Li Meng and Zhang Long were caught in the scandal of an extramarital affair
With the ex-wife of former Chinese women's basketball team leader Zhang Long, Zhao Lei, exposing the extramarital affair between Chinese women's basketball player Li Meng and Zhang Long on her personal network platform, this matter can be said to have spread on the Internet, causing heated discussions among many melon-eating netizens! The name of Chinese women's basketball player Li Meng, even, rushed to the first place in the hot search list for a while! It has become one of the hottest topics in the Chinese sports industry, and there are many opinions about this matter! A lot of people put forward different points of view!
With the news that Zhang Long's ex-wife Zhao Lei continues to reveal on the Internet, we can also know that Zhao Lei gradually knew about the ambiguous relationship between Zhang Long and Li Meng in February 2022! At that time, the Chinese women's basketball team was training in Shanghai in order to prepare for the Women's Basketball World Cup, but during this time, as the leader of the Chinese women's basketball team, Zhang Long, had an ambiguous relationship with Li Meng, the main player of the Chinese women's basketball team!
After Zhao Lei discovered Zhang Long's extramarital affair with Li Meng, she tried to save the marriage for the sake of her two children, and also forgave Zhang Long, but in the following time, Zhang Long and Li Meng did not break off their relationship. Subsequently, Zhao Lei went through divorce procedures with Zhang Long without success, ending the marriage between the two parties!
Only meritocracy, Yao Ming has good intentions
According to a basketball media person, he said that the incident between Li Meng and Zhang Long was well known to everyone on the Chinese women's basketball national team last year, however, this matter was only clear internally and was not announced to the outside world! The media person said, "This matter was well known in the women's basketball national team last year, but the circle helped them cover up, after all, this incident is related to the reputation of the women's basketball team, and the basketball media people are quite generous!" ”
As we all know, Li Meng, as a player of the Chinese women's basketball national team, if there is such a scandal, under normal circumstances, he should be expelled from the team. However, Yao Ming did not do this, but only removed Zhang Long's position as team leader, and Li Meng still represented the Chinese women's basketball team in the 2022 World Cup. Obviously, Yao Ming is really well-intentioned for the results of the Chinese women's basketball team.
For Li Meng's matter, Yang Yi, a well-known domestic commentator, also talked about his opinion! Yang Yi said, "The Chinese Basketball Association is not unable to punish, but it has not been made public, and the leader of the women's basketball team has been removed!" It was not appropriate for a women's basketball leader to fall in love with a women's basketball team. ”
Later, Yang Yi said again, "Moreover, it was during the competition, and the results were good, and the image of the Chinese women's basketball team was good, there was no need to block the people of the whole country!" This incident tells you the truth of competitive sports, the winner is the king, the loser is the curse, as long as you have good grades, all aspects have to take care of you, and all aspects have to be scrupulous! Including the current public opinion, it has not been completely killed! It's obvious that it's because the women's basketball team has a good result! This is not the entertainment industry after all! ”
From what Yang Yi said, it is obvious that sports competition is only "performance theory", regardless of others, it seems that as long as the results are good, many other things can be ignored, as long as the results are good, all aspects can be taken care of! Perhaps, it can be said that in a simple sentence, it is for the sake of achievements, and even, it can be said "unscrupulous!" "I have to say that Yao Ming is really well-intentioned!
If virtue is not admired, how can it be established?
With the extramarital relationship between Li Meng and Zhang Long being exposed by Zhang Long's ex-wife Zhao Lei, many people have also expressed their views, among them, a media person named Li Pingkang, he said, "Li Meng and Zhang Long are married, regardless of whether they had an ambiguous relationship before the divorce, but at least for now, Li Meng and Zhang Long are legal husband and wife." In this way, Zhang Long had problems such as alimony, which was between Zhang Long and his ex-wife, and if there was an illegal act, Zhang Long should be prosecuted instead of Li Meng. ”
Here, regardless of whether Li Pingkang is a "water army", whether he intends to whitewash Li Meng and Zhang Long! However, the author would like to ask a rhetorical question, "Here, I do not deny that work is merit!" However, it is also a pass! The junior successfully ascended to the top, is there any reason? Zhao Lei told the truth, told the truth, and sinned? What is the rationale for this? ”
Regarding the incident between Li Meng and Zhang Long, what the author wants to say is - if virtue is not admired, why build people?
When we were in elementary school, the first thing our teachers told us was to develop morally, intellectually, physically, aesthetically and laboriously, and moral education is to cultivate students' correct outlook on life and values, cultivate students with good moral character, and cultivate students to form correct ideological methods. Putting virtue in the first place shows that we must first establish virtue, and then we can cultivate people!
The ancient Chinese had "three immortals", one is virtue, the second is meritorious service, and the third is speech.
We can see that virtue is in the first place, which shows that virtue is the basis for being a person, doing things, and doing learning. How can we talk about meritorious service and words without virtue?
As the saying goes, "A country without virtue will not prosper, and a person without virtue will not stand!" That's exactly what I mean.
In the words of "Liji University": "Knowledge, sincerity and righteousness, self-cultivation, unity of family, governance of the country, and peace in the world." ”
The self-cultivation mentioned here is morality, a person must first start from himself, start from the side, start from small things, accumulate bit by bit, and cultivate good thinking and good morality! Only in this way can we achieve unity of family, governance of the country, and peace in the world!
However, judging from the incident between Li Meng and Zhang Long, we can find that some people have become morally corrupt! It's not clear whether it's black or white! Li Meng, as a player with excellent skills, she is a public figure, and she has a great influence on everyone, so it is very important for her to convey the correct three views to the audience and fans! However, she was exposed to destroy other people's family happiness! So, why talk about virtue and meritorious service?
Perhaps, as Yang Yi said, for the sake of the team's results, everything else can be looked down on, the winner is the king, and the loser is the curse! But do we have to reflect, is this the sportsmanship that our people need? Is this the sportsmanship we want to promote? If yes, I have to say, this is the sadness of Chinese sports, it is really sad! Amusing! Alas!
Perhaps, there are some stars abroad, their private lives are flooded and constantly messed around! Here, let's ask rhetorically, is this the "take-ism" we want to learn? At the time of "take-ism", have we forgotten - to take the essence and remove the dregs?
Zhang Long, as the leader of the Chinese women's basketball team, cheated on him in marriage and had an affair with female players! After the divorce, they do not fulfill the pre-divorce agreement, and they do not even give child support! Doesn't this mean that immorality is impossible? Such an immoral person, I really don't know how he became the leader of the Chinese men's basketball team and the Chinese women's basketball team! What a speechlessness!
This article is just an attempt by the author to express a personal point of view, which may hinder some people from "whitewashing" certain events! If you have a different point of view, please feel free!