The TV series "Mature Year" has been broadcast until now, the marriage of Ni Weiqiang and Zhang Chunmei can be said to be the most attention-giving plot, and the sudden mid-life crisis has also made this seemingly perfect marriage become full of holes!
In the end, in Zhang Chunmei's extreme struggle in her heart, seriously thinking about her relationship with Ni Weiqiang, it was already irreparable, and after considering the situation of Ni's mother, Zhang Chunmei agreed to divorce on the "condition" of being responsible for supporting Ni's mother, even though she was reluctant and unwilling, but Zhang Chunmei finally decided to "let go" him as Ni Weiqiang wished!
When all the procedures for divorce were completed, Zhang Chunmei calmly sat on the steps to eat pancake fruit, Ni Weiqiang was also willing to listen to her for a long time, when Zhang Chunmei responded to Ni Weiqiang's previous accusations of "giant baby" and "cybernetics" in a joking tone, the moment she turned away, Zhang Chunmei actually completed the greatest reconciliation with herself.
Although Zhang Chunmei, who was a "big parent" in the eyes of everyone, before Ni Weiqiang's "middle-aged rebellion" and various abnormal behaviors, had a successful career and was also taken care of at home, she never thought that she would one day embark on the road of divorce, even though she and Ni Weiqiang had very little time to meet, even though they always lacked the necessary communication, but in Zhang Chunmei's heart, she never felt that this would affect their marriage.
After all, Zhang Chunmei has always done her best to take care of Ni Weiqiang and the entire family, so that Ni Weiqiang can do research without family troubles and peace of mind!
But who would have thought that all this was completely ignored by Ni Weiqiang, and even regarded his own care and care as his "control", only resentment and wanting to get rid of his own thoughts, and even unwilling to communicate with himself, hysterical, iron-hearted divorce, completely disregarding his own feelings.
This is undoubtedly the biggest blow to Zhang Chunmei, compared to divorce, Ni Weiqiang's groundless accusations against herself may be the most collapsed, so Zhang Chunmei is unwilling to accept it, even if she knows Ni Weiqiang's decisive attitude, even if she knows that the whole thing has gone to an irreparable point, but still makes various efforts - Ni's mother's intervention, son's intervention, and psychiatrist's intervention! She just wants a reason to believe and accept!
Perhaps at the moment of formal divorce, Zhang Chunmei was still unwilling in her heart, but at that moment, Zhang Chunmei maintained enough calm, and finally recognized the reality, a period full of holes, a fundamental deviation and misunderstanding, a marriage that can no longer continue, even if there are thousands of reluctances, you can only let go, so that both parties can be freed and live the life they want, that sentence "you are free" is also a complete reconciliation with themselves!
After the divorce, Zhang Chunmei is still a member of the Ni family, she will still do her best to take care of Ni's mother and do what she has been doing, although there is no marriage with Ni Weiqiang, but the family relationship she and the Ni family has established for decades cannot be separated, rather than stubbornly trapped in the tug-of-war of marriage, it is better to free yourself!
Obviously, Zhang Chunmei still loves Ni Weiqiang deeply, but she chose to reconcile with herself, let go of her obsession with Ni Weiqiang, and also let go of her obsession to save her marriage, since this marriage has begun to make each other painful, then let it end, give both parties a chance to start over, since marriage has become an obstacle to communication between two people, then jump out of it, since Ni Weiqiang let himself let him go, then give him freedom!
With Zhang Chunmei's ability and freedom, the future days will only get better, out of the pain of marriage, but also will usher in a new life, career and life will also have a new situation, after reconciliation with themselves, maybe you can look at everything from a more rational perspective! What do you think about this?