Text | Sister Yi (Zhou Guiyi) Ye Ziyao
On May Fourth Youth Day, the 02nd grade of Chinese opera returned to their alma mater for a party.
In a group photo, Tang Yan stands in position C. Standing beside her is a long-lost article.
Everyone was surprised: Is there an article next to Tang Yan?
Directly sent the amazement to the hot search.
In the photo, the article is indeed visibly old. Or more accurately, more than old age, it is more of a fatigue.
Especially in the contrast of Tang Yan, Tang Yan is one year older than him.
This picture confirms two things. In addition to Tang Yan, everyone in the group photo is familiar with Zhang Xiaolong, Li Zefeng, Sun Jian and Yang Shuo, recall that when the article was the hottest, we didn't know these male classmates.
Another thing is that looking at a person's age and circumstances, the face and figure are unreliable, technology and self-discipline can solve it. Only eyes, you can't deceive people.
In the face of the whole network sighing, the article responded directly that night.
"Yes, it's me."
Divorced for 4 years, in fact, this is not the first time that the article has been called aging and sluggishness.
Last year, he appeared in a video to call for the movie "Valley Soul", and the whole person and facial line are in a state of sagging.
In the same year, he cooperated with Xie Na in Lai Shengchuan's drama "Ten Triangle Relationship", and he was in a trance at the press conference.
Judging from the performance scene, the traces of the years are still catching up with his acting skills.
In the photos exposed earlier this year, he is sitting with gray hair and his eyes are frozen. This should be the geriatric makeup of his new play. But people's state and gaze are actually seamlessly connected with their own state over the years.
Every time he appears in front of the camera, he is very different from the "south" and "Xiaobei" of that year.
"See you on Monday" directly cut off the article's former glorious career. Even if Ma Yili came forward to save his dignity back then, he could not return to his glory days.
After the divorce, the article basically went behind the scenes.
Executive producer for the movie "Unexpected Summer".
Join Liu Tianchi Performance Workshop as a teacher.
In drama, in fact, his resources are good. In recent years, he has cooperated with Lai Shengchuan many times.
and Xie Na played "Ten Triangle Relationship", and played a "cheating man" in the play.
and Ni Ni starred in the exclusive version of "Dream Like a Dream", incarnating as the melancholic "patient No. 5".
This year, the article added to the classic "Treasure Island One Village", and Lai Shengchuan released rehearsal photos.
In October this year, they will go to this year's Wuzhen Theater Festival together.
In the life that the article actively shares, the two things that are the most, one is acting drama, and the other is fitness.
I think he is doing well, if he is dormant at the moment, it is the best choice to hone his acting skills and temper his physique.
The article was said to be old, and just some time ago, his ex-wife Ma Yili was also scolded for forcibly being "young" in the play.
In the new drama "Dragon City", 46-year-old Ma Yili plays the 26-year-old heroine Zheng Dongni, a girl who is extremely beautiful in the original work and dares to love and hate.
As a result, Ma Yili's image and shape in the play were spit on, subverting the expectations of the original fans for the characters. After all, Liu Lin, who plays her third aunt in the play, is only three years older than her.
As soon as it was broadcast, the Internet was discussing who was suitable for "Zheng Dongni" in his mind. All that appeared in my mind were Zhang Yuqi, Ni Ni, and Di Li Gerba.
To be honest, I watched a few episodes and wanted to run in and cut her awkward long hair down with bangs.
I still prefer her highly adapted temperament image in "Love Myth".
Everyone also complained about her "no girly feeling" that she felt that Ma Yili was dressed in dirt and poor clothes, and even shouted to persuade her to stop taking private clothes into the group, but Ma Yili didn't seem to care.
The clothes in "My First Half of Life" were all bought by Ma Yili herself, and she was scolded for being too ugly after the broadcast, and she still said in the interview that she could wear these clothes directly.
This reminds me of an interview with Ma Yili many years ago, when she and the article were still a loving couple.
When buying clothes, she said that she did not buy big brands, spent a lot of money to buy a dress, was reluctant, would go to some small shops, and was often said in articles "can you buy some better clothes, don't buy street stalls".
At that time, Ma Yili's big-name clothes and bags were bought during a business trip, and she repeatedly stopped: "Don't buy it, it's wasteful, I don't use it much." ”
For so many years, she has experienced the dissolution of marriage, career ups and downs, and has been complained about clothes several times, but she has never gritted her teeth to "makeover" to prove the meaning of showing others, after all, hiring a professional stylist or spending a lot of money on a business is not difficult for female stars.
