Text|Happy Baby
"The person who is running outside, you are the pillar, but if you are the pillar of the pillar, without this support in the home, you can't stand it." Qi Wei said this serious and solemn sentence very seriously.
It can be seen that Qi Wei has her husband Li Chengxuan and mother at home, and she can be completely assured and can devote herself to her work.
At the same time, she said that doing housework and raising children at home is not a very easy task.
In fact, regardless of men and women, once one party is at home full-time, respecting and thanking this thing, it all depends on human conscience.
As the old saying goes, if there are money-makers outside, and there are money fights at home, men should hand over their money-making to their daughter-in-law for safekeeping, and husband and wife can be of the same heart in order to be long-lasting.
Regardless of men and women, after marriage, we must first dedicate ourselves to managing the family marriage well, and both parties are worthwhile, and one is indispensable.
Behind every successful person, there is a person who pays silently, you let me have no worries about food and clothing, I let your family be harmonious, this is the mutual understanding and tolerance of the two couples.
Everyone's values are different, happiness and satisfaction are different, you understand my hard work to earn money, I understand that it is not easy for you to raise children.
Women with children, especially in the first few years of birth, the road to survive this period is smooth.
Just like friends around me who have been married for more than ten years, they are now living happily, men work hard outside, and they have no worries about food and clothing for their families; It is women who give the most in the family, and they will be more tired if they also go to work.
In a family, both sides have to make trade-offs, at least two pillars against top to balance, not to collapse, to be harmonious and happy.
If there is no woman at home to take care of the children and solve the worries, the man alone has to take the children and work, it will definitely be difficult to move an inch.
In other words, without the financial support of men, the quality of life of children is also in jeopardy.
The husband and wife are like a pair of chopsticks, only by supporting each other can they achieve each other and go further.
It is the beam that runs outside, and the pillar inside the head of the house, and there are beams and columns to support a home.
If there is only one pillar on top, regardless of men and women, there is no shelter from the wind and rain, what is the difference with the "bachelor"?
Full-time mothers give up their own value for the sake of their children, not that they can't do it outside, but both inside and outside, so maternal love is great, but if a full-time mother can't get the respect of her family, can the man alone support the whole family?
Qi Wei's husband Li Chengxuan, as a man, he will have depression when he takes his children, not to mention women, who really brings who knows.
The work at home may not be easier than the outside, they just have to lower their posture for the sake of the family.
Fu Seoul also said in the show that she can have such achievements as today, and has the credit of her own old Liu being a full-time father; Qin Hao said that with Yi Nengjing at home with his children, he was relieved to go out to work and have today's fame.
In fact, regardless of men and women, who is outside and who is inside, while doing their part, understanding and seeing each other, knowing respect and gratitude is the key.
Everyone is saying that being full-time sacrifices the outside world, but who says that only success is self-worth?
The best relationship between husband and wife is to understand and respect each other's choices, if you really just want to be a stay-at-home father or mother, why not? #中国式浪漫#