In just one day, word of mouth was polarized, and Wu Qian proved with her actions that the character cannot be chaotic.
On May 5, "Riding the Wind 2023" was broadcast, Wu Qian appeared on the first stage as a girl, and faced people with a silent attitude.
Do not take the initiative to choose songs, do not take the initiative to socialize, everywhere is cautious and blind, and in the face of Ella's invitation, it is even more resigned.
In the TV series, the smile is cheerful and lively, and the variety show is silent and cautious, so the contrast makes many fans cry distressed.
This change was also blamed on Zhang Yujian by fans, believing that this failed marriage caused Wu Qian's lack of self-confidence.
Looking at Wu Qian in the show, and then comparing Wu Qian in "Why Sheng Xiao Mo", it can be said that the judgment is like the two.
Indeed, she also won many sympathy votes from the audience because of the changes before and after marriage.
But who would have thought that after the broadcast of "Riding the Wind 2023", followed by the polar reversal of word-of-mouth in "Hello, Saturday" on May 6.
The reason is that the personality is strong and the emotional intelligence is low.
When playing the game, it was clear that she temporarily changed her mind and wanted to steal the other party's gold coins, but when the other party was not happy, she directly threw the pot to her teammate Zhang Binbin, causing Zhang Binbin to be targeted by the opposing player all the time.
In the process of being targeted, Wu Qian also threw her face many times and was unwilling to cooperate with the punishment, leaving Zhang Binbin aside, which was very embarrassing.
Not only dumped the pot and disliked Zhang Binbin, Wu Qian also kept complaining about this partner and gave the other party a face.
Completely ignoring the camera and the emotions of his partner, he has been unilaterally exporting his negative energy.
Originally, they were publicizing new works together, but they were made into reverse publicity by Wu Qian.
In this way, in just one day, Wu Qian's reputation reversed.
One day was still "the little white rabbit who was injured in marriage", and the next day it became "a strong and domineering little sister with low emotional intelligence and deserving of divorce", split completely like two different people.
I have to say that the horror of public opinion can also praise and destroy people.
What's more frightening is that netizens preconceived that divorced women are weak and pitiful, so they will wear pitying glasses to look at Wu Qian in "Riding the Wind 2023", and naturally set her up a "victim" persona, thinking that she is a lack of self-confidence due to a failed marriage.
But is a divorced woman, a woman who came out of a failed marriage, really pitiful? Is a lack of self-confidence the result of a failed marriage?
Obviously, from "Hello, Saturday", Wu Qian is not pitiful, nor does she lack self-confidence, the pity of netizens seems cheap and redundant, and the evaluation of polar reversal is particularly ridiculous.
From the many resources to the jealous idol drama heroine, to getting married and having children and divorced, Wu Qian's every choice is made by herself, whether it is to ruin the image or destroy the resources, at best it is to recognize reality, at worst it is to blame herself, where is the pitiful saying?
Be careful in the show, that is, the impact of a failed marriage, and show a little stronger in the show, that is, deserve a divorce, so the conclusion is really sloppy.
People are multi-faceted, whether strong or cautious, it is Wu Qian's personal personality, and it has nothing to do with whether or not to divorce.
Zhang Jiani, who is also divorced and also participated in "Riding the Wind 2023", has a hard-working marriage, and has shouted over and over again that the wedding to be held is all in vain, but it does not affect her confidence in the show.
Divorced women are not pitiful, divorced women are not weak parties, there is no need to set them up a "victim" persona, let alone use words such as "widowhood" to celebrate the divorce of female stars.
Before the main film of "Riding the Wind 2023" was broadcast, some netizens named Wu Qian and Zhang Jiani "Widow's Group", expecting them to work together, and when they were really divided into a group, it fueled this carnival.
It's just a divorce, but they are forced to become "widowed", seemingly holding grievances for them, but in fact hindering their pace of starting again and reinforcing the impression of divorce.
In terms of resources, he has not relied on a big hit drama for many years since his debut, but he is still held as a sister by the agency, even if he gets married and has children, he still has more resources than artists in the same company.
In terms of popularity, netizens who got married and had children all held grievances for her, scolded Zhang Yujian for throwing the pot and did not act, and was supported after the divorce.
The other half is found by themselves, and the unfortunate marriage encountered is also self-inflicted, no matter from any point of view, Wu Qian is not compatible with the word "pitiful", and this sympathetic wind of who divorces and who is pitiful should also stop.
Wu Qian once said in an interview that actors and audiences need a sense of mystery and distance, so she rarely participated in reality shows to overexpose herself, but now that she chooses to participate in the recording, she should be prepared to withstand the pressure of public opinion, and fans need to put on a correct posture.
Reality TV is a double-edged sword, and the ability to accept positive feedback requires the ability to accept negative feedback.
After watching "Riding the Wind 2023", I admired Liu Yase's attitude, who was originally a film queen who enjoyed applause, but was scolded in the show as the greasy sister since the Four Seasons program.
In the face of such slander, she not only did not get angry, but also calmly accepted that this attitude is what an artist should have.
Similarly, Zhang Jiani is also admirable, not afraid of rumors and failed marriages, showing himself generously in front of the camera, full of positive energy.
Whether it's divorce or being slandered, as an artist, you will always be overly concerned, which is not pitiful.
What is really pitiful is that trapped in the past is still uneven, since you choose to start over, it is better to face it generously and confidently.