He Chaolian married Dou Xiao with a dowry of 500 million, netizens: No wonder Wu Kequn wanted to dump her that year
On April 18, He Chaolian and Dou Xiao held a wedding, and according to the news, He Chaolian brought 500 million dowry including famous cars and private jets to marry Dou Xiao this time.
This incident has aroused heated discussions among many netizens.
Some netizens commented: "No wonder Wu Kequn dumped her back then, the family is so rich, a man will have low self-esteem." ”
Others countered that the netizen said he was just jealous of others.
In this regard, He Chaolian did not care, but focused on the two-person world of Hao and Dou Xiao.
In fact, throughout He Chaolian's love experience, her concept of love has changed three times.
Before 2011, He Chaolian still had fantasies about love, and she felt that love came and devoted herself to it. During this period, He Chaolian was still a simple little girl and was well protected by her family.
She was followed by male classmates when she was a child, and when her father Stanley Ho found out, he directly called several cars of bodyguards with a single call.
During this period, He Chaolian, who was rich by the gambling king, did not pay much attention to her boyfriend's origin, as long as the other party did not hold the purpose of cheating money.
But before this, she was still busy with her studies, and the rare relationships often broke up because of problems such as getting together less and separating more.
After 2011, He Chaolian's concept of love has changed to be wholeheartedly good to her lover, as long as the other party is happy, she is willing to make all sacrifices.
This year, He Chaolian became obsessed with Wu Kequn at a concert, and she began to use various relationships to contact each other. During this period, she was more like a fan who was obsessed with idols, and the difference was that this fan had a very thick family and could take the initiative to contact each other.
After that, He Chaolian began to frantically pursue Wu Kequn. As the saying goes, men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the veil, and are pursued by a rich and beautiful woman, Wu Kequn is also dark in his heart, and soon agreed.
He Chaolian is willing to live any ordinary life for her boyfriend, even if it is eating a marinated pork rice on the side of the road, and riding a motorcycle when she goes out to play, she is also very happy. In addition, she often helps each other solve various career problems.
It should be said that during this period, He Chaolian put her posture very low, which is completely the attitude of a small fan to an idol, as long as the other party has any requirements, she will do her best to meet them.
However, her sacrifice was exchanged for the other party's uncherishing, and Wu Kequn was always unwilling to admit the relationship.
He Chaolian chose to continue to endure and waited. After waiting for 3 years, in 2014, Wu Kequn was finally willing to admit his relationship. A few months later, he suddenly broke up again, citing that he was a non-marital man.
This time, He Chaolian finally woke up, and she realized that she had lost herself in this relationship. She lowered her posture so low that the other person would despise her. In fact, she is a top student in economics who graduated from Royal Holloway, University of London, UK, and she has the ability to control her own happiness.
After 2014, He Chaolian began to slowly heal her injuries, and during this period, she also began to focus on her own business, such as working in a law firm in 2016, and opened her own beef noodle restaurant in 2018.
In 2019, He Chaolian's emotional outlook has become a bold show when there is a relationship.
This year, she met actor Dou Xiao, and the two fell in love quickly. After falling in love this time, He Chaolian felt that she would definitely get married, so she would be very serious when she got along with Dou Xiao, even if Dou Xiao filmed a little intimate scene with other actresses, she would be jealous.
As for the outside world, she also shows affection with Dou Xiao, and she often puts her arm around Dou Xiao's shoulders to participate in various public activities. However, this display is still a little deliberate, as if showing off how happy I am now with my ex-boyfriend Wu Kequn.
It's just that the number of times to show affection has increased, and some people have begun to dislike and criticize her.
He Chaolian is actually very conflicted in her heart, because too many couples broke up in the end because of overexposure. After thinking about it seriously, He Chaolian began to change her strategy, no longer deliberately showing her happiness to the outside world, but focusing on enjoying the two-person world with Dou Xiao.
He Chaolian sometimes was hungry and would go with Dou Xiao to some small restaurants on the side of the road to eat snail powder, although these small shops were not very clean, but she was still as happy as a glutton.
From this period, He Chaolian really found herself, and she understood that she could be generous in her feelings.
Losing oneself in love is not the right love experience, and love should be a joy from the heart, not a deliberate manifestation of oneself.
In this way, the two fell in love until recently held a wedding.
He Chaolian has also grown completely from a simple girl who had fantasies about love back then, to being let down by Wu Kequn later, and now married to her sweetheart Dou Xiao.
After experiencing a failed relationship, He Chaolian understood that she should maintain herself in the relationship, rather than lower her posture and fully meet her partner's requirements.
Some people say that after a failed relationship, people can mature quickly. I want to say that it depends on the person, someone experiences a failed relationship, and when they fall in love again, they do not learn the lesson, but continue to maintain their previous low profile, and it is difficult for such a person to grow up.
Only how to Chaolian like this, trying to learn from the failed relationship, can he mature quickly.
Source: Di Tianyu
