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On the highway in Heilongjiang, an RV is speeding, and in the driver's seat is a pampered-looking woman, singing happily, as if leaving all her troubles behind.
A small RV that carries the dream of a family going out and seeing the world. Dreams start from the bud and accompany people throughout their lives.
In the continuous growth, some people's dreams have been broken by reality to lose their color and hide in the dark, while some people's dreams always shine brightly, like a beacon, guiding the direction of life.
Fang Yueting is the one who never gave up on her dreams, and although she is now over 40 years old, she still has a passionate heart and has not forgotten the travel, photography, handsome guys and food she loved when she was young.
With this heart, she has lived her life in many colors, like a timeless free romantic poem, and like a magnificent mountain and river painting.
Dreams are precious, and it's never too late to go.
At the end of October 2021, after Fang Yueting divorced her second husband, she took her parents and daughter, plus the family's pet dog, and started a four-person and one-dog RV travel life from Heilongjiang Province with a white RV.
Together, they have been to large bee farms in the suburbs to see the hardworking little bees looking for flowers and making nectar; I have also been to the famous Jiangnan famous Suzhou, tasted the local pipa commentary, and Fang Yueting herself studied with the master of the commentary.
They have also visited the wild elephant breeding center in Yunnan, a major tourist province, to learn about the living habits of wild elephants...
In 2022, Fang Yueting has made plans for the four seasons of the year, she plans to take her family to Jiangnan at the beginning of spring to experience the grass and warblers flying in the south, and the flowers are vibrant.
When the summer heat is hot, take your family to the north to escape the heat and find coolness; In autumn, take your family to the west of Xinjiang to experience the most beautiful Kanas and see the picturesque scenery.
In the middle of winter, they go to the southernmost province of Hainan to feel the warmth of hot Hainan.
At this time, Fang Yueting, who tossed for her dreams, was over forty years old, and it was difficult for people to imagine that a woman of such an age still had such energy.
But she not only really began to pursue her dreams, but also created her own account under today's short video platform to record the bits and pieces of her journey. From the account "Sister's RV Trip", we can get a peek at one or two.
In the video, Fang Yueting's daughter looks very young, probably only about 3 years old. The daughter's nickname is "Xiaobai", and she was born to her second husband.
Xiaobai was born in 2020, the little person looks white and clean, a pair of eyes are full of wit and eccentricity, Fang Yueting was impressed by her daughter's cuteness, maternal love flooded, and a heart hung on her.
Fang Yueting recorded the growth video of her daughter Xiaobai all the way, and people are like the free and flexible wind, exuding the breath of enjoying life.
I thought she would have a happy and complete family life, but from her RV travel video, there are daughters, parents, pet dogs, but no husband as a character.
As early as the beginning of 2020, Fang Yueting divorced her second husband. At that time, their daughter Xiaobai was born less than a year, but in this short period of time, Fang Yueting already felt deeply powerless.
I thought that after a failed marriage, she had grown up and could be more mature and brave to deal with emotional problems and deal with marriage relationships, but with the birth of her daughter, all her rhythms of life were disrupted.
It doesn't matter if the rhythm of life is disrupted, her love for Xiaobai is extremely strong, and no matter how trivial and stressful life is, she loves her daughter deeply and feels happy for it.
And the root of her unhappiness lies in her close lover, the person she sees as her lifelong partner.
Fang Yueting and her second husband met in 2018, and the two met at work and got along very happily. After a year of getting along, the two got married in 2019.
At that time, everyone was optimistic about them, even Fang Yueting herself thought so. In life, they have a very tacit understanding, get along extremely harmoniously, and their marriage and career are well balanced.
Fang Yueting can not only enjoy the comfort and relaxation brought by married life, but also experience the joy brought to her by the success of her career, but not long after the good times, everything changed.
After the birth of Xiaobai, her second husband took on the role of "father", but in real life, he did not have any consciousness and action, and in the process of parenting, he was like an invisible person throughout the process.