Think about the female celebrities who have embarked on the road of "big heroine and unique beauty" after divorce in recent years, and basically immediately went on the hot search with "more beautiful image and more beautiful dress after divorce".
Ma Yili does not need this persona, her clothes are worn as usual, and her life is still going on - she has accepted the divorce of single parents from her heart for too long, so long that she can laugh about the previous sinking and embarrassment.
She definitely doesn't understand what the current audience wants, but her remarkable looks are only in fashion magazines - non-business, not pandering.
However, after the divorce, Ma Yili and the article, the momentum in their careers, is indeed completely different.
After Ma Yili won the Magnolia TV title for "My First Half of Life", the movie "Find You" won her the Huading Award for Best Actress.
Ten years before and after, from Charlene to Zijun, the clothes were all ridiculed, but no matter what, they all made Ma Yili.
At the age of 46, she frankly said that she is still all in love, and there is no point in not all in.
But consistently sober, the only premise is that no one can delay her work, this is the fate.
"The person who comes to hinder your work is not worth entrusting."
That's right, it's written here, everyone should understand.
I don't want to boast of the hot chicken soup that easily motivates everyone - after divorce, men are loose and greasy, and women are beautiful against age. Man cannot violate the laws of nature, gravity is equal to all living beings, and it does not refer to the certificate of the Civil Affairs Bureau.
Everyone always wants to make up the brain article is very miserable, the lewd Ma Yili is moving forward, that is really just lewdness, and even hates that iron is not steel, she exposed her appearance shortcomings in the new drama, and the subconscious madly hopes that she "Hold the girly face", can only say that this is another fairy tale projection.
However, in a parting of ways, no one can retreat with their whole body, and there is a price.
"Cheating men should be lonely, divorced sisters are destined to soar" Just listen to whatever, those who are keen to say hi and erect flags are often more fragile in their hearts than ordinary people.
Speaking of the controversy over the state of Ma Yili's new drama, Dahua's temperament originally has a calm and noble temperament, which is indeed not suitable for pretending to be small.
The last round was ridiculed by Zhang Ziyi's "Shangyang Fu" and Zhou Xun's "Ruyi's Legend".
But was scolded for playing tender, modeling dirt, and not taking on this role, Ma Yili did not have any explanation, like automatically blocking this part, and also shared her thoughts on single-parent family education on Weibo.
The role of Zheng Dongni should be Ma Yili's initiative to strive for, she said that she liked this character more than ten years ago when she read novels.
To put it bluntly, whether the audience likes it or not is not as important as whether they like it.
This vigor is the same as when her best friend Liu Zi opposed her and the article but it was useless.
This vigor is the same as "I can wear whatever I like, who is willing to hold back to play the first love on campus or the hot girl, who plays".
What I want to say more is how important a stable mental core is to a person, and it doesn't matter if you are single or married and divorced.
Word of mouth fell to the floor, not only because of divorce derailment.
Stand tall and fall hard, go all the way to be arrogant, play big names, unworthy of the position, offend too many people... These reasons are already well known.
The instability of heart and virtue makes the article pay the greatest price in this life. Even if it's not "see you on Monday", there is a high probability that you will wrestle in another pit.
Listening to a podcast a while ago, Lu Yu interviewed Zeng Li. Talking about why the most beautiful school flower in Chinese opera is not famous, it is always tepid, until it is over forty, there are some sounds.
Zeng Li said that some things are not everyone can bear, even if they are popular in their twenties, their hearts at that time may not be able to support those fame and fortune.
For the article, the angry horse flowers, suddenly came too violently.
On the contrary, Ma Yili's core has been very stable.
She received her father's eagle education from an early age, and the public tradition judged her to give up early.
From marriage to the workplace, from parenting to personal image, she really lives in her own will and does not care about external labels.
In the vernacular, it's three words – right idea.
Articles that are ridiculed for greasy aging, will also bite the back groove teeth to bear weight and train a tendon flesh.
And Ma Yili, who was ridiculed for her sagging chest and out of shape after giving birth, will definitely not pick up her clothes and suddenly show you her abs and vest line.
Kouhi Chicken Soup always emphasizes that a woman is only worthy of love if she is successful, rich and beautiful.
But in fact, the externalized things of success, money, and beauty are all in order to internalize their sense of stability, so that they have more choices, and they can be silent or retreat.
As for the matter of "being loved" in love, it all depends on luck and fate, and the good news is that the more you go to the second half of life, the less important it is.
The one who lives best is the one who does not prove it to anyone.
It doesn't matter if you smell her fragrance or not, she has been in her own universe, planting her own flowers.