Haiyan saw herself. The wiser the person, the more he knows how to shut up at the trough, silently try to endure the pain like a stick, quietly chew the pain and wait quietly, and the corn kernels become brilliant pearls.
People are at a low point, don't talk about people, people encounter difficulties and hope to get help from others. This is normal, just don't hang all your expectations on others or try to please by showing favor to win corresponding help. You don't need to bow your head for someone who wants to help you, and cousin so-young, who has been divorced for ten years, dated a boyfriend last year, a handsome man who matches his age, and he is in school like his cousin. Although the teachers are in different places, they can meet every weekend.
At first, Xiuying's mother was extremely happy that Xiuying was looking for a boyfriend, but soon after he began to mumble, he kept complaining about Xiuying's boyfriend being stingy, and every time he came to the door empty-handed. At first, Xiuying didn't care, but these nagging were more, Xiuying was also annoyed, he didn't complain about his mother angrily, he only looked at the details and couldn't see the overall situation.
It turned out that Xiuying's sister's boyfriend had been thinking about Xiuying from the beginning of dating. Faced with Xiuying's nothing, he took out a loan to help Xiuying pay a down payment for a house, and also helped repay the mortgage together. Every time he came to visit Xiuying, he accompanied and educated Xiuying's son very carefully, so that his son relied on her boyfriend more than him, and Xiuying, who had been immersed in the shadow of divorce, finally opened her heart. Someone who doesn't want to help you, no matter how much you say he pretends not to understand.
He has become the secretary of the university party committee at a party with his girlfriends a few days ago, and he will never forget the scene ten years ago. That year he was admitted to college, just when his parents' business failed, there was no money to pay him for tuition, in desperation, his parents took him to the city to borrow some money for the New Year, and his father used the only money he had to buy a lot of good things that he had never seen. When there was a knock on the door for a long time, the aunt came to open the door, but did not let them in directly, but first opened a crack in the door, looked at him and his parents to the feet, and then looked from the feet to the head with a look like looking at a monkey in a zoo, especially watching his father holding a smiling face with his uncle, and his aunt borrowed money, but they pretended not to understand it, and even taught his father in turn, not to do business deeply stung him.
Later, my father went to find those former business partners, and they all hid far away, and from that moment they deeply appreciated the sentence: people are poor, they can't make friends, and they can't find relatives. By sacrificing self-esteem at a low point, what people gain will only be greater trampling and contempt, even for their own relatives.
There is a good saying that only when you are really in trouble will you understand who is anxious and who is the end of the world. When you are in a difficult situation, you don't need words to help you, and you can't ask for help if you don't want to help you. Therefore, people at the trough do not ask for others is the greatest decency left to themselves.
People are in the trough, only self-ferrying people in the trough is not as good as waiting for the wind to go to the sky. When you put your trust in others at a low point, you may exchange it for a moment and a half of comfort. However, it is more of a scene, and in the end, it will only make you suffer in the heart of others, and the result will be greater disappointment.
Mr. Ji Xianlin wrote in his sad and joyful journey: On the road of life, everyone is a lonely traveler, with thousands of situations in the world, bitter happiness and sorrow, ups and downs. In addition to self-healing, others love can not help. No one is obligated to take responsibility for your life. People at the trough, only to be their own ferryman, remembering the previous stage when Sister An was the award receiving feeling, only to learn about her recent experience, the death of her mother, and the difficult life of herself with two children. After that, I complained a little and said: Why don't you tell everyone, at least I can help you or take care of you when arranging work, Sister An patted me on the shoulder and said with a smile: I understand my heart, I have also wanted to tell you countless times, but how long can you help me for a month, a year or a lifetime, and in the end, I have to live by myself, and I have to come out by myself.
Besides, everyone knows how much of them really feel sorry for you, and how many are watching jokes, so.
