the dinner, they did not communicate much, and even the positions were separated.
When Chen Lihua introduced her collection, Chi Chongrui looked up at her.
Netizens have suspected that the couple's relationship seems to have become estranged.
But this is not the case.
Chi Chongrui didn't like to deal with people very much, so even if it was his wife's home field, he just watched silently.
It is not said that there is no love, but because of personality.
He usually addresses his wife as "you" or "chairman."
He has used such a title for more than thirty years.
After so many years, their feelings have long been witnessed.
How did they come together in the first place?
01
Chen Lihua is a yellow flag, and she can be said to have started from scratch when her family was lonely.
She started her business as a furniture and accumulated some capital before setting her sights on the hot real estate industry.
Because the furniture business has expanded to Hong Kong, she has also invested in real estate here.
Chen Lihua has proven to be very business-minded.
The success of the investment gave her more opportunities.
Chen Lihua set her sights on one of the most prosperous cities in the country, Beijing.
Or the real estate industry, where she succeeded again.
Not only did she establish herself in Beijing, she also developed a Jinbao Street here.
The success of her career led her to seek new feelings of her own.
Chen Lihua is married and has three children.
It's just that he has a bad relationship with his ex-husband, and the two no longer contact after their divorce.
She doesn't have many hobbies, and Peking Opera is one of them.
The hit of "Journey to the West" also let her know a person, Chi Chongrui.
His fame can also be said to be a coincidence.
In addition to Chi Chongrui, Tang Monk is played by two other people.
After their strike, the director was worried about the role and happened to meet him with an elegant and easy-going temperament.
The director took a look at it and decided to let him play Tang Monk.
With the broadcast of "Journey to the West", he also gradually became famous and was known as the "most beautiful Tang monk".
Chen Lihua did a lot of foreshadowing for meeting him.
Chi Chongrui is a Peking Opera family, and whenever there is a performance of him, Chen Lihua will come to the scene.
Coming and going, the leaders of the troupe knew this big man with a successful career.
After the introduction, she finally spoke to Chi Chongrui.
With contact comes opportunity.
02
The two talked from Peking Opera to antiques and talked happily.
In order to continue to bring the relationship closer, Chen Lihua is particularly concerned about things related to him.
His mother's sudden illness created opportunities for her.
After getting the news at the first time, Chen Lihua immediately arranged the best hospital for him and called the best doctor.
Moreover, she personally accompanied Chi's mother and took careful care of her, just like her own daughter.
Under this meticulous care, Chi Mother was touched by her, and Chi Chongrui saw her attitude.
After a long relationship, they ended up married.
After the marriage was exposed, it caused widespread heated discussions.
"Chen Lihua, apart from being rich, where is he worthy of him?"
"With Chi Chongrui's conditions, what kind of object can't be found, why did you choose her?"
A large number of discussions came to the face, most of which were ironic and incomprehensible to Chi Chongrui.
What's more, they directly called him a "scumbag".
Chi Chongrui expressed his attitude in one sentence.
"The key to living a life is to oneself and not pay attention to the eyes of others."
Chi Chongrui's free-spiritedness is amazing, and many times the troubles of annoying people stem from caring about the evaluation of others.
Later, the exposure of a piece of news dispelled everyone's final ridicule of him.
Chi Chongrui does not participate in the distribution of Chen Lihua's estate.
That money will all be left to the next generation.
You must know that they have not had children since they got married, but later adopted one together.
This means that he will not benefit from the distribution of the inheritance.
More people now think they are genuinely in love than when he exchanges marriage for money.
But there is one netizen whose opinion is different from everyone's.
His analysis is very interesting.
Judging from the details of Chen Lihua's life, she is likely to believe in Buddhism.
And Chi Chongrui played the "Tang Monk", he is equivalent to a living Buddha.
Starting a family with him must be a very auspicious thing.
To this end, Chen Lihua also spent a lot of money to realize a dream of Chi Chongrui.
Both husband and wife love rosewood.
So Chen Lihua built a related museum for him, and the two jointly served as the curator, which is also one of the manifestations of her belief in Buddhism.
And they use honorifics for each other, perhaps because neither of them puts the other in the place of husband and wife.
Chi Chongrui's attitude towards her is like a sister or a mother.
Another netizen found out more details.
Chi Chongrui usually doesn't hold her hand, nor does he look at her, more just helps.
This respect also confirms previous speculation.
But this statement is also only speculation, and the only facts in front of you are that the two of them have come from the controversy that has always existed.
33 years of companionship cannot be without feelings.
As bystanders, everyone only needs to silently bless it.
epilogue
Chen Lihua once said that life is short, and if you don't do something, it is equivalent to coming for nothing.
Her life is undoubtedly wonderful and meaningful.
I climbed up from the trough and finally climbed the peak, and I also came together with the people I really liked.
Their feelings are sincere, and there has never been a feud in decades, perhaps this is the result of their respect for each other.
Finally, I hope that they can all pay more attention to their bodies and work together to go further into the future.