"If a child is born to inherit his own toil, panic, poverty, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness." This sentence comes from the mouth of the famous writer Zhang Ailing, and its meaning is profound and thought-provoking.
The birth of a child should be the happiest moment for a family, but for some families, it is full of anxiety and worry. They face many problems such as economic pressure, social environment, education, etc., and feel that the growth of children requires too much effort and cost. In this case, if someone decides not to have children because of this, this is not selfishness and indifference, but also a sign of seriousness and kindness.
Fertility is a complex topic. On an individual level, only when parents can provide stable financial and moral support can they give their children a healthy and happy environment to grow up. And we cannot ignore the problems at the social and national levels. With the aging of the population and the intensification of economic transformation, the burden of social pension and the problem of population structure will bring greater challenges. Therefore, the government needs to formulate a more comprehensive and perfect birth policy, support people's independent choice and rational childbirth, and protect the rights and freedoms of every family.
Mr. Lu Xun once wrote in "The Scream": "How great is the hope pinned on a child! Children are the future and hope of a family, but they also carry heavy family responsibilities and social obligations. If the growth and development of children is only to inherit the toil, panic and poverty of their parents, then such fertility loses the meaning and value of life. On the contrary, if for various reasons it is not possible to provide adequate support and security for the child, then not having children is also a wise and responsible choice.
In short, the issue of fertility is an ethical, cultural, economic and other issues. We need to make the most appropriate decisions based on our own circumstances and actual conditions, while respecting each family's choices. The government also needs to provide better birth policies and safeguards for the people, and establish a better social security system, so that every family can enjoy a happy and good life.