No matter whether his daughter did it right or not, he never opened his mouth to educate his daughter, and he could even be said to be lazy and evasive, throwing all the burden onto Fang Yueting.
This is completely different from Fang Yueting's imaginary picture of parenting after marriage. Although she herself is good enough to have the ability to raise Xiaobai alone, she does not want the role of father to be nominal in married life.
Because of parenting problems, she quarreled with Xiaobai's father countless times, and this man was stubborn. Not only did he not put in the energy in the process of raising Xiaobai, but he also did not sympathize with Fang Yueting's hard work in the parenting process.
Obviously, she is also a person with her own career, but she can't be like Xiaobai's father, just care about her career and ignore her children.
A person's energy is limited, Rao is Fang Yueting no matter how strong, but in the process of raising Xiaobai, the pace of her career has been suspended, and she has divided a lot of energy to her daughter, and at the same time, there are various unsatisfactory things in life, as well as her husband's incomprehension.
Because of this, this originally seemingly perfect relationship began to become precarious, and her originally confident marriage relationship slowly lost its color.
Finally, in 2020, she walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau with Xiaobai's father and exchanged the marriage certificate with a divorce certificate.
Before meeting her second husband, Fang Yueting had a life experience that was paid attention to by many people and was relatively hot.
This experience is that she was on a variety show in the marriage category - "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere", and in this show, she set a record for the fastest holding hands between male and female guests. The female guest is naturally Fang Yueting herself, while the male guest is Ren Zhaolin.
This is a male guest from Hong Kong, who was 43 years old when he participated in the recording of the show.
But this man over forty, who can be called a middle-aged man, does not have a big belly and greasy bald head like most middle-aged men stereotypes, but maintains the figure and energy of a young man in his twenties.
Just looking at the appearance, many people can't imagine that Ren Zhaolin is a person over forty years old. In addition to his excellent appearance, his personal business has also been quite successful.
Although he was born in Hong Kong, he grew up abroad, and when he grew up, he often worked in cross-border wealth management in China and the United States, met many elites from all walks of life, had his own industry, and was a small rich man.
It is such a person with excellent conditions, standing on the stage dazzling and dazzling, with proud capital.
But he is humble and courteous to anyone, showing elegance, not only does not casually judge others, but also knows how to respect other people's emotional experiences. All this attracted the female guests present, including Fang Yueting, who was standing in it.
However, Fang Yueting herself also knew that she did not have much advantage over the female guests present. First of all, when she participated in the show, she was over 30 years old and was the oldest female guest in the program group.
She is incomparable with a group of female guests in her early twenties, not to mention that she had a seven-year failed marriage relationship, after which she was a host of CCTV and resigned to leave CCTV due to entrepreneurship.
Despite this, Fang Yueting was not as timid as the girl, did not put away her gaze at the other party, dared to express her feelings while telling the other party frankly about her emotional experience.
She said bluntly to Ren Zhaolin on the show: "I am 35 years old this year, compared with other girls on stage, my age is not young, but relatively, we are the closest in age, so I want to ask you, do you mind a woman who has a history of marriage?" ”
In this regard, Ren Zhaolin expressed very calmly, and replied in a very indifferent tone: "Of course I don't mind!" Everyone has a past! ”
Fang Yueting's sincere and straightforward confession was exchanged for Ren Zhaolin's equally sincere frankness.
From his mouth, we learned that this condition is enough to match the vast majority of women present, and there is also a failed marriage relationship that has lasted for 4 years.
From the other party's story, we know that there are many frictions in his life with his ex-wife.
He is a person who yearns for freedom and does not want to be bound too tightly, but his ex-wife dictates him in everything, restricts him too much, so that he cannot feel the warmth of an intimate partner, and in the long run, he and his ex-wife chose to divorce and let each other go.
Similar experiences made Fang Yueting's liking for Ren Zhaolin doubled, especially in a short conversation later, she learned that the other party was like herself.
