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"I have been married 3 times, and in this life, I will not marry again."
At that time, Song Dandan participated in "Strange Words", when asked about his feelings about marriage, what Song Dandan said, when he said this, Song Dandan's face was full of pain and helplessness, as well as his "disgust" for marriage.
Of course, it can also be understood, after all, the former Song Dandan really suffered from marriage.
Especially in the 8-year marriage with Yingda, Song Dandan was extremely humble, not only taking over all the housework at home, but also working hard to support the family.
However, in the end, there was no happiness, and the marriage ended dismally with the infidelity of both parties.
In the blink of an eye, the two have been divorced for 26 years, and now their lives are "one in the sky and one in the ground", and their life circumstances are very different.
And Yingda finally paid the price for what he did!
"I often despicably hope that he will be disabled, even if he is not disabled, even if he is sick, because in this way, I can be by his side every day to prove my unwavering love for him."
This is the words that Song Dandan once wrote on his social platform, and between the lines, it revealed that when Song Dandan's feelings first opened, he had strong feelings for the young Yuan Gang.
When Song Dandan was 19 years old, the college entrance examination system had just been restored, and in order to be able to participate in the college entrance examination, Song Dandan began a busy preparation time.
By chance, Song Dandan saw the handsome and dashing Yuan Gang on the basketball court, and with only that glance, Yuan Gang became the lingering "white moonlight" in Song Dandan's heart.
At that time, Song Dandan, who had a warm personality like a coquettish yang, was different from the shame of other girls, and after determining his intention for Yuan Gang, Song Dandan began to launch a fierce love offensive against the male god.
Therefore, Song Dan wrote many, many love poems to Yuan Gang to express his heart, even if he was rejected by Yuan Gang, Song Dandan was not discouraged, but continued to work hard.
Just as the so-called "female chasing male compartment yarn", coupled with Song Dandan when he was young, his appearance was outstanding, his temperament was dusty, and in the face of the pursuit of big beauty, Yuan Gang quickly fell.
Later, Song Dandan invited Yuan Gang to the zoo, and that time, Song Dandan finally won the "white moonlight" in his heart as he wished, and the two kissed affectionately in front of the fence of the zoo and confirmed their relationship.
Because this is Song Dandan's first time in love, and the other party is his own person who is liked by others and chased by his heart, therefore, Song Dandan's love is particularly warm.
At that time, every time Song Dandan mentioned his boyfriend Yuan Gang in front of his friends, his face was always full of happy smiles, and there were words that could never be said.
"Several other girls in our class listened to her (Song Dandan) about their feelings of love."
Later, Song Dandan's classmate Wang Ji also mentioned how happy Song Dandan was in his first love at that time in an interview.
Perhaps it is precisely because Song Dandan attaches too much importance to love and spends his thoughts on love, so he wasted his studies, so that he later failed the college entrance examination, but Yuan Gang was admitted to Peking University with excellent results.
However, this did not affect Song Dandan to go to love, so after that, Song Dandan would run to Peking University whenever he had time to find Yuan Gang on a date.
There was even a time when Song Dandan was on a whim and wanted to see Yuan Gang, so he braved the heavy snow and found Yuan Gang at 12 o'clock.
However, Yuan Gang is different from Song Dandan's "love brain", he is a top student with lofty ideals, and in his world, love is only a small part of life.
And the clingy under Song Dandan's strong love affected the pursuit of ideals and became a burden for Yuan Gang, so that later, Yuan Gang chose to go abroad without hesitation to get rid of Song Dandan's entanglement.
With the departure of Yuan Gang, Song Dandan's 5-year-long first love also died.
Because he was hurt too deeply in this relationship, in order to compensate for the pain of his lost love, Song Dandan chose to "tear down the east wall to make up for the western wall" after Yuan Gang left for 3 months, and flash married a man he did not love.
Perhaps this marriage did not arouse any emotional fluctuations in Song Dandan, of course, it may be that this relationship experience was not pleasant, so the marriage ended quickly, and Song Dandan rarely mentioned this marriage.
It is precisely because of this that to this day, no one knows the story that happened in Song Dandan's marriage, and even the male protagonist of this marriage is still a mystery.
After the end of the first marriage, Song Dandan ushered in a long period of emotional gap.
Until 1987, when Song Dandan participated in the rehearsal of "Arsonist", he met Yingda, the male protagonist of his second marriage.
At that time, Yingda, like Song Dandan, had a failed marriage before.
It is reported that Yingda loved his wife very much in his first marriage, and even used his family resources to help his wife's career go to a higher level.
It's a pity that after his wife's career went to a higher level, she felt that Yingda was not worthy of herself, and just like that, Yingda was abandoned miserably.
The same are two people who have been hurt in love, and they cherish each other after meeting.
In addition, Yingda is indeed very good at pleasing women, often shushing Song Dandan and asking for warmth, soon, Song Dandan felt a different love experience in Yingda's care, and this experience made Song Dandan fall in love quickly.
