Grandpa and Sun Lian: The true love you think is likely to be what the other party makes you think

Did you see the news related to #Li Kuncheng's death# and #Li Kuncheng Lin Jingen#?

Sven was still wondering before clicking in, "Who is this, why is it a hot search", and when I clicked on the details, I looked at it, oh, it turned out to be them! It is the pair of "grandfather and grandson love" who have an age difference of 40 years and once caused a sensation on the whole network!

The man, Li Kuncheng, is a famous musician in Taiwan Province, who has produced albums for artists such as Luo Dayou, Wu Zongxian, Feng Feifei, etc., and has been nominated for the Taiwan Golden Melody Award. Also because of his unique musical vision, he has a lot of rare antique vinyl records, known as the "godfather of vinyl".

The woman is an amateur, she was not an adult when she fell in love with Li Kuncheng, and the two were sneered at by various media and melon-eating netizens during the ten years of long-distance love and running. Compared with the name Lin Jingen, most people are more familiar with "grandpa and grandson love heroine".

The two were on the hot search this time because Li Kuncheng died, he was hospitalized for colorectal cancer for 7 months, and then the cancer cells metastasized and died at the age of 66. Many netizens reacted when they saw the obituary, and this "grandfather and grandson" couple has been together for more than ten years.

From relatives and friends around them to netizens who eat melons, their relationship has never been favored from beginning to end. So after Li Kuncheng's death, many people are paying attention to whether they are married, "what to do after he leaves the girl", "the best decade of her youth was delayed by the old man", "the bad old man is very bad".

Some netizens also remembered that last year there were reports that Li Kuncheng was seriously ill, and he also insisted that his health was very good, and even dumped the mainland media "very bored and made up", now see the obituary pinching fingers, hospitalized for 7 months, isn't it really sick last year? "Lie and don't tell, and give hats to the mainland media."

Lin Jingen's side also revealed to Taiwan media after Li Kuncheng's death that in fact, they were married on February 1 this year, and they also held a rather ceremonial wedding in the hospital ward. When the woman sorted out the information, she found that the man had already prepared the marriage certificate and signed it herself.

As for why Li Kuncheng chose to get married at the end of his life, Lin Jingen said that since he was hospitalized, the two found that signing during treatment became a problem, and in order to better take care of Li Kuncheng, they had plans to get married.

Some netizens also guessed that the man felt his life soon and wanted to make Lin Jingen his legal spouse by getting married, so as to inherit the inheritance after his death. After all, according to Li Kuncheng's son (born with his ex-wife), Li Kuncheng left all his inheritance to Lin Jingen.

According to Li Kuncheng's own estimates, his property is about 50 million Taiwan dollars (11.3 million yuan), plus his son stressed in his obituary that he did not get any property at all, and many people think that Lin Jingen is "surviving the old man to inherit tens of millions of inheritances" and "taking ten million properties, and returning at the age of 27".

Before mentioning this pair of "grandfather and grandson love", everyone thinks that the underage girl was deceived by the old man, until the man's death, everyone is worried about what she can do in the future, but because of the existence of this inheritance, many people's perception of Lin Jingen has also changed, saying that "she can still send away several sets of old men", "ten years and ten million is worth it", "her father should be very happy".

Not to mention that the essence of these remarks is to objectify women, it is to think that a girl's youth can be bought with money, it is to belittle Lin Jingen's scheming to worship gold, and there are many people who sour women "take shortcuts", and even because of the amount of wealth and status changes, they will change their views on a person's outlook and hatred of the rich.

Even if we take a step back, just really wonder how much money Lin Jingen can get after Li Kuncheng's death, we can find that the truth is not at all what many netizens think. Taiwan media claimed that Li Kuncheng was worth tens of millions, but as early as 2015, Lin Jingen responded that Li Kuncheng's housing loan and car loan were not paid off, and he had to repay tens of thousands of yuan every month.

In addition to these loan pressures, Li Kuncheng himself likes to enjoy life more than work, so his monthly savings will bottom. And since the relationship between the two was exposed, the woman was forced to suspend school and break off relations with her family, and she had to rely on the man to support her as a minor, and the man also lost a lot of notices because of the accusations of public opinion, resulting in a sharp decline in income.

Although Li Kuncheng claimed to have a stable income and confidence to support his little girlfriend in 2017, during the outbreak of the epidemic, his work was greatly reduced, and he could only close the studio and sell his collection of vinyl records when he lacked money. Taiwan media broke the news that the collection in his hands had almost been sold, and even asked the woman to bow to the family, trying to let the woman's parents help them live.

Although Li Kuncheng later responded to his girlfriend that he had not seen his father for a long time, it is always a fact that he took loans, could not make ends meet, and sat on the mountain, and we do not know whether he paid off the loan before his death and left Lin Jingen with "all" inheritance, but it is still a bit fanciful to say that Lin Jingen, who has an already wealthy family, "survived the old man to take the throne" and "successfully landed on the shore by inheritance".

