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After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

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In 2005, 46-year-old actor Gao Xiumin died of a heart attack.

At her funeral, there were two men who cried uncontrollably, one was He Qingkui, a close lover who had been with her for many years.

The other is Zhao Benshan, the partner of the former "Iron Triangle".

Faced with Gao Xiumin's portrait, the two men promised at the same time that they would help her take care of her newly graduated daughter Li Xuan.

Who knew that the promise in his mouth was not yet cold, He Qingkui turned around and returned to the original match.

exposed the fact that Gao Xiumin had been with him for many years but had never obtained a marriage license.

Let the deceased Gao Xiumin bear the infamy of the mistress!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

And Zhao Benshan, who fell out with Gao Xiumin before, made the same vow, 17 years have passed, did he do it?

Why did Gao Xiumin not forgive Zhao Benshan until he died?

What kind of unknown secrets are behind the dissolution of the "Iron Triangle"?

How is her daughter Li Xuan doing now?

1:

Gao Xiumin was born in 1959 in Buyeo, Liaoning.

Unlike the rich image presented on stage in her impression, she was slim until she got married, except for her height.

Of course, these reasons are inseparable from the poverty in my family when I was a child.

This was also the common situation in the countryside at that time.

However, although the life at home is always hungry and full, it is based on the principle that no matter how hard you are, you can't suffer your children.

Gao Xiumin's childhood was stable and happy.

Her parents always loved to show her performances on the local rural stage.

In this vast black land, the art form of duozhuan is rooted in almost every household here.

Gao Xiumin's parents were of course also deeply affected.

Although he did not embark on the road of literature and art, it did not affect the two paragraphs between agricultural busyness.

Under such a subtle influence, Gao Xiumin became very interested in the duo at a very young age.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Maybe it's the art cells that flow in your bones.

Although her family never hired a teacher for her, she imitated the performance of the actors on stage.

At the age of 19, she had already become a regular on the local "Red and White Happy Event" stage.

It is not inferior to the performance of professional actors, which makes the villagers in Shiliba Township full of praise.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

It was at the performance site of these "red and white happy events".

Gao Xiumin met He Qingkui, who was 11 years older than her.

It's just that at that time, Gao Xiumin himself did not know the real identity of He Qingkui, who was blowing in the band, and was a script editor.

At that time, many of the "two-person turn" scripts performed were written by him.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Of course, Gao Xiumin did not have time to understand these situations.

The two, who did not have a deep relationship, soon parted ways, and their destinies went on completely different paths.

It was years after we met!

Fast forward to 1997, and the Yufu refinery propaganda team was recruiting actors.

Gao Xiumin, who did not want to always mix with the "grass platform", participated in this selection.

Perhaps its own foundation is there, dozens of people participate in the recruitment, as long as there are three places, Gao Xiumin was still selected.

Became a member of the refinery propaganda team.

Although nominally a performance publicity team, Gao Xiumin found that after joining, he had less opportunities to perform than before.

More time is spent performing for employees in the factory.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Although it is as popular as ever, it is clearly not what Gao Xiumin wants.

So in 1978, after working for a year, she saw the recruitment poster put up by the "Yufu Civic Art Troupe".

I couldn't resist signing up again.

In fact, Gao Xiumin has always been more confident in her business ability, and thought that this registration was also a matter of hand, but she failed.

Thinking that all the conditions were met, she was not convinced and found the deputy head of the regiment who was in charge of recruitment at that time.

Faced with this girl who broke the casserole and asked to the end, the deputy head of the group could only answer truthfully.

"Girl, you meet all the conditions, but you are too thin!"

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

It turned out that the "Folk Art Troupe" wanted to find an actor who could play an older role this time, but Gao Xiumin, who was slender at that time, obviously couldn't.

After losing the election, Gao Xiumin was very unhappy, and she had no choice but to return to the refinery to continue working.

It was at that time that he was introduced to his husband.

Not long after marriage, she gave birth to her daughter Li Xuan.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Maybe it was the reason for giving birth to the child, or maybe Gao Xiumin was obsessed with what the deputy commander said.

Her figure visibly swelled.

Gao Xiumin once again found the Yufu Folk Art Troupe that eliminated her.

This time, I became a part of it.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Coincidentally, after joining the folk art troupe, her husband worked in the refinery with him.

He was also transferred to the city cultural bureau.

The couple began to live in separate places, and their daughter followed Gao Xiumin.

After working in the folk art troupe, in order to improve his business, Gao Xiumin joined the then famous performance artist Guan Changrong.

Through the guidance of her teacher and her own efforts, she began to make her mark in the folk art troupe.

Within a few years, he was promoted from ordinary actor to deputy director.

At the same time, He Qingkui, who was forced by life, had to give up his job as a screenwriter and sell fish in the vegetable market.

