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Good family education is to teach children these things

author:China Women's Daily
Good family education is to teach children these things

Let children grow up healthy.

Good family education is to teach children these things

Parents are a child's first teacher, and the family is a child's first school.

Good family education plays an inestimable role in the formation of children's personality and lifelong education.

Behind every excellent child, there is an excellent family.

Good family education is to teach children these things.

Teach children to be independent

It is said that children are the most precious gift that God has given to parents.

Because it is precious, it is inevitable that he will be careful to build a warm and sturdy nest for the child, so as not to let the complicated world outside affect him.

But parents' overprotection will only make children dependent.

After all, children have to leave the warm embrace of their parents to experience their own life.

Therefore, parents must learn to let go as soon as possible and teach their children to be independent as soon as possible, so that children can learn to soar.

Teach children to be cultured

Good upbringing is not achieved overnight, it is formed over time.

Cultivation is not pretended in front of people, nor can it be "endened" and acted out after learning etiquette lessons, it is a natural expression of a person's inner quality. To show upbringing is to show what a person's soul looks like.

Real parenting starts from the details, and parents need to lead by example, and educated parents are the best role models for their children.

Good family education is to teach children these things

Teach children to be disciplined

As the saying goes, "If there are no rules, there is no square circle." ”

Rules are the rules for people to behave, to make people reasonable. It is very important to teach children to understand the rules.

Teaching children to talk about rules is to teach children to understand things, so that children can know what to do and what not to do, so that they can go steadily and far in the future.

Parents should set rules for their children from an early age to build their children's awareness of rules.

Children's words and deeds are in line with the rules, and parents should give encouragement and affirmation in time.

Parents have principles, and children can follow the rules.

Teach children to be grateful

Gratitude is a virtue, and teaching children to learn gratitude is an important lesson for parents to learn.

Parents should let their children learn to be grateful for all the good things in life, to the parents who gave him life, the teachers who taught him knowledge, and the friends who helped him.

Children can feel grateful in their hearts for those who help them, and are willing to return love and help to others in what they can.

Children know gratitude, indispensable to the teaching of parents, usually more patience with children, more understanding, less blame and criticism.

In daily life, parents should subtly guide their children. Children's gratitude needs to be watered by the wisdom of parents.

Good family education is to teach children these things

Teach children to speak well

The power of speaking well should not be underestimated, and children learning to speak well will benefit for life.

To cultivate a child who speaks well, parents should learn to listen to the voice of the child's heart more and let the child bravely speak his thoughts.

Parents' positive guidance, more affirmation, and more encouragement can suggest that children develop in a good direction.

Teach children to take responsibility

Parents should lead by example and make their children feel that responsibility is the right thing to do.

When the child sees that his parents have the courage to take responsibility, then he will imitate his parents to do the same.

Gradually, children will understand that being a human being requires the courage to take responsibility.

Every child is a copy of the parents, and the words and deeds of the parents will affect the child, correctly guide the child, and let the child grow up healthily.

In 2023

China Women's Daily

Source/Xinhua News Agency, Super Parents (ID: edu809 Author: Chao Ma)

Editor-in-Charge/Pastoral Yellow Butterfly

Review/Yifan Producer/Zhifei

Good family education is to teach children these things

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