They are all people who maintain love and vitality for life, and always maintain expectations and enthusiasm for love, which is extremely rare in busy life. This also strengthened Fang Yueting's determination to show Ren Zhaolin her heart.
Because Ren Zhaolin himself has excellent conditions, as soon as he appeared, there were many female guests who left lights for him, even later, hearing that he had a marriage history, there were many lights left on the field, and even in the final link, there was a situation of counter-election.
When Ren Zhaolin chose the female guest, there were three candidates in front of him, one was Fang Yueting, a 35-year-old entrepreneurial boss, a 24-year-old young accountant, and the last was still a 24-year-old fashion manicurist.
In addition to this, the big screen also announced the attractive female guest that Ren Zhaolin chose at the beginning. The favorite female guest chosen by Ren Zhaolin is a young and beautiful girl named Yu Jiayin.
She is only 24 years old, as young and beautiful as her name suggests, with a young and energetic face, and at the same time has an excellent figure, tall and outstanding, and has a good temperament.
Compared with the young girls, Fang Yueting did not have much hope for herself, but she still couldn't stop being disappointed in her heart.
However, when Ren Zhaolin was in the reverse election, as soon as the host's words "Now, you can choose your favorite female guest" fell, he walked to Fang Yueting without hesitation, and his eyes looked at her firmly. This made Fang Yueting stunned and pleasantly surprised.
Not only Fang Yueting herself froze, but even the host Meng Fei present was stunned for a few seconds, and the rest of the audience was even more surprised.
Everyone watched Ren Zhaolin walk towards Fang Yueting without hesitation, and took each other's hands very naturally, leading her to the center of the stage.
At this moment, Fang Yueting felt that she was a princess, being led by her favorite prince to receive blessings from all directions.
They looked at each other and smiled, everything silent, as if the two had known each other for a long time. The host looked at the pair of happy male and female guests and couldn't help but become curious.
Ren Zhaolin confessed that she was attracted by Fang Yueting's extremely free attitude to life and yearning for a better world, and she was even more fascinated by her rich life experience and her clear self-knowledge.
This is the wisdom and wisdom that can only be possessed after the baptism and precipitation of the years. When asked by the host, he clearly remembered the touch of Fang Yueting's answer on him.
He heard her say: "My ideal life is to see the beauty and wonders of the world, see beautiful men of all styles, find a soul mate in life, and earn money to support my family by the way." ”
Ren Zhaolin is also such a yearning. He hopes that when his life is busy and fulfilling, there is no lack of freedom, no lack of beauty, no lack of love. So the two of them hit it off and sparked love extremely quickly.
The two of them set a record for the fastest hand-holding in the program group "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere". The two of them are gentlemen and elegant, and the other has a temperament, and they are extremely compatible in appearance.
In addition, their similar life experiences and similar three views and ideas also brought them closer to each other. Everyone is very optimistic about them, and they also walk off the stage and rush into real life amid the blessings of everyone.
They saw each other on stage, but the audience is real life, and the most real appearance of the two will be reflected in each other's eyes by the mirror of reality. After they became partners, the first hurdle they encountered was to be in a different place.
Fang Yueting lives in Beijing, while Ren Zhaolin lives in Hong Kong and the United States all year round, thousands of kilometers apart. Even though the transportation is extremely convenient today, the distance is still a big obstacle, and the two people really get along too little.
In addition to distance, there is also a lack of communication. The two people grow up in different language environments, which creates certain cultural differences.
In terms of communication, the two often do not reach their senses, misunderstandings, quarrels and troubles follow. Over time, no matter how sweet, fairy tale, and dreamy their beginnings were, they were also erased by reality.
In the end, before the two of them stepped into the marriage hall, they began to part ways.
This experience is a relatively heavy stroke in Fang Yueting's life, but she will not be immersed in it all the time. She also has her own dreams to pursue, so she comes out of her sadness and into the life she loves.
She took the opportunity to serve as the director of the program "Live China" to film the local customs and customs in Guizhou, working while feeling the joy of travel. Her world is a sea of stars and will not stop for anyone.
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