#挑战30天在头条写日记 #
Lead:
As the saying goes, the mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, and the more she looks at it, the more she likes it. In fact, the reason why the mother-in-law treats her son-in-law well is nothing more than thinking of letting her son-in-law treat her daughter well, that's all.
At the warm invitation of her daughter, Aunt Zhao took her wife to live in her daughter's house. It's just that she didn't expect that she had only lived in it for 7 days, but she had already spent the 30,000 yuan she brought. My daughter asked her for money every three to five, and took it for thousands and thousands.
Aunt Zhao felt a little uncomfortable in her heart, thinking that her son-in-law encouraged her daughter to come to her parents to ask for money. It was not until she saw her mother-in-law coming to the house with a large bag and a small bag that Aunt Zhao realized later, and after waking up, she directly stuffed another 300,000 yuan for her son-in-law.
Confidant: Aunt Zhao
I am 52 years old and I wanted to raise flowers and plants in my hometown and live a leisurely life. Who knows, my daughter suddenly invited me to stay at their house for a short time.
My daughter suddenly invited warmly, and I couldn't refuse. In addition, my wife has not yet retired, and I am bored at home alone, so I decided to help my daughter with the children, change the environment and change the mood.
But I only lived at my daughter's house for 7 days, and my daughter asked me to borrow money every third and fifth. One borrowed is thousands of thousands, and after several times, my daughter walked with me for 50,000 yuan.
However, I asked my daughter many times about the use of 50,000 yuan, but my daughter refused to say it for a long time, only perfunctory saying that she had urgent use. And since my daughter started borrowing money from me, my son-in-law often lived in the company dormitory on the grounds of overtime and did not come home.
Seeing the mysterious appearance of my daughter's son-in-law, I also muttered in my heart. Shouldn't they be thinking of a way to cheat me out of the little pension money I have? Although I think so in my heart, it is difficult to talk directly to my daughter, and I can only nag my wife from time to time.
In fact, I didn't agree with my daughter's marriage at the beginning. Although the son-in-law is calm and polite to us, his native family seriously hinders him.
The son-in-law's parents do not have formal jobs and have to work part-time jobs to support their daily expenses and livelihood. And he also has a younger brother who is in college, and when his son-in-law and daughter are going to get married, his brother also needs the eldest brother of his son-in-law to provide for it.
But the daughter has a love brain, and if the non-son-in-law does not marry, we have no way to take him, we can only compromise. But as soon as we compromised, our pension money was spent like flowing water.
My son-in-law's family was poor and could not afford to buy a wedding house, so we bought a dowry house for our daughter. The son-in-law's family could not afford the bride price, and we took the initiative to take the decoration of the wedding room. Even when my daughter became pregnant, we felt sorry for her for crowding the bus to work all day, and bought a scooter for my daughter out of her own pocket.
It can be said that from the time the daughter talks about marriage to the time of having children, our old couple has not paid less. Fortunately, my daughter and son-in-law are also filial and will rush back to accompany us every New Year and festival, which has greatly soothed our hearts.
Therefore, this time I came to my daughter's house, it has been almost a week, only on the day we arrived, my son-in-law showed his face and was busy going to work, and he has not seen anyone since.
At first, I thought that my son-in-law was angry that my daughter had taken me without permission, and I was also angry that I came uninvited. But I never found a chance to find my son-in-law to explain, and my daughter also stopped me from calling my son-in-law, saying that my son-in-law was not angry, but was busy with projects recently, especially busy, and even had to pinch every second to eat and sleep.
I believed it, but my daughter often found various excuses to borrow money from me. After borrowing 50,000 yuan, my daughter still wanted to speak, but I stopped her and asked her what she urgently needed money for, but her daughter couldn't say why.
I was sure that my daughter was instigated by her son-in-law and refused to borrow any more money. The daughter had no choice but to shake her head and leave. Only half a day later, I saw my mother-in-law move in with a big bag and a small bag.
Seeing my in-laws move in, my face turned a little pale. Daughter-in-law, what does this mean? While my daughter warmly invited me to live, did she use her own mother to block my heart?
I felt very uncomfortable, picked up the phone and scolded my daughter, accusing her of being ungrateful and an unfamiliar white-eyed wolf. My daughter listened to all this in silence, but only persuaded me to pack my bags and go back to my house.
My daughter's indifference broke my heart. I didn't think too much about it, just packed my bags and prepared to leave. Watching me leave, my own mother wanted to say nothing, but in the end she didn't say anything.
If I hadn't come home and heard a neighbor ask me, he went to the hospital to see a doctor, how could he see your daughter in the hospital, and think you were sick too? The neighbor's words made me a little panicked, and I quickly called my daughter, I no longer remembered the gap between the mother and daughter when they quarreled.
Seeing me calling, my daughter still wanted to hide it, but her hoarse voice all revealed the exhaustion of this time. Under my continuous questioning, my daughter said that last month, the son-in-law's physical examination found a tumor in the body, and the doctor quickly arranged surgery and laboratory tests. She couldn't take care of her son-in-law and children alone, so she had to ask me to help take care of her for a few days. And all the 50,000 yuan she borrowed from me was taken to treat her son-in-law.
The daughter went on to say that you are not in good health, and we don't want you to worry, so we asked your mother-in-law to help take care of the child and let you go home to recuperate. Hearing this, I suddenly collapsed, and quickly dragged my wife to the hospital.
The son-in-law has only completed the operation for 2 days, and the test results have not yet come out, and everyone is waiting in torment. Seeing that we were anxious, my daughter blamed herself and persuaded us to go home and wait, saying that she would call us as soon as there was news.
But looking at our daughter, who was emaciated in just a few days, we were so distressed that we couldn't speak. Thinking of my little grandson who has never seen my parents at home makes me even more heart-wrenching.
My daughter wouldn't let us stay, saying that if we stayed with her to suffer, she was more likely to break down. And now is not the time for her to collapse, seeing her daughter so stubborn, my wife advised me to go back first to help my daughter settle the family and children.
Before leaving, I also stuffed the 300,000 passbooks I brought with me into my son-in-law's hands. This 300,000 yuan is all the pension money of my wife and me, and we did not intend to use it easily. But the son-in-law's condition is still unknown, if the daughter has no money in hand, how can they survive?
The son-in-law struggled and refused to accept it, but the daughter would only shed tears on the sidelines. Finally, the son-in-law offered to give us an IOU, saying that when he was well, he would slowly pay back the money.
I didn't want to accept my son-in-law's IOU, but my wife touched my elbow lightly, and I suddenly nodded and agreed. Seeing that we accepted the IOU, the son-in-law persuaded his daughter to take the passbook.
In the end, my wife helped me out of the hospital, but as soon as I got out of the hospital, I couldn't help but burst into tears. My daughter's son-in-law has only been married for 5 years, and my younger grandson is only 3 years old, I dare not imagine how my daughter-in-law will survive if she is diagnosed with a malignant tumor?
I didn't dare to persuade my daughter to plan early, because I couldn't do it. It's just that my wife and I worry about our daughter all day, worried about my son-in-law's condition, and even more worried that my daughter has spent 300,000 yuan, if it is still not enough, how can my daughter fill this bottomless pit?
Today's Topic:
In such a situation, will you persuade your daughter to divorce?