The famous principal Li Zhenxi once said:
"The biggest obstacle to education is the distrust of parents."
Distrust, making what the teacher says and does is wrong;
Distrust, it is useless for teachers to do and manage it.
In the end, only children will suffer.
To all parents:
On the road to educating children, if you don't want to be side by side with the teacher, who can you trust?
Whistleblowing teachers is prevalent,
Is it educational progress or sadness?
I don't know if you have found:
After the "double reduction", teachers ushered in a "wave of whistleblowing".
Report teachers to make up lessons, report teachers who assign too much homework, report teachers who lecture in private...
Earlier, a second-year class teacher in Shanghai was reported.
The reason is: he posted practice questions and problem solving process in the circle of friends, which was thought by parents to cause anxiety, and reported it without saying a word!
This teacher is so wronged.
He did not do any violations, and second, he did not have a conflict with the parents of the students.
He just wants to help students improve, parents don't appreciate it, backhand a report, it's really chilling.
When reporting becomes a sword in the hands of parents, who will protect the responsible teacher?
A netizen of Zhihu shared:
Their school has a teacher who asks students to answer questions during class.
When the student stood silent, the teacher urged him, "Why don't you talk if you're not stupid?" ”
She didn't expect it,
This sentence was recorded by the student with a telephone watch,
When the parents found out, they reported it to the Education Bureau and made her lose her job.
Front-line teachers, there are words of suffering.
Even if you are conscientious, in exchange for the understanding of parents and the support of leaders,
But the punishment and suppression of the superiors, the counterattack and retaliation of students and parents, where is the heavenly reason?!
If the "whistleblowing tide" is allowed to stir up trouble, everyone can hold the power of life and death of teachers, and our education is at stake!
The teacher forbears to admit it,
If the parent wins, the teacher will only lose the child!
The People's Daily once pointed out:
"In the road of educating children, teachers and parents should walk hand in hand, and they should fully respect and trust each other."
But now, parents are getting more and more bullish, and teachers are getting more and more intimidated.
Meet a great senior teacher.
She has been teaching for 36 years, and her teaching performance is unmatched in the local area, but she applied for early retirement for the following reasons:
"I'm afraid of students!"
She used to hit her students' palms.
At that time, parents were very cooperative, and children would learn well if they "scared".
But now, if she "touches" a student a little, she will be sued by her parents to the Education Bureau.
She asked students to stay in class and tutor students' homework, but was pointed at and scolded by parents:
"Only incompetent teachers will take up students' time after school".
She was frightened.
Let me ask, the teacher's kindness is always misunderstood, the teacher's teaching is always ruined, who else wants to be nosy?
"Arrogant" parents, "admitted" teachers, will only cultivate "unsupportable Adou".
Open the blind box for the final exam, and learn well and badly can only accept life.
My grades have plummeted, and I am afraid that I will not even be able to go to high school.
The teacher gave up directly, did not dare to care, did not want to manage, would not care.
Teachers abandoning students will be the biggest misfortune for students.
Don't force the teacher to give up your child, otherwise, even if the parent wins the teacher, he will lose the child's future.
The last thing to blame is the teacher,
The last thing to pamper is the child!
According to relevant data:
In recent years, the total number of juvenile crimes on the mainland has accounted for more than 70 percent of the total number of criminal offenses in the country.
Parents are reluctant to educate their children, and society will educate him fiercely for you!
In 2016, a 16-year-old girl was raped and murdered, which caused a sensation throughout the country.
The murderer was a male classmate of a young girl, who was rejected for confessing and held a grudge, and even killed him.
His parents' attitude was even more chilling.
When the son kills, they do not go to repent, but ask the girl's mother: Can it be solved with money?
Habitual children are like killing children, and spoiling will only harm children.
But the scary thing is,
Parents are not aware of their "connivance" and are raising their children into "demons" with their own hands.
The teacher was supposed to bring the child back to the right path, but was deprived of the right to civilize the child.
A primary school in Nanning,
A student who made trouble in class and was reprimanded by the teacher grabbed an umbrella and slashed it at the teacher's head.
The teacher was beaten into a concussion, but the parents said, "You have to be near my child."
A middle school in Jiangdu,
The bear children played in class, kicked the classroom door, spilled milk on their hands, and were disciplined on the spot by the teacher.
The next day, parents pulled banners in front of the school to insult the teachers.
One netizen said it well:
"In educating children, the taboo of parents is doting, and the taboo of teachers is perfunctory."
If teachers bind their hands to students, not seeking merit but no fault, education will eventually enter a vicious circle.
A doting parent, a kneeling teacher, can never teach a child who stands up.
Education is a collision of love,
Parents and teachers are invited to work together!
As the old saying goes: "Only when you are close to your teacher will you believe in his religion; Only by believing in their teachers will they love their teachings. ”
The attitude of parents towards teachers determines the quality of children's education.
A child has to grow into a talent,
It is inseparable from parents and teachers.
Only when both parties work together can the child truly benefit.
Real people and real things happening around you.
When I used to study, a male classmate was particularly naughty, did not study well, and skipped class to play online games.
The head teacher invited the parents, and the two chatted for a long time in the office.
Later, the class teacher with a soft personality became unrelenting, punishing standing, opening small stoves, taking airplane seats... Although the means are strict, they control the boys well.
The boy got lost, his academic performance slowly improved, and then he was admitted to university, and now he has a decent job.
At the class reunion, he said to the class teacher:
"When I was a child, I hated you very much, but now, I am most grateful to you."
The head teacher waved his hand:
"If you want to thank you, thank your father!"
It is the cooperation of parents that allows teachers to better educate children;
It is the strictness of the teacher that gives children the opportunity to change their destiny.
Harvard professor John Cotter argues:
"Those who oppose you are not enemies, they may be the ones who can help you the most."
I hope all parents will understand:
A good education must have strict management and love;
A good teacher has both a bodhisattva's heart and a Vajra means.
Parents support teachers, teachers support children, children can grow up healthily.