At that time, one was a prominent family in Beijing, and one was born in a rare "top family" in China, although it declined in the Yingda generation, but the family heritage was still there, and the two were in charge.
Therefore, for the relationship between the two, the family behind them is also happy to see it, so the two smoothly entered the palace of marriage together.
However, at that time, Song Dandan only thought that Yingda, who accidentally broke into his life, was the salvation of his own life, but he didn't know that it was the beginning of another abyss.
After marriage, Yingda changed her gentleness before marriage, and soon appeared in her original form, not only lost all her housework to Song Dandan, but also soon lost her job because she offended the leader.
So the burden of supporting the family fell on Song Dandan's shoulders.
After that, in the 8-year marriage with Yingda, Song Dandan was a pampered Jinghuan Gege, at home, learned to cook and laundry, take care of his family, and outside, and be able to be alone and make money to support his family.
Because he wants to maintain this marriage with Yingda well, Song Dandan is always obedient.
When she asked for money, she was always able to generously take out her savings.
When Yingda is unhappy, she always wonders if she is not doing well.
As Song Dandan said, in the marriage with Yingda, she was always busy giving and telling Yingda that no matter how big the difficulties she was, she could carry them.
However, carrying it, Song Dandan forgot that she was also a princess held in the palm of her parents' hands, and forgot that she was also a woman who needed to be loved and cared for.
However, misfortune and fortune depended on each other, and that period of not being cared for also made Song Dandan grow rapidly, so she became a "well-known actor" and "queen of sketches".
And behind every title, is Song Dandan's continuous efforts and dedication.
At that time, after Song Dandan was pregnant with Batu, the child of Yingda, in order to seize the opportunity to partner with Huang Hong to participate in "Super Life Guerrilla", she insisted on participating in the performance and insisting on rehearsals with her eight-year-old pregnant big belly.
In the end, relying on this drama, it became a hit, and this was the famous Song Dandan.
It's just that these efforts and efforts were not seen by Yingda, Yingda only saw Song Dandan's radiance, and these rays stung Yingda's self-esteem very much.
Especially later, when everyone saw Yingda, they no longer called Yingda's name, but replaced it with "Song Dandan's husband", Yingda even felt that his position as the head of the family in the family was seriously challenged.
This makes Yingda, who is full of machismo in his heart, completely unacceptable.
Therefore, as Song Dandan's career became better and better, Yingda's dissatisfaction with Song Dandan became more and more prosperous, and in order to be out of sight, Yingda began not to go home all year round.
And Song Dandan wants both inside and outside, and there is no time to pay attention to Yingda's small emotions, which also makes Yingda's heart even more depressed.
And at this time, Yingda, who was eager to relieve his inner distress, accidentally met screenwriter Liang Huan.
At that time, Liang Huan admired Yingda's talent very much, so every time Liang Huan looked at Yingda, his eyes were always full of worship, and this adoring look made Yingda finally find the dignity of a man, so the two sparked love and then walked together.
At first, everyone did not believe that Yingda would have a relationship with Liang Huan, after all, Liang Huan was very ordinary in appearance, with single eyelids, a collapsed nose, and a fierce face, and a bloated figure.
Compared with Song Dandan at that time, it was simply an ugly duckling meeting a white swan.
In his career, Song Dandan, who has already caught fire, is even more victorious.
However, Yingda fell in love with Liang Huan, especially the adoring look in Liang Huan's eyes when he looked at him.
After learning that Yingda betrayed the marriage, Song Dandan was angry and hurt, especially when he learned that Yingda was still looking at a woman who was inferior to himself, Song Dandan was even more angry.
So, under anger, Song Dandan chose to use cheating to "retaliate" Yingda's betrayal of this marriage when he had not yet divorced Yingda, so that Yingda could also taste the taste of green hat.
Even in 1997, Song Dandan, who dared to love and hate, directly announced his cheating at the press conference, putting Yingda being green, on the bright side, not only that, Song Dandan also officially filed for divorce to Yingda.
In this way, the 10-year marriage between the two ended, and after that, they began to go their own love.
It's just that the taste of green hats makes Yingda very uncomfortable, so after the divorce of the two, Yingda did not plan to let Song Dandan go.
In order to take revenge on Song Dandan, Yingda began to wantonly smear Song Dandan, hyping that Song Dandan had mental illness.
Not only that, but he also ignored the child's desire for father's love, took back Batu's surname, completely cutting off the bridge of communication with his son Batu.
And for his indifference, Yingda also found enough excuses, saying that he had divorced Song Dandan, so he could no longer play the role of a father and hurt his children.
And Yingda's indifference to Batu also made Song Dandan very cold, after all, the grudges of the previous generation should not be angered on the child.
Because he felt sorry for Batu, Song Dandan stood up more than once, held his grievances for his son, and condemned Yingda's cold-bloodedness.
However, no matter how Song Dandan condemned, Yingda did not respond, because at this time, he found something more important in life, and he wanted to use his mind to cultivate Ying Rudi, that is, Yingda and Liang Huan's children.