What's more, even if you think about it according to the best case, assuming that Lin Jingen really inherits tens of millions of inheritances, she is only 26 years old, young and rich to regain her freedom, and there is still a long way to go in life, which is not necessarily a good thing.

She has been in love with Li Kuncheng for ten years, and her life in this decade only revolves around the man, which in itself has led to her being out of touch with society for ten years. When she couldn't go to school, her friends stopped coming and going, her family relationship was severed, she only wanted Li Kuncheng alone, but Li Kuncheng had passed away, her love and spiritual pillars were no longer there, and she had to learn to reintegrate into society.

That decade was still the decade of her youth, which means that her personality, three views, etc. are likely to be cultivated by Li Kuncheng, and when Li Kuncheng is there, she will already compete with the whole world for him. And after Li Kuncheng left, as the once shocking heroine of "grandpa and grandson love", the "world" she can contact will probably not be very friendly to her.

This may be the reason why many people criticize this "grandfather and grandson love", we have not seen a couple with a large age difference, the difference is seven or eight years old, ten years old, netizens are not unacceptable, everyone can not see this age difference is often so large that you can really be a grandfather to each other, after all, beautiful as a flower and gray hair vicissitudes in the same frame, look at the past and look bad.

But no matter how bad the perception of netizens is, to put it bluntly, it is also an outsider eating melons. And feelings are originally like people drinking water cold and warm self-awareness, when two people who are extremely mismatched in the outside world get together, the parties often take what they need, just true love, youth, beauty, wealth, power, connections, care, emotions... Everyone's wants is different.

So when the 72-year-old TVB veteran actor Li Longji showed affection with his 36-year-old wife Chris, although everyone was also shocked by the age difference of this "grandfather and grandson love", but because the way the woman showed affection (or showing off wealth) was bold and straightforward enough - she directly wrapped a Hermes bag full of cash PO pictures, making it clear that Li Longji's money now belongs to her.

Although she clarified that the picture was reprinted afterwards, she did not expect that sending it would cause misunderstanding, but Li Longji acted steadily in the first half of his life, worked hard to make money, invested in buying a house, and has written all the properties under his name to Chris, which is also an indisputable fact that everyone can see.

Because of Li Longji's relationship, Chris has gained real estate, wealth, a number of TVB friends, of course, her own resume is also very eye-catching, she is an aircraft engineer, grew up in the United States, studied in Japan and the Netherlands, studied EMBA at Beihang University, repaired aircraft and was very good at drawing.

But Li Longji does not care how good his wife is, he prefers Chris's youth, beauty, and sexiness, and has publicly revealed that the two "have no generation gap", "xing life coordination", and even his biggest appreciation for his wife is, "She serves her husband very well, this is the most important, other talents are not important."

Regardless of whether the melon-eating masses think they are a good match, at least the two parties "one beaten and one willing to be beaten", they both got what they wanted from this relationship, and others had no way or qualification to interfere with them.

Speaking of the pair of Li Kuncheng and Lin Jingen, strictly speaking, both sides actually got what they wanted. Li Kuncheng enjoyed the body and care of the young girl, she accompanied him through the last part of his life, and Lin Jingen thought that he was pursuing true love, and she was even willing to betray and be accused of thousands of people for this true love.

But the problem is that they are not the same as other "grandfather and grandson love", they are not only a big age difference, Lin Jingen was an underage girl when he knew Li Kuncheng, in the case of immature cognition and insight, she may think that she has met true love and redemption, but we onlookers know that this may not be the case.

Lin Jingen's native family is an important reason for her "lack of love" character, her parents separated when she was very young, and her mother gave up the custody of Lin Jingen's sisters in order to divorce, but because she was often scolded by her father, Lin Jingen would often run away from home to find her mother to live.

But it was in the relationship with her mother that Lin Jingen found that her mother had given all her love to her second husband's daughter, so she realized that her parents could not be relied on, and even wanted to kill herself at the age of 13.

In the adolescence when his father did not love his mother, he had been subjected to domestic violence, and he was extremely eager for warmth, Lin Jingen met Li Kuncheng, who was talented, cared about her, gentle and romantic, if he didn't know the huge age difference between the two, whether it was love, friendship, or family affection, Lin Jingen would have a good impression of Li Kuncheng, which is almost inevitable.

And this vague "good feeling" gave Lin Jingen the courage to fight against her original family, and was catalyzed into the "true love" in her heart that was hostile to the world under her father's strong opposition. In order to get her father to agree to them being together, she once smashed the computer at home in the middle of the night and declared war on her father, calling it "liberal democracy before the age of eighteen."

And although this father did not necessarily treat his daughter very well, he was still resolutely opposed to Li Kuncheng's affairs. It is rumored that Li Kuncheng and Lin Jingen's father were originally friends, and it was said that Lin Jingen grew up more and more rebellious and her father couldn't help her, Li Kuncheng offered to be Lin Jingen's music teacher, and the two met because of this.

