There was a true story before, and not many people paid attention.
But this is a living tragedy.
A 21-year-old nurse committed suicide due to occupational exposure...
Until the chat records before her death were exposed, people learned that she had a chance to live.
It is reported that the incident happened in Guangdong.
The protagonist is a trainee nurse Zhou Zhou (pseudonym), 21 years old this year.
That night, she was pulling needles for a hepatitis B patient.
The patient's phone suddenly rang, and he subconsciously raised his hand to answer it.
Unexpectedly, this action caused the needle to pierce the back of Zhou Zhou's hand...
Zhou Zhou screamed loudly in fright.
Seeing this, the colleague next to him immediately asked whether the patient had other medical history.
At the time, the patient denied it.
But something unfortunate happened.
That evening, the patient was identified as a hepatitis B carrier and also had MEI poisoning.
After reporting to the hospital, Zhou Zhou received the blocking drug.
However, for Zhou Zhou, there was an even more fatal blow.
After the occupational exposure, the hospital canceled her apprenticeship, and the leaders blamed her in every way.
Her boyfriend also disliked her and broke up with her.
The roommates heard that she was infected and distanced themselves from her.
I don't know how to face my family in the future.
All kinds of pressures became one straw after another that crushed her.
In the end, Zhou Zhou completely collapsed.
The trainee teacher could no longer contact her.
On August 2, Zhou Zhou directly took a month's blocking drug.
She chose suicide to end her life...
After being taken to the hospital, she suffered severe bleeding from her stomach and multiple organ failure.
Unfortunately, the 21-year-old's life was not saved.
Seeing such a result, Uncle Jiang felt sorry and sad.
This flower-like life had a chance to be saved.
If the patient realizes the seriousness of the matter and does not deliberately hide the medical history ...
If the director of leadership does not blame her, but tolerates and encourages her ...
If her boyfriend and roommate give her more care and understanding...
If the hospital can provide her with psychological treatment in time...
Every occupational exposure is a lifelong pain for healthcare workers.
Yet she received not comfort and sympathy, but blame and incomprehension.
Her beautiful life has just begun, and everything has come to an abrupt end.
It wasn't the virus that really killed her, but everyone who fell on her.
Such tragedies never stop.
Hunan's female Internet celebrity "Luo Xiaocat Cat" committed suicide by drinking pesticides live. "Luo Xiaocat Cat" has outstanding appearance and is a dressing anchor with 500,000 fans.
Her last video reads: "This is probably the last video. Thank you."
At the same time, she also revealed that she was suffering from depression. After experiencing two failed relationships, the condition worsened.
Originally, I just wanted to talk and vent, but I didn't really want to commit suicide at all.
In an interview after her suicide, her family said: "She didn't want to die, she just wanted to get her ex-boyfriend back. ”
When people realize that they have no way back, they have only two options:
But she did not wait for help, but waited for the urging and encouragement of netizens:
"Drink fast, drink fast, drink fast, drink fast!"
"It can't be urine in the bottle, will it?"
"Drink if you want, don't rub it!"
Even though she still had a trace of nostalgia for the world, it was completely cut off at that moment. "Luo Xiaocat Cat" drank the bottle of drink mixed with pesticides in despair.
Afterwards, she dialed 120 herself.
By the time she was taken to the hospital, it was too late. The 25-year-old girl is gone forever.
But if you can feel a little kindness, the girl will not give up her life.
A kind word is a light in the night. On the contrary, a bad word can push people into the abyss.
On June 17, fire officer Xiao Zhang received a call from a woman who wanted to kill herself.
After receiving the call, there was a burst of crying on the other end of the phone.
Answering officer: "Hello, what's wrong with you?" ”
Woman: "I am now abandoned by the whole world..."
Answering officer: "If you were abandoned by the world, then why are we still chatting now?" ”
Answering the policeman: "Think about it, you are so good-looking, why do you go to such a dirty river?" You're going home now..."
Woman: "Where do I have a home?" There is no home..."
Answer the policeman: "That's really not okay, you come to the fire brigade, take you to eat supper!" ”
Suddenly, the woman got emotional and hung up.
At a critical juncture, human lives are at stake.
Xiao Zhang immediately called back, asked again about the specific situation and confirmed his location.
Woman: "I don't know who to look for, so I called." ”
Answering the policeman: "You are right to find us!" ”
Woman: "I'm sorry, you guys worked so hard, I disturbed you..."
Answering officer: "It's okay, we're there 24 hours a day." ”
After a 30-minute call, Xiao Zhang gained the woman's trust. He managed to locate the woman, and rescuers immediately went to the scene.
It turned out that the woman couldn't think about it for a while because of family and emotional problems. Xiao Zhang continued to enlighten the woman and buy more rescue time for his teammates.
Answering the officer: "This kind of thing can't overwhelm us, right?" Anything will pass. You tell me where you are, shall we pick you up? ”
In the end, the woman was successfully rescued.
With his professionalism and calmness, warmth and kindness, he managed to save a life. Although he couldn't empathize, he understood and accompanied.
People who are in a desperate situation, they just crave a little warmth.
Perhaps this bit of goodwill is nothing to us.
But for them, it's the pillar to survive.
Recall a passage from Stetson in "Retreat Notes":
"A person who really wants to die doesn't care what people say. A person who speaks of death, in my experience, does not really want to die, but... Still longing for love. ”
Everyone who wants to commit suicide actually wants to live. To change those despairs, sometimes it just takes some love and warmth.
Someone once said, "If you stop and imagine someone sitting on the edge of a cliff and thinking that their only option is to end everything, then I really feel that they need help, they need someone to step in and save them." ”
Everyone who commits suicide is not actually a weak person in life.
They are experiencing unbearable pain for ordinary people, and they still want to do their best to survive.
And all we can do is lend a helping hand. Give them understanding and encouragement, even a little.
Perhaps it is a little light that makes them believe that nothing is desperate.
Life is not a pure land, and each has its own suffering.
Hopefully, such tragedies will not happen again.