One day, Gao Xiumin saw him while shopping for vegetables.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

2:

Big brother, who knew each other in the early years, has now fallen to this point.

Gu Dao's enthusiastic Gao Xiumin recalled He Qingkui's care for her at that time, and naturally talked, hoping to help in any way he could.

When he learned that this big brother was still a screenwriter and read the script he carefully took out of his arms.

Sigh that He Qingkui's talent should not be buried.

It happened that the art troupe also lacked screenwriters, so he sincerely invited He Qingkui to join the folk art troupe as an ordinary screenwriter.

Dedicated to creating the script for the show!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

You must know that He Qingkui was almost unable to eat at that time.

Gao Xiumin's approach completely solved his urgent needs.

I was very grateful in my heart and returned the favor for creating a sketch script for Gao Xiumin.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Although colleagues in the art troupe were not optimistic at that time, it was with this script that Gao Xiumin won the first place in the provincial cultural performance at that time.

At this point, Gao Xiumin, who saw He Qingkui's talent, was even more unrestrained.

And He Qingkui also became Gao Xiumin's royal screenwriter in the days to come.

One behind the scenes writes the script, one performs the show in front of the stage.

The two who happen to cooperate tacitly are very committed to their careers.

Coming and going, spending even more time together than spending time with the other half of their respective families.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

However, people at that time were more traditional in their thinking.

Two people with their own families have been working together for a long time.

It is inevitable that there will be rumors.

Although Gao Xiumin's big grinning personality does not care about other people's opinions.

But it is impossible to ignore the damage caused to He Qingkui, after all, he is also a person with a family.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Perhaps it was just because of this, in order to avoid suspicion, Gao Xiumin resigned from the position of deputy director of the Yufu Civil Art Troupe.

became a self-employed duo turned actor.

I wanted to get rid of the rumors.

But unexpectedly, He Qingkui also quit his job in the art troupe and accompanied her.

He even fell out with his wife at home.

It was also in this year that the stage of the National Sketch Competition held in Shenzhen in 1992.

Gao Xiumin won the gold award with the sketch "Baggage" created by He Qingkui!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

At this point, Gao Xiumin, who became famous in World War I, gained both fame and fortune, and performances across the country occupied almost all of her time.

The task of taking care of her daughter Li Xuan had to fall to her husband.

It was right, Gao Xiumin was busy with work for a long time and ignored family dissatisfaction, plus rumors about He Qingkui reached her husband's ears.

The few time the two spent together also turned into endless quarrels.

The choice of family and career was put in front of Gao Xiumin.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

In fact, about this marriage, Gao Xiumin is not without salvation.

The conflict between Nai He and her husband has accumulated for a long time, and it is far from being solved simply by giving up his career and returning to the family.

Therefore, as a result, the two still came to the point of divorce.

It is always the children who are hurt by the divorce of the parents.

Although her daughter Li Xuan didn't say anything, it was still difficult to accept this cruel fact in her heart.

After living with her mother for a long time, Li Xuan became depressed.

It was the love of her stepfather He Qingkui that made her gradually come out of the haze at a young age!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

3:

The reason for the divorce seems to have nothing to do with He Qingkui on the surface, but in fact it is inseparable from him.

After recovering singleness, Gao Xiumin has a thriving career while his relationship with He Qingkui has also undergone qualitative changes.

However, unlike Gao Xiumin's decisive choice of divorce,

He Qingkui never went through divorce procedures with his wife.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Such a strange relationship made the three of them awkward.

In the end, He Qingkui's wife chose to give in and returned to her hometown in Guangzhou with her grandson.

Left her husband He Qingkui to accompany Gao Xiumin in her future life.

Perhaps out of such gratitude,

Despite the fact that he already lives with He Qingkui.

But for the next 14 years, Gao Xiumin never urged He Qingkui to divorce his wife.

Therefore, Gao Xiumin, who did not have a marriage letter after his death, bore the stigma of "Little Mistress"!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

In 1996, Zhao Benshan was dissatisfied with the sketch that was about to appear on the Spring Festival Gala, and the trustee found He Qingkui to revise the script.

The three met because of this.

At that time, this future sketch king Zhao Benshan was trying to create his own "golden team".

The appearance of He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin made him ecstatic!

Perhaps it is the hero who cherishes the hero and faces the olive branch thrown by Zhao Benshan.

Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui nodded and agreed without much consideration, so they added Fan Wei later.

The future popular "Iron Triangle" was officially unveiled on the stage of the 1997 Spring Festival Gala.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

So far, for more than 10 years, the four people who have achieved each other have stepped into the highlight of their respective careers.

However, what the world does not know is that there is already an undercurrent behind the seemingly superficial prosperity.

A year before Gao Xiumin died, the "Iron Triangle" group fell apart!

It is said that Gao Xiumin's dissatisfaction has a long history.

