The man does not answer his wife's phone on his mother's birthday to "play missing", and the cake sent by the ambiguous woman shows that there is something wrong with the man. When his wife took great pains to find him, in exchange for a sentence: "Let's divorce!" ”
After watching the 3 episodes of "Mature Year" in one breath, many familiar actors are another visual feast of acting skills, the plot rhythm is tight, and the opening is into the play, which is wonderful.
Is Ni Weiqiang, played by Liu Yijun, going to become a "scumbag", playing the "missing" drama as soon as he appears, full of mystery, his behavior is full of weirdness, the author almost thought he was watching a suspense drama.
I have to say that such a rhythm and atmosphere rendering exceeded my expectations.
preface
"If something goes wrong, there must be a demon" What secret does Ni Weiqiang hide?
The author believes that there are no more than several possibilities for men to "disappear": "cheating", physical illness, dissatisfaction with marriage, sudden career changes, accidents.
Zhang Chunmei, played by Hao Lei, is a successful strong woman, and her first reaction to her husband's disappearance is "affair", but her inner desire is for other reasons, after all, the two have been married for 20 years, and love is weak and family affection.
That's why, when she found her "down" husband in the motorcycle dealership, she didn't come up and asked you if you were cheating, but if something happened to him.
Faced with her husband's escape, Zhang Chunmei said softly: "Are you sick?" ”
From the perspective of an onlooker, Zhang Chunmei held her breath for a day, and she can still speak so softly, in addition to her good upbringing, we can see that she loves Ni Weiqiang to the bone and loves to compromise.
It's a pity that her low profile was only exchanged for an indifferent sentence: "Let's divorce!" ”
From Ni Weiqiang's words, we can capture some information: Ni Weiqiang thinks that Zhang Chunmei treats him too much, making him feel suffocated, so he wants to be alone for a while.
Is this really the case?
Ni Weiqiang did not understand how deeply his "cold violence" hurt Zhang Chunmei.
The "harm" of refusing to communicate
On the old lady's birthday, Zhang Chunmei arranged the hotel early, ordered a cake, and contacted a circle of people but found that only her husband had "lost contact".
Although she knew that her husband was busy with work, there was a faint uneasiness in her heart, which lasted until her sister-in-law brought her the cake she had booked and "collapsed".
Looking at Ni Weizhen's concealed appearance, Zhang Chunmei had a hunch that her husband just didn't want to contact him, and he wasn't really missing.
The sister-in-law played by Song Dandan is not a big deal, she said that she seemed to see Ni Weiqiang in the hospital, she hung the number of the obstetrics and gynecology department, and her words poured a handful of salt on Zhang Chunmei's wound.
It seems that the lively birthday party, everyone is covered with a layer of haze because of Ni Weiqiang, Zhang Chunmei endures the torment while helping her husband lie, which is too heart-wrenching.
The author believes that if Ni Weiqiang does not want to come, he can find a reason to work to fool, instead of playing "missing" to torture people.
Ni Weiqiang's refusal to communicate with Zhang Chunmei was like a knife that deeply stung her heart.
In married life, once one of the spouses chooses to avoid it, refuses to communicate and treats the other half indifferently, it is easy to have problems.
Ni Weiqiang accused Zhang Chunmei of treating him too much, but he didn't want to think that he went home twice a week, and after returning home, he was busy with himself, which was already "cold violence".
Zhang Chunmei not only did not blame him, but took a good job of a large family, what was he dissatisfied with?
Even if there is a real dissatisfaction, you can talk about it, right?
Whether Ni Weiqiang was irritable by his daughter-in-law or cheated because of this, he couldn't treat Zhang Chunmei so coldly.
Ni Weiqiang's sentence "let's divorce" is simple and rude, but Zhang Chunmei feels that she is very innocent when she is divorced, at least she should know where she is wrong, to put it bluntly, "death must also die to understand", rather than Ni Weiqiang alone unilaterally announced the end of the marriage.
20 years of painstaking management was "ruined"
Zhang Chunmei has treated her mother-in-law like her own mother for 20 years.
When the old lady was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, the sister-in-law spoke nicely but was unwilling to serve, Zhang Chunmei did not hesitate to take it, but did not get her husband's approval, but was ridiculed "That's my mother."
How strong does Zhang Chunmei's heart have to be to not collapse?
People are not afraid to pay, what they are most afraid of is to be disappointed with their blood.
Perhaps Ni Weiqiang thinks that since the divorce must be clearly distinguished, Zhang Chunmei has no obligation to take care of her mother, so she puts the responsibility on her eldest brother.
As everyone knows, he is very unfilial in doing so.
He was relaxed, but the conditions of the old people how the old lady lived, he didn't think about it.
Whether the old lady liked to go to live with the old people, he didn't think about it.
Whether the change of environment has any effect on the old lady's body, he does not care either.
He wanted the old lady to go to live with the old people, maybe he wanted the Ni family to clear the relationship with Zhang Chunmei, it was best to stay away, he felt comfortable.
If Ni Weiqiang is really good for the old lady, he should take advantage of his vacation and accompany the old lady 24 hours a day, but his state is not good for himself, how to take care of others.
I was wondering if Ni Weiqiang was suffering from depression, or Zhang Chunmei's dedication to the family in the past 20 years not only could he not see, but blamed Zhang Chunmei for managing too much.
Ambiguity is not clear, it is a "hidden danger"
The ambiguous relationship between Ni Weiqiang and Zhou Qin, perhaps, as Zhou Qin said, was deliberately slandered, but Ni Weiqiang did not take the initiative to communicate with Zhang Chunmei to clear up, but became a "hidden danger".
This kind of ambiguous relationship is always a little clue, so that people can find cracks to talk about.
Zhou Qin has followed Ni Weiqiang for many years, and Zhang Chunmei went to Ni Weiqiang's office to find that Zhou Qin helped him wash his clothes, and such intimate things as washing clothes by hand can easily cause the reverie of others.
Zhou Qin did not show weakness in the face of Zhang Chunmei, seemed to help the teacher wash clothes, seemed to be ambiguous, it was all someone else's fault, and it had nothing to do with himself.
Seeing this, the author is quite angry, even if Ni Weiqiang did not cheat, but his indulgence of the ambiguous relationship is a harm to his wife.
In the face of the demonstration of the "love enemy", Zhang Chunmei not only did not get angry, but wanted the other party to "save" her husband together, what kind of immortal operation is this?
Do you believe in your husband's behavior, or do you not put Zhou Qin in your eyes?
epilogue
The rift in marriage has never been a problem of one person, Zhang Chunmei may be a little strong, or maybe she is too pursuing perfection in the eyes of outsiders, so she ignores the problem of husband and wife.
Zhang Chunmei took out her heart and lungs for Ni Weiqiang, forbearance and forbearance, can Ni Weiqiang change her mind?
The author believes that if Zhang Chunmei learns to let go and let Ni Weiqiang face herself is a better choice.
When Zhang Chunmeiken tears off the perfect "disguise", puts the thoughts spent on her family, and cares about herself a little, maybe she will live an easier life.
Then again, Ni Weiqiang, played by Liu Yijun, is suspected of being a "scumbag", and there are many contradictions in his body.
He can make breakfast for Zhang Chunmei, remember the love between the two 20 years ago, but can indifferently say "divorce".
Is he a selfish man, or is he a man who hides his love deeply?
Ni Weiqiang accused his wife of managing too much and wanting to divorce, the author thinks: he is in the blessing and does not know the blessing!
Today's interpretation is here, more wonderful can be seen next time.
(Remember to pay attention to Hua Yuhan after reading it, the picture comes from the Internet)