Text | Sister Yi (Zhou Guiyi) Xiaoxing
A few days ago, I saw a long-lost name on Weibo: Xie Na.
She served as the host as the "Wind Riding the Wind Publisher" in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves 3", and this time she will participate in "Sister Lang 4" as a contestant.
Since "Happy Camp" stopped broadcasting in September 2021, the five members of the Happy Family went their separate ways. He Jiong continues to host most of Mango TV's variety shows and galas; Wu Xin is active in major variety shows, such as "Detective Academy", "Spring Day Late Departure", "Heartbeat Signal", etc.; Li Weijia and Du Haitao seem to have slowly "withdrawn" from the front of the stage. And the "first sister of mango" Xie Na of that year is still in business, but the appearance rate is getting lower and lower.
After seeing her name on the hot search for a long time, I couldn't help but wonder: Where has Xie Na gone in the past two years?
Regarding her origin, background, and past, I believe everyone is familiar with it, so I won't go into too much detail. Non-professional background, actor entered the industry, turned to become a host, and later became popular in "Happy Camp".
She has a national reputation, and has shown several programs in parallel: "Even Drop Song God", "We Are Coming", "Please Wardrobe" and so on.
(Among them, the children's intellectual and talent talk show "Magical Child" hosted by her won the first place in the same period of the program with an average rating of 1.35 and an average viewership share of 4.26% on the national metropolitan area network)
Released albums, acted in movies, participated in various variety shows such as "Idol is Coming", "Crossover Singer Season 2", "Variety Big Coffee Show", "Wife's Romantic Trip" and other variety shows, and attended the Spring Festival Gala.
(On the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 2020, she collaborated with Xiao Zhan and Ju Jingyi in sketches)
Her national popularity is not only reflected in the appearance rate, but also in an emotional stickiness.
In 2018, during Xie Na's maternity leave, the ratings of "Happy Camp" declined. And the episode of her return, the recording scene fans exploded, and the real-time ratings and market share after the broadcast ranked first, nearly 3 times that of the second variety show in the same period.
"Several girls cried when they saw me."
Everyone has a common feeling of participating in Xie Na's life.
Her label is always the one who quickly heats up the field. For her, what everyone sees on the bright side is, interesting, "emo what, get up hi." ”
(I remember that in "Wife's Romantic Trip 2", the four female guests met for the first time, everyone sat together, and the scene was so embarrassed that Li Jing, who was across the screen, was anxious for them.) As a result, as soon as Xie Na appeared, the embarrassment was instantly resolved, and everyone immediately lived)
However, Xie Na also failed here.
Without a solid cultural literacy as a foundation, it has been criticized by everyone. In Xie Na's hosting career, things such as reading typos and grabbing other hosts have indeed happened frequently.
(In one program, I read it with a hand card, but I pronounced the "dan" of "exhausted" as "chan")
(At the 2019 Hunan Satellite TV New Year's Eve party, he has been grabbing Wang Han)
As a result, this kind of national popularity is mixed, and there are reputations. There is a question on Zhihu "Why is Xie Na so annoying?" The question has been viewed by more than 500 million and has nearly 25,000 answers, among which the highest number of likes is that her life is shallow.
But what I want to express most is that behind this mixed reputation, what permeates is the energy of a real grassroots girl fighting.
What I felt strongly from Xie Na was her positive and optimistic attitude as the "goddess of the sun", and the hard work to fight for it with an open face.
When she joined Fast Ben, Xie Na's stage name was Yezi. Compared with He Jiong and Li Xiang, who are lively and professional and solid, Xie Na, who has no experience and is not very standard in Mandarin, has no advantages, and she relies on methods such as playing ugly, playing treasures, and showing foreign appearances to make the audience laugh.
Li Xiang's quitting "Fast Ben" is an opportunity for green leaves to become red flowers. At that time, the program group adopted a competition mechanism, and He Jiong was left behind in the PK, while Weijia and Xie Na, who were sitting under the stage, rushed to the stage as long as they felt that there was an opportunity to show. Xie Na completely ignored the image, and kept enlarging and enlarging her body funny, so as to win herself one opportunity after another to appear on the stage.
(Whole lying on the ground performing frog leg wipers)
For a long time, Xie Na's style was not accepted, she was scolded, written to complain, and driven off the stage by the director.
However, Xie Na did not back down, but did everything to get a chance for herself. There is a python coming to the program, everyone is afraid, but for the effect of the program, Xie Na can also wrap the python around her body and dance very loudly. But no one knew, "The snake was so wrapped around my neck that I almost lost my breath." ”
When I first did a variety show, there was another time when I needed to fall straight back from the high platform with my back. Although there is a protective pad under the back side, she is actually still afraid in her heart, and "my cervical spine will be injured after falling down", but she held back and said nothing, "I'm afraid that the director will feel oh after he knows it, why is this girl so weak, if she is easily injured, don't let her do it next time." ”
(Content from "InStyle": Xie Na meets another self)
After so many years, she is no longer the little white and transparent she used to be, but Xie Na has never slackened, always resisting all kinds of doubts and abuses, and doing her best to seize all resources with dedication and super high entertainment spirit. Her first pregnancy and childbirth was in February 2018, she gave birth to a baby, pregnant and gained 150 pounds, and after giving birth, she dieted, fitness, and practiced vest line, and it took only 81 days to make a quick comeback.
(Three months later, she posted a vest line on Weibo)
As soon as he returned, he recorded 2 episodes of "Happy Camp" in a row, and then various jobs were arranged one after another.
