After forming a group for 22 years, she was ridiculed as a tomboy and gave birth to a baby for love live broadcast, and the 42-year-old has now become like this
Recently, a topic of "You don't know SHE I don't know 101" rushed to the hot search, causing heated discussions on the whole network.
It turns out that unknowingly, the generation gap has become a chasm.
【1】
As the ceiling of the whole network voting for the girl group, SHE is definitely a mountain alone. In that DVD-only era, the streets were filled with SHE singing.
If Jay Chou is a youth song list, then SHE is the memory of youth.
No, on the stage of "Riding the Wind 2023", Ella set off a wave of memory killing. A song "Lovers are not full", the melody sounds, whose DNA moves again?
It seems that youth has never gone away, and ignorance and youth rush to my heart.
The barrage is even more full of screens full of "tears, whose youth will not have SHE?" ”
In the canvassing session, Ella sang "Super Star", the atmosphere was booming, and she instantly had a sense of déjà vu listening to the concert.
With her charming and sweet appearance and excellent singing and dancing ability, it seems that it is difficult to find the shadow of the "tomboy" on Ella anymore.
Even Ella joked to herself: The group has not been so sweet in 22 years.
Unexpectedly, they have been with us for so long.
It's hard to imagine that Ella is 42 years old.
It is said that the years are a knife and will not easily let anyone go, but the pickpocket sister sees more of the temperament precipitated by the years in Ella.
It seems that no matter how many storms we go through, Ella can always pull us back to the era of the rush of years, and she is always the brightest one on the stage.
【2】
Ella's childhood was full of ups and downs, her father lost her right hand due to a work injury, and her mother worked hard to raise several children.
Distressed that her mother's work was not easy, she learned to be independent and self-reliant early on.
At the age of 19, she accidentally participated in the show "Universe 2000 Strength Beautiful Girls Battle".
The original intention of signing up was only to get the "10,000 yuan bonus" after winning the championship and buy a sofa for the family.
However, she was eliminated after a lonely courage. Fortunately, all the gifts given by fate have long been secretly marked with a price.
The company changed the strategy of the draft and wanted to create an invincible girl group, so it signed three members of SHE as a group debut.
In the group, Ella is the embodiment of "brave", with short hair and capable hair, funny personality, and low voice, which is the most unique existence.
The debut album "Girls' Dormitory" delivered impressive results. The following year, he was also shortlisted for the Best Newcomer Award at the 13th Taiwan Golden Melody Awards with this album.
Immediately afterwards, the song "Super Star" came out, which made them famous and popular all over Asia. A song "Chinese Dialect" even appeared on the stage of the 2008 Spring Festival Gala and was sung by countless people.
Soon, 3 girls with different styles jumped from obscurity to the first girl group in Asia.
Xu is that everything came so violently, they began to "slow down" themselves, announcing that they would not disband solo flights. Singing and acting, Ella began to switch tracks and become an actor.
The lively and frank Lu Ruiyun in "Fancy Boys and Girls", and the "screen CP" combined with Wu Zun, I don't know how many people's youth memories.
Zheng Baili, an ordinary and kind girl in "Rose Love", has been despised for a long time, but she still maintains her kindness, and finally reaps her own happiness.
Not only that, she was also shortlisted for the Golden Bell Award for Best Actress with "True Destiny".
Since then, the road of actor, Ella has gone farther and farther, and has gradually been recognized and affirmed by her strength.
As much praise as you receive, you have to endure as much denigration.
Because she always shows herself as a "neutral image", many people question her as "transgender" and "gay", and even if she announces that she has a boyfriend, no one believes her.
In the face of malicious slander and questioning, she still insisted on herself, "I think girls don't have to be beautiful, they can also be very handsome, I dress like this, I will have confidence, and let other girls who are not beautiful see me and think girls can also wear like this." ”
No one can define who you are except yourself. Even if she is not understood and not favored, she does not give up, insists on herself, is loyal to her heart, runs all the way, and goes forward bravely.
【3】
In Ella's body, what you will always see is her delicate, brave, sunny, and warming everyone. In the group, she is the atmosphere in charge, as long as there is her place, she will not be cold.
