Many parents like to use the words in poetry and song to name the baby, such a name sounds fairy, elegant and poetic, has a source, has a meaning, and makes people like it very much.
To be honest, I also like those nice names, and everyone yearns for everything that is beautiful. But life is realistic, whether beautiful or not, you must solve the problems in reality to discuss, hungry to talk about ideals, ideals can only think. Let's take a look at what is wrong with the names assigned to poetry and songs.
Many poems have sentences describing scenery, and in the eyes of most poets, the beauty is clouds, smoke, moon and stars, as if in a dream. Like what:
The world is like a dream, and a bottle is still in the moon. - Like a dream
Remember the Yuan Bing language, do not mistake the disk star. - Ice language
The frost in the north is condensed bamboo, and the southern mountain water enters the fence. - Condensed bamboo
A smile and a junshi are also dreams within a dream. - Yimeng
Or Yun wants to learn to blow Fengsheng, so Mu Lingfei is comparable to Xiao Shi. - Mu Ling
The rain fell on the river, and the white dew was not yet gone. - Lu Xi
Drink and think softly. - Sirou
Weicheng is light and dusty in the rain, and the guest house is green and willowy. - Morning rain
There are countless names extracted in similar verses, and when you see the names, the beauty seems to be in front of you, but the beauty is unreal, too illusory.
In name science, most poems and songs have many problems with the names assigned, the most common being "forbidden words":
[Dream] is false, only produced when people are asleep, not a product in three-dimensional space, called a dream, will do unrealistic things, especially in the middle of the name emotional bit problem is the largest, the heart is always out of touch with reality, emotional marriage is also easy to be short-lived.
[ice] this word is often said, too cold, not good for physical health, female gynecological diseases, dysmenorrhea, uterine cold, but also not good for feelings, holding a piece of ice in the hand, not too long, feel cold, the other party will let go, the relationship is not long.
The original meaning of [condensation] is to freeze, and by extension it means solidification and concentration. The meaning of the word is similar to ice, but there is also the meaning of solidification, that is, immoving, can not be used for the tailword, because the last word represents the executive power, the execution is solidified, there is no good play, affecting the business finances.
【灵】The traditional character is [灵], and the original meaning of the word creation is witch mantra (three mouths) to ask for rain successfully, true spirit! The meaning of the word is witch, and by extension it means alertness, spirit, soul, about immortals, dead people, etc. The meaning of the word is beyond the three-dimensional space, it does not have authenticity, it is easy to be inspired, if you are engaged in spiritual related industries will be better, ordinary people are not recommended to use this word as a name.
[Dew] is a short-lived phenomenon, explosive, but has no staying power, fleeting beauty, but also prone to gynecological diseases, which is not conducive to the long-term relationship.
【Soft】Soft in the hidden spear soft is not soft, the meaning of the word is soft, gentle, but there is a "spear" in the glyph, this person must not be gentle, the heart is always ready to fight, relatively strong, easy to meet men who are weaker than themselves.
【Rain】Rainy days are not good weather, occasionally rain everyone is happy, if it rains every day I am afraid that no one can stand it, fewer people can use this word, especially not suitable for the middle word of the name, mood and feelings are always as bad as rain. It is best to use all weather words sparingly, because it is extremely unstable, and the weather is bound to be constantly changing, easy to be happy and not durable.
Another problem with the naming of poetry and song is that there is no matching person. We are naming a specific person, then of course the name must match the information of the owner: surname, gender, date of birth, parents or spouse, etc. If nothing is cooperated, then the name can be used by anyone, it has nothing to do with people, then, of course, it will not be a help to luck.
As the saying goes: It is better to give a son a thousand gold, it is better to teach the son an art, and it is better to teach the son an art, it is not as good as to give the son a good name! But what is good? Good luck, good sound, good writing, good looking, good calling, good fun... All are good, it depends on which is the most important. Among all the "good", the most practical and useful is good luck, and other good are foils, can have, can not have will not affect life, a lucky person, other good or not is not important, but if everything is good, is bad luck, then all good is a dream bubble, can only see, no practical use.
Some people say, wouldn't it be better if all these things can be done? Have you ever met someone without flaws? If you haven't seen it, then the names without shortcomings don't exist, every name will have problems, and with good luck, it may not be so poetic.
As long as the name has a good meaning, reads smoothly, and likes it, the most important thing is that the name can improve your luck, if it hurts luck, no matter how good it sounds, it is useless.
Just like a person, if he blindly pursues beauty and ignores health, and pays the price of health to become beautiful, he will regret it one day, for everyone, nothing is more important than a healthy and happy life!