In 2019, she recorded "Wife's Romantic Trip".
In the program, "regiment leader" Xie Na led his wife's group to check in at Tianmen Mountain in Zhangjiajie, and fell down several steps one after another when descending the mountain. You can feel it by looking at her expression, it must be painful, but she slowed down for a while, then beckoned to refuse the stretcher, and walked slowly by herself.
She doesn't want anyone to see her weak and happy side.
Xie Na graduated from the School of Film and Television of Sichuan Normal University, an unknown school.
After graduating, she went to Beijing to wander. On days when she didn't become famous, she participated in various competitions. But as soon as he spoke, a mouthful of Trump became everyone's joke. In order not to let others laugh, Xie Na often ran alone to a farm behind the school to practice tongue twisters, and it took years of persistence that she became fluent in Mandarin.
At first, I went to the crew, just to help other actors suck the oil off their faces. Summoned up enough courage to ask for a small role, and finally had to act while being responsible for sucking oil for other actors.
She rented an unheated house in Beijing and experienced the cold of winter, and at one point could only eat bubble noodles. After moving seven or eight times, I found a five-square-meter house next to the toilet, and I could only sleep sideways.
Once, the crew told Xie Na to collect her salary, and she couldn't even get 8 yuan in fare.
How could Xena not fight?
The ten years of her life that she most wanted to forget were the hardest years at home.
(When she was in school, she returned to school overnight after filming at the train station ticket station, went straight to the auditorium to participate in the debriefing performance without rest.) Source: Harper's Bazaar "Xena's Tears, Falling When the Lights Fade Down")
I have always believed that Xie Na's "sun goddess" energy has her own fears and uneases, and that the "no position" she shows is a protection for herself. But there is nothing wrong with this, as a host, "being misunderstood is the fate of the expressor", she gave everything to get to this day, she can choose the way she adapts and continue walking.
After "Happy Camp" was suspended, Xie Na's fixed stage was gone. When He Jiong and Wu Xin were still active, rumors circulated that Xie Na's career was in an embarrassing period. What we can see is that her Weibo profile is no longer the host of Hunan Satellite TV, but has become a "host".
However, in fact, she did not stop.
Xie Na, the second child born in mid-2021.
In October of the same year, she recovered almost perfectly and participated in the "Talk Show Conference Season 4"; On December 31, he joined Hunan Satellite TV's New Year's Eve concert; In May 2022, he hosted "Riding the Wind and Waves Season 3" as the "Wind Riding the Wind and Waves". In addition to hosting and variety shows, she also began experimenting with theater. In 2022, Xie Na and Article co-starred in the drama "Ten Triangle Relationship" directed by Lai Shengchuan, and participated in the 9th Wuzhen Drama Festival Town Dialogue.
In addition, looking at Xie Na's social platforms, you will find that her more appearances in the past two years have been online.
She began to share her daily life, health tips, food tutorials on Weibo... And the update frequency is not low, there will be a new issue in three or five days.
I still understand Xena very well.
Times have changed, now the income of live broadcast head big Internet celebrities, a certain meaning has been far hanging stars, Hangzhou's head live broadcast owner, buy a building starting from 100 million, is standard. Instead of shining for other people's stages, it is true to hold the traffic initiative firmly in your own hands. Another point is that the mother of three children, no matter how many aunts, the invisible contribution that the family requires of her is very high. In an interview with Harper's Bazaar, she said: "After becoming a mother, many things are not impossible to refuse, you must refuse. ”
Chen Weijun, director of "Shengmen", once said:
"It is said that childbirth is a matter for two people, a matter for husbands and wives, but it is not. It is the woman who really faces everything. ”
It is not so much that Xie Na's "disappearance" is because there is no way out in her career, but perhaps, what we ignore is that she has to free up such a period of time for her children, after all, the youngest daughter Xiao Yuya is less than 2 years old.
Chen Qiaoen once said that Xie Na will go home to accompany the child when she arrives, and her thoughts are on the child; He Jiong also said that she is the most attentive and broken kind of mother.
After becoming a mother, Xie Na was filmed many times, and left in a hurry after recording the show without even having time to change her clothes. She herself has repeatedly said on social platforms that she is used to rushing home from late flights.
As Zhou Yijun, who is a mother, said in "Round Table Party":
"For the next generation, they want your time, a piece of your life."
But Xena will not be content to truly disappear.
Recently, with the outflow of the final list of "Sister Lang 4", it is basically certain that Xie Na will participate;
Then, on March 29, the news of Xie Na's return came. She participated in the recording of "Detective 3", and judging from the Reuters picture, her whole person is in very good condition.
Having counted so much, I will sum up my feelings at the end.
First of all, of course, I personally want to see Xie Na continue to shine, this kind of thing, but undesirable, I don't want to see women tied too tightly by the label of "mother", she should be herself first. However, times are changing after all, and if Xie Na is no longer so national in the future, I don't think it is necessarily a bad thing.
The circle of friends brushed a statement, I think it is very interesting.
"Career" is actually two forces. One is a thing, and the other is karma. People who have something to do are not necessarily people who have a career.
"Things" can be decided by yourself, and "karma", from another world, is the homework you have to complete in this life, you can't receive homework in this life, if you can't do homework, you won't graduate, and you have to do homework in the next life.
From the perspective of friends, in fact, career is also very hard. So, let it be, all the cards given by fate are good cards that make us in different places.
I hope that Xie Na will slowly turn the light of the sun to the inside, comfort herself, nourish herself, get fame and fortune, get applause, and it is not as good as getting comfort and happiness.
Bless her.