But on the surface, she is grinning, but she is actually gentle and meticulous.
After Selina's accidental burns, Ella rushed to accompany her as soon as possible, and promised to pay for her mortgage and medical bills, reassuring her not to worry about money.
On the stage of the variety show "Creation Camp", Ella, as a mentor, showed her professional quality and standards. When the mentor offered to give trainee A, she spoke sensibly,
"If you give her A, you can't convince the public."
Whenever she competes, she cheers on the trainees, "Winning or losing is only temporary, maybe not playing well, but as long as you try your best, you must give yourself applause." ”
"Demotion doesn't mean denying that you didn't work hard, but letting us see another way of being you and reacquaintance with yourself."
Looking at Ella now, her personality is still funny and humorous, but her whole body exudes confidence, relaxation and happy energy.
And this energy is not the foundation of her life.
【4】
Compared with the smooth wind in her career and the courage and fearlessness in her personality, Ella is very pessimistic in the face of feelings. She was once disappointed in getting married, believing that she couldn't get married.
Until the appearance of Rice Xiang, he gave Ella unprecedented warmth like sunshine, healed her emotional wounds, and made her shine.
It is said that the way love appears is always unexpected, which is confirmed by Ella and Lai Sixiang.
In the beginning, Lai Sixiang was just a friend of her friend, with a distant relationship and never had much contact. At a party, the two collided with different sparks.
Afterwards, Lai Sixiang was obsessed with Ella and took the initiative to send a text message.
The phrase "what are you doing" made Ella ecstatic, and the meaning of the words was "I miss you".
After that day, they started dating, their relationship continued to heat up, and then they naturally got together.
After 7 months of love, Ella and Lai Sixiang flashed marriage. At the wedding, Lai Sixiang, who has always been restrained, went crazy with her, made trouble together, and was full of love.
After marriage, Lai Sixiang spoiled Ella to the bone and became her strong backing. In daily life, the words between the lines are full of pampering and praise for her.
When Ella's film is released, she will proudly proclaim "my woman's work".
The two people occasionally have conflicts, and it is always Lai Sixiang who takes the initiative to bow his head and show goodwill. For Ella, he gave up his career and willingly became her agent.
Even if she is attacked by various public opinions, he will gladly accept it and protect her.
Because of his sacrifice, Ella's heart slowly melted, "After being with him, I felt that I would also be loved." ”
Ella, who is full of thorns and has a strong appearance, becomes soft and warm under the protection of her lover. She grew her hair long, put on high heels, and tried skirts she had never dared to wear before.
After 4 years of marriage, they ushered in the crystallization of love. In order to record this sacred moment, she chose to live broadcast the baby.
In the video, she screamed in pain again and again, and the moment the child was born, everyone cried with joy.
From being alone, to the world of two, and now to the happy family of three, no one expected that the once lonely and courageous "tomboy" with full personality would transform into such a gentle and virtuous wife.
Probably this is the power of love, so that each other will shine. Meeting good love and meeting the right person can really heal everything.
Now Ella has long become a winner in life, she is no longer confused, no longer afraid, but in her own life, not hurried, feel the most beautiful scenery.
Lu Yu said of Ella in the show, "She is a very enterprising girl, without initiative, it is impossible to get to where she is today." ”
22 years after her debut, the word "brave" is the background of Ella's life. She has always bravely challenged and challenged more possibilities in life.
In her career, she is proactive and enterprising, from the beginning of the group to the transformation into an actor and host, she has never stopped and never let up.
In life, she is more than confident, whether as a wife, mother or friend, she can be praised for everything.
Through ups and downs, she turned around again and again, re-recognized herself, and constantly sought breakthroughs and growth.
Now, the 42-year-old Ella is once again riding the wind and waves on the stage of "Sister Lang 4", exuding enthusiasm with vitality, and combining gentleness and courage.
Kudos to her, bless her.
Sister Pickpocket also wishes that everyone who eats melons will not set limits on their lives, not be defined by age, bravely transform, and live their lives as they want them most.