It is also said that Li Kuncheng's eldest son died in a car accident, and Lin Jingen's father's relatives also had similar experiences, Li Kuncheng asked their mutual friends to send albums to each other, and the Lin family gradually became acquainted with each other under mutual encouragement.

But no matter how they became friends, just say that "the daughter is in love with a friend", no one can bear it, right? Father Lin, who was resolutely opposed, took Li Kuncheng to court on charges of "obstructing the family and abducting young girls." But because both parties were willing and his daughter always stood on Li Kuncheng's side, Father Lin never won the case.

In order to protect her beloved boyfriend, Lin Jingen did not hesitate to expose her father's black history of domestic violence, alcoholism, and lying, she said that she did not want to be "her father's pet" anymore, and also posted on social platforms Yin Yang her father: I can only say, Brother Xuping, you want to destroy the relationship between me and Kuncheng, but you are tearing our family affection.

I won't say much about the bloody catch of Masven during this period, I only saw that during the father-daughter battle, Li Kuncheng seemed to be invisible. His few responses were to clear his name, saying "guilt" one moment and shouting happily the next, "Justice has finally returned my innocence."

What is more uncomfortable than silence and cowardice is Li Kuncheng's so-called "true love" for Lin Jingen, which seems to have been planned for a long time. The man has always preferred the "young tooth girl" when choosing a mate, and he is with Lin Jingen because he still wants children, and because the little girl is simple.

After the two dating, because the woman had not yet reached the legal age to get married locally, Li Kuncheng always said that "he would get married when his girlfriend was 20 years old", but he repeatedly found excuses to shirk. What woman is about to celebrate her birthday, temporarily cancel the wedding to celebrate her birthday first, because a relative in the family has died, respect the customs, so temporarily do not get married...

Until the news of Li Kuncheng's death came out in the past few days, everyone knew that they had not been married for ten years. As for the wedding finally registered in February this year, netizens also found it difficult to comment, whether they want to leave the inheritance to Lin Jingen, or because if they don't get married, Lin Jingen can't take better care of him, go through the procedures and sign for him?

What's more, Li Kuncheng also has many suspected "previous convictions" of splitting legs. He had two children with his ex-wife, and his second son died in a car accident. But the reason for the divorce of the two is that the suspected ex-wife found out that Li Kuncheng was cheating on a female student, and the other party was 20 years younger than him.

Later, Li Kuncheng himself suffered a car accident and needed to stay in bed to recuperate, or the ex-girlfriend who was 20 years younger than him put down his work to take care of and accompany Li Kuncheng. However, after he recovered, he was suspected of splitting Lin Jingen, and after breaking up with his ex, he still counted people who didn't take care of himself enough.

The reason for using "suspicious" here is that Li Kuncheng thinks that he and Lin Jingen are forced to love each other by this society. He said that he cared about Lin Jingen and sent her gentle news, but Lin's father felt that his daughter was dating Li Kuncheng, and his ex-girlfriend also felt that his heart was not on him.

According to Father Lin's description, Li Kuncheng's initial target was actually Lin Jingen's sister. Under the pretext of coming to Lin's house to enjoy vinyl records, he took the opportunity to pursue Lin Jingen's sister, and only after being rejected did he turn his target to Lin Jingen.

Sven didn't know if Lin Jingen knew the inside story, maybe he knew it and couldn't change anything, after all, Li Kuncheng's age, experience and other aspects were much more than Lin Jingen. He has enough patience and means to persuade and even induce the other party.

Just like he obviously wants to have a child, he thinks that the little girl is simple and easy to control, but he will declare himself to the outside world so that Lin Jingen will not be alone in the future, "In case I am old and our child is twenty years old, she will also have new relatives to rely on."

It's like he obviously planned for a long time, chasing his sister before he tricked Lin Jingen, but when his girlfriend asked him if he would like to marry her, his answer was, "If you dare to marry, I will dare to marry."

Sven is not saying that if you have a big age difference, you can't fall in love and there will be no true love, but I still want to ask, as an adult with rich experience and mature thinking, knowing that he can't accompany each other for a lifetime, if Li Kuncheng really wants to be good for Lin Jingen, it is better than letting her suffer a storm of public opinion, letting her have children, and marrying herself in the ward.

The more important thing is not to let Lin Jingen go back to school as soon as possible to learn, to grow, and to make himself a better person. With his financial situation and connections, it should have been easy to do this, so why didn't he? Was it because he was afraid that once Lin Jingen's insight and vision were opened, he would leave him?

When Sven brushed that they were holding their wedding in the ward, Li Kuncheng said to Lin Jingen, "You are the continuation of my life", and Lin Jingen's wish was, "You have to wait for me when you leave, don't reincarnate so quickly", and they agreed to meet again in the next life at a considerable age and in the best years.

Maybe this relationship is indeed true love invincible in Lin Jingen's opinion, Sven does not want to talk too much about people's own affairs, can only persuade the girls who have the opportunity to see here, if you meet a similar "true love" in life, please think first, do you think "true love" is what people make you think so?