For many couples now, from marriage to love and then to having children, they should have created happy little days together, but the life after marriage is either the man cheating, or the woman has an affair, or personality reasons lead to breakup and divorce, and in the end it is only the children who suffer.
Of course, as long as the parties divorce peacefully and abide by the laws and regulations to pay the child support on a monthly basis, there will be no entanglement. At most, when the other party is old, he wants his children to retire, and he can ask his children to retire according to the maintenance fees he paid before.
However, if one party does not comply with laws and regulations, refuses to pay child support, and also blocks the contact information of the ex-spouse, it is a bit of a scoundrel to deliberately avoid the responsibility of support. Such a person is his ex-spouse can agree, and the law will not agree.
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On July 7, at the wedding scene of a man in Bengbu, Anhui Province, he met his ex-wife with his seven-year-old daughter, blocking the door of the wedding car and demanding more than 10,000 yuan of maintenance owed by the man. When the girl saw her father, she immediately shouted: "Daddy give me child support!" ”
Unfortunately, the father, who was busy being a groom, did not pay attention to his seven-year-old daughter's request, did not say a word to his daughter the whole time, but directly called the police, in the name of harassing the wedding by his ex-wife, and wanted the police to take his ex-wife and daughter away.
It can be seen that it is really a failure to meet such a man, not only is he not a good man, but he is not a good father, I really don't know what the bride sitting in the wedding car at the moment thinks in her heart, why would she marry such an irresponsible man?
The woman, Ms. Zhang, told reporters: "He (ex-husband) did not answer the phone, WeChat also blocked me, and the groom did not say a word to the child from beginning to end." He called the police, the police did not arrest me, and I can't afford to raise the child, but I can't swallow this breath! ”
In the face of Ms. Zhang taking her children and asking her ex-husband for alimony, many netizens have left messages expressing their views. A netizen in Cangzhou, Hebei Province left a message with the post: "This is a typical example of not seeing others well, ex-husband remarrying what is it about you, deliberately bringing children to make trouble." ”
A netizen in Zhejiang left a message with the post: "It is necessary to make him lose face in this way, his daughter does not want to give support, and in the future, when he is old, he will morally kidnap his daughter and not raise him old." The law stipulates that in divorce between husband and wife, the party who does not have to raise the child must pay alimony, why not? ”
A netizen in Henan left a message with the post: "The bride has a heart, he can do this to his ex-wife and daughter, and he will treat you like this in the future." Men have always liked the new and disliked the old, even their own daughters can not care, as a person without blood relations, they cannot be responsible for you. ”
A female netizen in Tianjin followed the post like this: "I divorced and left the house, people not only did not care about the children, not a penny, the children were only 14 years old and did not go to school, making trouble in society, and the police station did not answer the phone, I did not expect that there was such an irresponsible man in the world." ”
A netizen in Shandong left a message saying: "You can't swallow this breath, do you want this money or do you want it?" If you can afford to raise a child, don't take the child, this kind of man you yourself go to beat, there is nothing wrong with scolding, why let the child face this kind of scumbag? For the sake of the child, don't let her stand out for you so small. ”
Regarding the comments of netizens, there are actually no more than two voices: one is that the woman does not see the man well, so she deliberately brings the child to stir up the scene; Another believes that the ex-wife with her daughter and the husband to ask for alimony, which is a natural law, and the money owed must be given.
According to the party Ms. Zhang, after the divorce of her ex-husband, the court ordered to give the child 700 yuan a month for maintenance, but in the past year and a half, she owed almost 10,000 yuan. Because the ex-husband did not answer his phone and blocked his WeChat, he intercepted his ex-husband at the wedding to ask for alimony.
And the mediation column of many TV stations, the most is that after the old man abandons the child, he has a second marriage to raise the other party's child, but is driven out by the second wife and does not feed, and the old man is dead face and asks for the abandoned child to retire. The mediator's favorite phrase for moral kidnapping is: He is not benevolent, we cannot be unjust. He's your daddy! ”
In view of the example of the TV mediation program, the Ms. Zhang is still very wise, since the law orders you to pay child support, you must pay it on time every month, otherwise you will have to pursue the demand. I still owe this for a year and a half, and I don't want to give it, and if I owe it for more than ten years, I accumulate too much, and I can't give it if I want him.
Now, since the ex-husband has the ability to marry the newlywed woman again, why can't he afford to pay the more than 10,000 yuan of maintenance owed to the child? Can you afford to support a woman but can't afford to support your own daughter? He even called the police and asked the police to arrest his wife and daughter and clear the obstacles to his wedding.
As everyone knows, these obstacles are set up by the man himself, and a man who is unkind, unrighteous, unloving and unloving is destined to have no good end. Whether he can spend his old age safely when he is old in the future, and whether he will turn around and beg his abandoned daughter for his retirement, will take time to prove.
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