Perhaps it is the difference in the environment in which the two grew up, compared to Zhao Benshan, who survived from a hard life, Gao Xiumin values the friendship between each other.

In this way, the two are completely different in their attitude towards Fan Wei.

In Zhao Benshan's concept, Fan Wei became popular by relying on him, and naturally did not give much in the distribution of performance remuneration.

Even to the point that Gao Xiumin couldn't stand it.

According to rumors, Zhao Benshan took 200,000 yuan for a commercial performance that year, and only gave Fan Wei 7,000 yuan.

After Gao Xiumin found out, he fought for Fan Wei.

Zhao Benshan didn't pay attention, so in a performance where she and Fan Wei went out alone, Gao Xiumin paid 55 points.

Now Zhao Benshan stopped working.

Gao Xiumin called and asked, "Sister, you are so bad to say hello to me, how will I divide it after you give him so much?" ”

But these words fell into Gao Xiumin's ears and became inexplicable.

What does my two separate performances have to do with "Iron Triangle"?

Don't you give it and don't allow me to give it?

Gao Xiumin, who values righteousness and light profit, became dissatisfied with his big brother Zhao Benshan for the first time.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

It is worth mentioning that after Gao Xiumin left, Fan Wei also said goodbye to the "iron triangle" and many people, including Zhao Benshan, thought it was different.

After leaving the comedy stage, he proved himself with movies!

If these are just secret rumors.

Then the incident that happened before the Spring Festival in 2003 confirmed that the rumors were not groundless.

On the eve of the rehearsal of the "Iron Triangle" Spring Festival Gala sketch, Gao Xiumin received a plea from a friend to perform "save the scene", and it is clear from the previous description that Gao Xiumin is a very enthusiastic and grinning person.

So considering that the distance is not far, I can rush back on the night after the performance without delaying the rehearsal of the Spring Festival Gala sketch, and I set off without saying a word.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Perhaps in a hurry when leaving, Gao Xiumin forgot to say hello to Zhao Benshan.

Coincidentally, the rehearsal that night, which was scheduled for the review the day after tomorrow, was brought forward.

Therefore, despite trying his best to rush back, Gao Xiumin, who was belated, was still too short in preparation time, and the review and rehearsal effect was not good.

Zhao Benshan was furious, and Gao Xiumin, who had a loss, also admitted his mistake.

In exchange for Zhao Benshan's endless nagging, Gao Xiumin, who was born in the northeast, still failed to hold down his fiery temper.

Take He Qingkui out of anger!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

In 2004, after leaving Zhao Benshan, He Qingkui's screenwriter Gao Xiumin performed the TV series "Shengshui Lakeside" jointly invested by the two and quietly released, which triggered a boom in movie watching.

Break the rumor that there will be no fire if you leave Zhao Benshan.

It is worth mentioning that her daughter Li Xuan, who has just graduated, also participated, thinking that under the protection of her mother, this would be the beginning of her career.

Unexpectedly, this is the only TV series she has participated in in the entertainment industry!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

The popularity of "Holy Water Lakeside" put the shooting of the sequel on the agenda.

However, it was on the eve of filming.

In February 2005, He Qingkui's eldest son died in a serious car accident while driving home and was ineffective.

He Qingkui was overwhelmed with grief, and the filming of the TV series was forced to be put on hold.

Unexpectedly, in just the past few months, Gao Xiumin, who was alone at home in August, suffered another heart attack and his life was forever frozen at the age of 46.

The double blow made He Qingkui white overnight.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

In front of the Spirit Hall, Zhao Benshan, who rushed in, cried even more uncontrollably, trembling and saying, "Sister, brother is late!" ”

Perhaps it was at this time that Zhao Benshan let go of the mustard in his heart.

Unfortunately, such a misunderstanding has no chance to talk to each other.

However, Zhao Benshan at that time also promised to take good care of Li Xuan,

Now, 17 years later, has it been done?

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

4: Ending

In fact, Li Xuan also admitted in a later interview that it was her personal choice to go to Beijing alone after her mother's death.

Whether it is stepfather He Qingkui, or Zhao Benshan, or even Fan Wei.

All gave themselves enough care and help.

She politely declined these, after all, the prosperous and changeable entertainment industry is really not her favorite.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

These elders also respected her choice.

Therefore, after Li Xuan withdrew from the entertainment industry, many people misunderstood that Zhao Benshan had ignored his promise.

In 2007, at Li Xuan's wedding, Zhao Benshan sincerely sent blessings to this niece.

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

Now Li Xuan also has his own son Liu Zitian.

As this son gradually grew up, a trace of Gao Xiumin's shadow could be vaguely seen between his eyebrows.

And for this Liu Zitian, Zhao Benshan is also very fond of him.

Li Xuan also often took her to visit this aging elder!

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

After Gao Xiumin died, Zhao Benshan, who promised to help her raise her daughter, 17 years have passed, has it been done?

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