People always feel happy when they are close to happiness, but they suffer from gains and losses when happiness is progressing.
Although Felipe VI and Queen Letizia are husband and wife, they will rush for common goals and worry about their daughter's upbringing, but they will also quarrel over all kinds of trivial matters.
After all the aura has receded, the filter of love has long faded, and all that remains is the unbearable of reality.
As royal journalist Pilar Al Al explained in a blog post, Felipe VI and Queen Letizia drifted apart, and in order to minimize the damage to the royal family, the couple had to play in public.
In front of the camera, they will always be husband and wife, although the two already have a clear sense of distance.
In these months, the royal couple are experiencing their biggest crisis since they got married.
According to Eyre, Queen Letizia would try to avoid Felipe VI, and they would each go their own way, choosing to join together only when necessary, as was the case with Charles III's coronation.
During this time, Queen Letizia will rethink their relationship, she needs a private space, so during this time the couple will participate in their own royal events.
Neither Queen Letizia nor Felipe VI wanted their private affairs to implicate the entire monarchy, so the best solution now was to go their separate ways.
So, what got these two to this point? Is marriage really the graveyard of love?
It is well known that Letizia was a household name in Spain before her marriage, and she was also the first queen in Spain without aristocratic blood.
However, it is not only a matter of blood, but probably what Juan Carlos I and Queen Sophia care about most is that she has a marriage history.
This experience, which seemed disgraceful to Juan Carlos I and Queen Sofia, became the trigger for her conflict with her in-laws.
However, it is also believed that the Spanish monarchy was already in a shaky state, and it was the addition of the plebeian princess that gave this ancient institution a new luster.
Some royal experts believe that the arrival of commoners will help transform the Spanish royal family into a more modern and popular institution.
Since Letizia entered the royal family, she has been the center of attention, and her brilliance has eclipsed everyone.
Royal observers once said that Letizia was a good man, but Juan Carlos I did not think so, and his attitude towards his daughter-in-law was not friendly.
This perception naturally affects the whole family as a whole and affects the relationship between members.
After a long time together, family members understand each other's temperaments and habits, strengths and weaknesses, and each other's shortcomings will be exposed without concealment, and over time that expectation will turn into disappointment.
Letizia did not hide his domineering personality in the slightest, but the members of this family were the top people in the Spanish class, and they naturally did not have the habit of swallowing their anger.
Over time, the family's various role conflicts and irreconcilable contradictions have become increasingly apparent.
After the birth of Princess Leonor, the domineering Letizia was unwilling to let her mother-in-law take care of her children, and at the worst of the relationship, she did not even let the two children see Queen Sofia, which also caused a gap between her ancestors and grandchildren.
Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, some problems and contradictions are not solved for a long time, hidden dangers will overlap, and any conflict will become the fuse that ignites this time bomb over time.
The "Great War" of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at the Easter Mass event at the Cathedral of Palma de Mallorca has become the most classic picture of the Spanish royal family.
Penafiel, a journalist for the Spanish royal family, commented: "I am not surprised at all, this is not the first dispute, and it will not be the last. ”
Since this incident, Letizia's rude and aggressive image has been deeply rooted in people's hearts.
What was unacceptable to the Spaniards was that she was facing the same mild-mannered, kind-hearted Queen Sophia who had been bullied by Juan Carlos I all her life.
Faced with such Letizia, Juan Carlos I and Felipe VI at that time had incredulous expressions on their faces.
In the end, Felipe VI could only pull his wife away in front of the whole country, and at that moment, the fig leaf inside the Spanish royal family was completely torn.
As for how the parties felt at that moment, only they knew them.
Spain is not like other royal families, and a large number of people, especially in independent Catalonia, are looking forward to Spain's republic.
Since royals can show their embarrassing side in public, Letizia will definitely go too far in private.
Can't Letizia show the self-control that a royal family should have?
In this era, the royal family has long become a symbol of the cohesion of the country's power and the image representative of the country.
As a mascot, she has no self-control, does not manage her emotions, and only angers others, which is really surprising.
This incident touched the sensitive nerves of those people, and for a while, Queen Letizia's reputation plummeted.
It is always said that Felipe VI and Queen Letizia had the strongest marriage in the royal family and were the most loved couple by the public.
In the more than ten years of marriage, there was no controversy in this relationship, and there were no rumors of separation, until now everything has changed.
After this incident, Juan Carlos I advised his son to divorce.
However, the royal adviser at the time raised his objections, because he knew what kind of trouble the royal couple divorce would bring to the monarchy.
In the face of various choices and struggles in people's lives, in the face of responsibility and responsibility, those complex emotions intertwined will inevitably consume each other's patience.
According to the description of Pilar Ai, a journalist for royal affairs, another reason for the relationship between Felipe VI and Queen Letizia was because Felipe VI had a revival of his old relationship with his former girlfriend, and the king was empathizing, which was obviously something that Queen Letizia could not accept.
In addition, Leonor, who has grown up, has gradually become independent and gradually free from his dependence on his mother, which Queen Letizia did not expect.
As a father, as a king, Felipe VI naturally considered things on the side of his daughter.
Although Felipe VI had been trying to convince Letizia, the accumulated conflicts still made it impossible for the couple to let go of their previous suspicions.
According to the revelations of the royal staff, there was no result in several days of discussion, and at the most tense moment, the two closed the door and quarreled.
"We can hear the sound of their quarrel clearly, we are not used to such a high-volume king."
Ineffective communication will inevitably deepen contradictions, and a long-term cold war will exhaust each other, forming a vicious circle in an infinite circle.
Drifting away, drifting away. Time is chronic poison.