01
Some netizens saw a couple in the mall, which was impressive.
The height of the man is about one meter seven or five, no different from ordinary people, and the beautiful woman he holds hands is taller than him.
Such a tall girl is rare, and what makes her more unusual is that she looks super thin.
The girl looks more tall in a coffee-colored tunic with a pair of black flared pants.
The key is that under the background of flared pants, the legs are also super thin, and they look like they are gripped, which is about the same thickness as her boyfriend's arm.
Passers-by turned back to salute, and the girl walked in a unique way, her arms rarely swinging, and her legs walked like drift.
Some netizens left a message: "This is also too thin, like hemp stalks, I am really afraid that a gust of wind will blow, and she will not be able to stand steadily." ”
Some netizens said: "It's nothing to be thin for beauty, but the premise is that thin is healthy, so forget about unhealthy." ”
Another netizen said: "Is it a dummy? I was really worried about breaking bones, and my back looked too bad. ”
It feels like so, in life, many girls like to lose weight, and there are even A4 waists, collarbone coin competitions, but these belong to a kind of entertainment.
If you really deliberately lose weight, it may have a great impact on health, and how many people are ruined by pathological aesthetics.
02
Remember Liu Ye?
Liu Ye was originally a girl with a normal figure, and accidentally met the boy Xiaoyan on the Internet, and the two had a good impression of each other.
Xiao Yan told her that he liked thinner girls.
In order to meet the other party's aesthetics, Liu Ye deliberately lost weight, she did not eat greasy food in her meals, but also deliberately reduced the amount of food, lost weight for a period of time, and lost more than ten pounds.
After the two met, Xiao Yan really praised her good figure, and said that she looked better than she thought, this sentence gave Liu Ye confidence, and she went home to lose weight more deliberately.
There is a "Duck effect" in psychology, which means that people have cognitive biases, and if they do not reflect on themselves, it is easy to go into the wrong area in behavior, which is called obsession.
Liu Ye is like this, she associates love with thinness, thinking that Xiao Yan likes her when she sees her thin, and for the sake of the firmness of her relationship, she takes weight loss as a goal.
In order to increase the motivation to lose weight, she also opened an account to record her experience, and some netizens reminded her: "You don't lose weight anymore, losing weight is not so good-looking, and it affects health." ”
She couldn't listen to the advice of netizens at all, her weight dropped to 78 pounds, and after meeting Xiao Yan again, Xiao Yan still praised her for being good-looking.
From this point of view, Xiao Yan is also problematic, he is very hypocritical.
In fact, Xiao Yan did not approve in his heart, seeing Liu Ye's thinness, he was a little afraid, but he did not dare to tell the truth, worried that he would hit the other party.
As everyone knows, his must be misleading Liu Ye, if he can tell the truth, maybe Liu Ye is not so persistent to lose weight.
Xiao Yan's affirmation once again gave Liu Ye confidence, and after Liu Ye returned home, he still held the belief of losing weight.
Her weight has dropped to 58 pounds, what is the concept, the body has been skinny to the bones, and the shoulder blades on her back are prominent.
Some netizens described it as a "walking skeleton girl", which is no longer thin, but sick.
It can be imagined that a person is thin to this extent, the body's internal organs will also be affected, her stomach is already hungry, eating is easy to vomit, usually eat some liquid food.
Many people are persuading her, she does not listen at all, still immersed in the illusion of love, she participated in the show to confess to Xiao Yan in public, thinking that everyone must be able to witness their happiness.
In fact, Xiao Yan did not dare to come to see her, he did not like girls who were too thin at all, and at the request of the staff, he wrote a letter to try to wake up the other party.
Liu Ye then understood that Xiao Yan had a sweetheart earlier, and the other party had a normal weight, and the reason why she was good looking was completely a superficial coping, not sincere.
This is the cruelty of the truth, girls can pursue love, but there is really no need to deliberately lose weight for love.
Moderate thinness can make you look more energetic, but if you are too thin, it is easy to have an impact on the body.
03
There is a good saying: "Everything has a degree, but it is not enough." ”
Whether we are fat or thin, or our grasp of life, we should have our own attitude.
There is no need to deliberately change yourself in order to cater to anyone.
On the Internet, there are often one or another aesthetics that guide people to participate in various challenges, and if you are a little more rational, you will find that there are other purposes behind it, but it is just to create momentum for a certain activity.
As an adult, you must learn to identify the ability, even if the people around you feel thin and good-looking, you can object, because there is no unified standard for aesthetics, and living with confidence is the real charm.
The good-looking skin bag is the same, and the interesting soul is one in a million.
Instead of focusing on appearances, work on improving your abilities.
Read a little more books, learn a little more skills, the light you emit from the inside out, will make people appreciate your charm more, do what you like, is the most valuable.
Not excessive, not extreme, moderate to have a sense of relaxation.
The sense of relaxation is a high-level beauty, as for the aesthetics in the eyes of others, what does it have to do with me.