It is said that in order to cultivate Ying Rudi to become talented, when Ying Rudi was 3 years old, Ying Da went all over Beijing, invited a famous piano master for Ying Rudi, and taught Ying Rudi to learn the piano.
Later, he knew that his son Ying Rudi liked ice hockey and was very talented in ice hockey, so Yingda sent Ying Rudi to the ice hockey club.
However, it is not easy to raise a child, in order to have enough money to support Ying Rudi's cultivation, Yingda changed the lazy appearance when she was with Song Dandan, and began to go out to make money, and even for money, she was willing to take on any work.
In order to take good care of Ying Rudi, Yingda, who used to be with Song Dandan for a while, did not stain the sun and spring water, and also learned all the housework and became a son slave.
However, all his preferences for Ying Rudi were something that Batuu could not get no matter how hard he tried.
However, Ying Rudi did not disappoint Yingda, and now he has become an ice hockey player, and even represented his country in the Winter Olympics.
Because of this, today's Ying Rudi has become Yingda's pride, and every time, when facing the camera, Yingda will always praise and appreciate her youngest son Ying Rudi.
It's just that although Ying Rudi has become Yingda's pride, Ying Rudi's mother Liang Huan did not have to reap love because of giving birth to Ying Rudi, not only that, Liang Huan also betrayed because of Yingda.
At that time, Liang Huan's brother Liang Zuo read about the relationship between Liang Huan and Yingda and became a partner in the field of literature with Yingda.
However, what people didn't expect was that Liang Zuo died suddenly due to a heart attack, so Yingda directly moved Liang Zuo's computer and took Liang Zuo's years of hard work for himself.
As for the debts left behind after Liang Zuo's death, Yingda turned a blind eye, and in the end, all the debts fell on Liang Zuo's daughter.
At that time, Liang Huan, who was most qualified to seek justice for his brother, chose silence for the sake of marriage with Yingda, and just like that, Yingda stole Liang Zuo's heart.
It was precisely because Liang Huan's unwillingness to seek justice for his brother completely angered the Liang family, so that the Liang family and Liang Huan broke off contact.
Later, Liang Zuo's friend Wang Shuo, because he really couldn't look past it, also publicly scolded Yingda, saying that Yingda stole his uncle's life's work, but he was unwilling to take over Liang Zuo's debt, which was simply more Huang Shiren than Huang Shiren.
It's just that Wang Shuo's scolding did not make Yingda's conscience discover, fortunately, in the causal cycle, Yingda's backlash, although late, but will never be absent.
Because Yingda once did, even Ying Rudi's word of mouth, was also implicated, and now the father and son must be pointed at wherever they go, even if they win glory for the country, they can't avoid the scolding brought by the "scumbag".
And with the collapse of the father and son family monuments, Yingda was also anxious, in order to be able to party word of mouth, Yingda gave birth to another plan after Batu's wife became pregnant, wanting to let Batu's children recognize their ancestors and return to their ancestors.
However, it was opposed by Song Dandan and Batu, and at this time, Ying Rudi came out "yin and yang strange" and said: I can't disturb Batu's life, so I can't contact him, and Batu may not want my brother.
The words in this tea are the same as what Yingda said when he wanted to break off relations with Batu, and because of this, Ying Rudi comment area fell again.
Today, the father and son have become rats across the street that everyone shouts at, and they have become the target of criticism wherever they go
With the collapse of the reputation of Yingda father and son, the marriage of Song Dandan and her husband Zhao Yuji is very happy, and the two have now walked hand in hand for 24 spring and autumn years, and they are still as loving as ever.
And Yingda was also educated very well by Song Dandan, even if he did not have the company of his biological father, Batu did not become rebellious because of this, but was very filial and sensible, and now he has a family and a happy small family.
However, the happiness of Song Dandan and Batu also contrasts with the loneliness of Yingda and Yingrudi.
Perhaps now that he is getting older, Yingda seems to realize his mistake, and said when participating in the show: "If I were given another chance, I would definitely treat all children equally." ”
It's just that now Batu has grown up and probably no longer needs Yingda's belated fatherly love.
epilogue
Time passed like a white horse, in the blink of an eye, Song Dandan and Yingda have been divorced for 26 years, they both have their own new stories, Yingda was "eaten" by what he had done, and his reputation collapsed.
And Liang Huan, who once intervened in other people's marriages, not only did not gain love, but also came to the point of betrayal and separation.
And after Song Dandan experienced two failed marriages, in the third marriage, he met Zhao Yuji and finally reaped his own happiness.
Looking back at Song Dandan's love now, I really feel worthless for her dedication in her marriage with Yingda.
However, her emotional experience just proves that not all efforts are rewarded, and humility cannot be exchanged for love, just like Song Dandan to Yuan Gang and Yingda.
And beautiful love is always a two-way rush, just like Song Dandan and Zhao Yuji now.
Here, I hope that Song Dandan can be happy forever, and I also wish everyone can surpass the two of them and have a happy life!
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