▶ Every day of life is the careful creation ◀ of the soul
Take the troubles that the people around you bring to you as a practice
Seth once mentioned that the so-called visualization is to often look at what kind of inner picture appears in your mind.
If a person can use his inner beliefs, coupled with his emotions and soundtracks, to make a picture of his entire imagination, such a mental image can be connected to the inner picture.
For example, if you don't like certain things in your life, you have to change them very consciously. The picture in your heart must follow your beliefs, so if you look carefully at your heart, you will find that your heart often shines with many pictures of life, shining that you are 80 years old, 60 years old, 50 years old... A picture of the life you lived.
In your mind, you're constantly playing your life, but you don't know it.
Many women, before they got married, have shown pictures of her divorce and played pictures of her running away from home alone. In the world of pictures, what other man is reliable!
I often say that we must have the ability to change our mental image. The so-called mental image is a picture that is constantly played in your heart and your mind.
I was treating the mother of a child with Tourette's disease today, and as soon as she came, I asked her, why didn't the child come? Is your child hospitalized? Is it effective for my child to be hospitalized? She said her children are still bumping around.
A child with Tourette's disease is like a carp jumping over the dragon gate, like a fish, put him on the ground, and the fish will turn and jump! His mother drove him on a motorcycle, and he hit and jumped in the back! He would hit his mother's chin, hit her head and bleed, and shout as she bumped, "Mom, it hurts!" I don't want to bump again. "But I kept bumping and couldn't stop.
I told this mother, this child, he has to rebel against you since he was a child, and all his symptoms are rebelling against you, because you have adopted a militarized education for him since he was a child.
If the child is now lying on the bed, like a lazy worm, writhing around in the bed, the mother will call the child, you are not allowed to lie on the bed, give me to sit obediently, this child has been sculpted by the mother since childhood, what you should do, what you should not do, what can be done and what can not be.
She never gave her children freedom, she always regulated her children with a behavior. Her child has a deep subconscious in her heart that wants to rebel against this mother, but everyone must know how terrible a child who resists her mother is for her child.
You are born to your mother, your money is given by your mother, and your food, clothing and housing are taken care of by your mother. If Dad is responsible, does not divorce his mother, and loves him, he can choose to rebel against Mom, because Dad will take good care of him.
Mom is the one who takes care of him and restricts him, and all the Tourette's syndrome of the child is to tell the mother that I want to be myself, I want to collide with you, I want to rebel against you. But the child's rational and acquired personality told him that if I bumped into my mother and resisted my mother, then I would not live.
Therefore, he unconsciously rebelled against his mother, and constantly suppressed himself, forming the pathological basis of Tourette's disease neurology, which is no longer under his control.
His deep subconscious wants to rebel against his mother, and at the same time his mother frames him so tightly that he can't find a way out.
Today I said to this mother, since your children are like this, then you obey his resistance, and whatever he resists you, you obey him.
Dear students, when you say, you are running away from home, Dad said okay, how can you resist? You tell Dad that I want to marry that man, Dad says okay, you marry, how do you resist him? How do you rebel against someone who approves of you and accepts you?
You have to heal your child, you will be a mother whose child cannot rebel against you, and when he does not need to rebel against you, his strength will be united.
This mother asked me a rhetorically: "If I don't restrain him, teach him, or frame him, will he become more and more staked?" I replied, "How bad can it be?" ”
In the mother's picture, there is always a picture that the child will become bad if he does not teach, restrict, or frame.
I told her, when the water comes, if you block it again, it will be useless. All of your child's Tourette's disease is deeply subconsciously dissatisfied with you, and he wants to rebel against everything you have.
He is not an adult, adults can resist with words, deeds, he is just a child. The child rebelled against his mother, and at the same time told himself that he could not resist his mother, and a strong conflict and contradiction formed in the child's heart.
There are many parents who tell me, what should I do if my child is very rebellious? Now do you know what to do? What he said, you said well, what else did he rebel? Rebellious fart.
The child said, "Mom, I'll be home at 3 a.m. Mom said, "I gave you a key and left you a supper, it doesn't matter if you don't come back, just be comfortable." ”
How can a child resist? There is a deep belief behind this is trust in human nature, fundamental trust in human nature. A home is warm, which child does not want to go home. Only people who have fear, people who are very self-restrictive, will you control others.
Let me tell you one more thing, you should take the problems that the people around you bring to you as a practice. My kids are okay, I'm happy, that's not right. Your child's problem just points out your problem, and you must look at it from this perspective, otherwise you will not practice.
Your parents have caused you a lot of pain, or your children have caused you a lot of trouble, sorry, no, they are pointing out your inner problems.
For example, if you have a depressed child who refuses to go to school or hang out with friends, there must be a melancholy self in you, a self who cannot break through and is trapped in the deadlock in life, and your son is just acting out for you.
Everyone around you is playing "Who are you". You can't run away, you don't deny it, because it's useless, the people around you are the three-dimensional mirror in your soul, and he reflects the self you haven't really faced. Everyone is a mirror to each other.
The "mental image" I am talking about is very important, what kind of people and what kind of pictures are playing in your mind.
Those jumping pictures have thoughts, emotions, images, and soundtracks. Those images, which appear within us, have long been part of our beliefs, and we will also see all these "mental images" manifested in our life experience.
Excerpt from Dr. Hui Thiam Sheng's audiobook "The Nature of Personal Reality"
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About author:Hsu Thiam Seng [Taiwan], world-renowned psychologist and psychiatrist, founder of Xu Thiam Seng Psychodynamics and messenger of global communication, author of psychology, philanthropist, entrepreneur.
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