Hu Ke said, "Don't treat your husband as your own", her marriage with Sha Yi has long been a chicken feather

Sha Yi galloped in major variety shows, and Hu Ke was talking about lotus flowers in the live broadcast room, after all, Hu Can was the host before, and the mouth was still quite good.

In the latest live broadcast, Hu Ke said: Don't treat the other half as your own, don't always think of relying on your husband. Just because you are married, you can't have no sense of boundaries for your husband, and the feelings of marriage need to be managed.

It sounds quite reasonable, Hu Ke's original intention is to sell goods, let the couple increase the sense of ritual in life, remember to buy some gifts for each other on the holiday anniversary.

It can't be said that Hu Ke is wrong, but the "way of getting along in marriage" comes out of her mouth and lacks convincing.

Netizen comment: This is not a love preservation secret at all, it is Hu Ke who sees through the essence of marriage and knows that men are unreliable.

To sum it up, Hu Ke's own marriage is also a chicken feather.

1. Sha Yi forced marriage, accurately grasped Hu Ke

Hu Ge and Sha Yi met in an interview show, Sha Yi was the guest and Hu Ke was the host. Doesn't it feel familiar?

That's right, it's the same as Wu Jing and Xie Nan's acquaintance mode, except that Wu Jing is good at playing straight ball, and he launches a fierce attack after falling in love at first sight.

But Sha Yi was not, the two were at most a little good at that time, and what really brought them together was the TV series "Breaking In" broadcast in 2010, and they were the male and female protagonists.

Their relationship did not last long, and Sha Yi called Hu Ke and said: Do you want to marry me, if you don't get married, we will break up.

Hu Ke must have feelings for Sha Yi, but she didn't think about it at the time, after all, Sha Yi was three years younger than her, and she didn't want to enter into marriage with Sha Yi so soon.

In the face of Sha Yi's forced marriage, Hu Ke had no way, and she didn't want to give up her feelings for Sha Yi, so she hurriedly entered the marriage.

Later, Hu Ke said in "Wife Travel" that she did not get a formal marriage proposal, which was her regret.

2. Forced to interrupt her career, Sha Yi did not support her work, and Hu Ke repeatedly expressed regret for getting married

In February 2011, Sha Yi Hu Ke held a wedding, and in July Hu Ke gave birth to his eldest son Anji. At that time, Sha Yi's fame was not particularly large, and the money he earned was not enough to buy a house in Beijing, and the two moved many times in Beijing.

Therefore, at that time, Hu Kedu returned to his mother's home in Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province for confinement and asked his mother to help bring up the child.

During that period, Hu Ke's career development was better than Sha Yi's, but in order to have children, she reluctantly interrupted her career and became a full-time mother.

But Hu Ke is a very strong person, her friends once said: I never thought that Hu Ke would give up his career for the sake of his family.

In fact, Hu Ke's heart did not give up, and three years after giving birth to his second son, Hu Ke wanted to continue filming. But Sha Yi did not support it on the grounds that filming was too hard, hoping that Hu Ke would continue to take care of his family.

So much so that Hu Ke said in the show: Filming is not hard, your attitude makes me feel hard.

Hu Ke said in public several times that he regretted getting married. But regret does not have a time machine, she can only accept and change the status quo.

So Hu Ke insisted on filming, although there were not many role scenes, but they all impressed the audience, such as Princess Chun in "The Legend of Ruyi", Sister Ling in "You Are My Glory", Feng Yuhua in "An Home", and the mother of the heroine in "Qing Qing's Daily".

I have to say that Hu Ke is really good at picking scripts, and most of the dramas he participated in are hits!

3. Sha Yi has a good mouth and an unstable temper

Doesn't Sha Yi love Hu Ke? Not necessarily, Hu Ke said, Sha Yi likes to express love very much, and will always put "I love you" on his lips.

Sha Yi is a typical lip service, but the actual action cannot keep up. Sha Yi's love is that his wife and children are hot, rather than treating his wife as an independent individual and respecting her personal value.

For example, Sha Yi knew that Hu Ke had a hard time taking children and doing housework, and would say on his lips: "My wife has worked hard."

But Hu Ke broke the news that Sha Yi never did housework, and even if the vinegar bottle was poured, he would not think of lifting it up.

Sha Yi himself said that he never did housework, and if the house was messy, he would use his foot to make a move.

Sha Yi will save a large bag of dirty clothes in the crew to take home, and then let Hu Ke clean up.

Sha Yi also said that the only thing he can do is play with his children.

Although Sha Yi is a silly big brother image in front of the screen, he actually has a good temper. Hu Ke said that after he quarreled with Sha Yi, Sha Yi blacked himself out, and it was either a long time ago or a recent incident.

Then Sha Yi explained: Anyway, after I said what I wanted to say, I felt comfortable in my heart, so I blacked her out, and then threw the phone away and went to sleep.

It sounded like Sha Yi still felt that he was doing a good job, and his words were full of pride. Substitute Hu Ke, it is indeed going to be angry.

4. The state of true happiness

Hu Ke and Sha Yi are by no means the so-called "model couple" that is widely rumored, at least many viewers see a more self-focused Sha Yi in their marriage, and Hu Ke who is exhausted by marriage.

Hu Ke appeared on the screen, and the audience had only one word to describe it: exhaustion.

And truly happy women have light in their eyes, such as Sun Li.

Although many people said that Sun Li's face changed and looked fierce. But all along, Sun Li's eyes were bright.

Also gave birth to two children, Sun Li has never delayed her career. Deng Chao is also a busy person, but in family life, he is not less involved than Sun Li.

In comparison, Sun Li and Deng Chao's marriage relationship, as well as the parent-child relationship between them, are more harmonious and healthier.

There is also Tang Yan, Tang Yan is 40 years old this year, only one year younger than Sun Li. But her state is still so girly, so she is always surrounded by love and immersed in a happy life.

Although Luo Jin and Tang Yan do not often show affection, love is written on Tang Yan's face.

The era when "the husband is responsible for making money to support the family and the wife is responsible for beauty like a flower" will gradually become a thing of the past, and in the future, both husband and wife will have to share the responsibility of childcare and work hard together.

Everyone has their own life value embodiment, should not be confined to one world, Hu Ke, who is very career-minded, has made changes, I believe she will get better and better in the future.