The most painful line in "Echo": How did I fall in love with you in the first place?

"Echo", the plot synopsis of this drama only watched a few episodes of editing already made me feel a sense of depression.

A weather like a sudden overcast in the heat of midsummer, black clouds overhead, but the storm just doesn't come.

Irritability, suffocation, depression, mountain rain wants to come and see the wind, black clouds want to destroy the city, that kind of depression can only be experienced by those who have felt the same way in marriage.

Xiao Song Jia's low, weak voice pushed this depression to the extreme, there was nowhere to tell, nowhere to vent, and could only speak to himself like a whisper.

Facing his questioning wife, Mu Dafu (played by Wang Yang) said a sentence with great resonance energy: How could I fall in love with you in the first place?

Before we know it, we lose love.

I think this is probably the consensus reached by many couples who have entered into marriage because they are in love after living together for many years.

Many times love is not afraid of the storm of the first love, the greater the wind and waves, the tighter the two people hug each other, of course, whether you can hit more fish is a later story.

More love, not died in the wind and waves, but died in the triviality of life.

I once told my friend: whether a husband and wife can grow old, the most important thing is not to make everything too clear, it is rare to be confused.

Because in life, if you are too true, you will often live very tired. The reason why many marriages can be maintained forever is most likely because both husband and wife can turn a blind eye, too real people, not suitable for marriage.

Young couples don't want to hear me because they are the same age.

They care about each other's every response, shush and ask for warmth, a sense of ritual, whether they care about their emotions, they will quantify love to every detail of life, and then add up and score one by one to see how many points their love can get.

But the old husband and wife will not, they only regard love as an ornament, and they are more concerned about the main body of marriage, responsibility and material foundation.

Ran Dongdong (played by Song Jia) If her age is pushed back fifteen years, she will most likely not force her husband to ask who she opened a room with, and she should be more concerned about whether the money on his salary card has flowed out.

This is not to say that middle-aged women have become materialistic and realistic, but in the face of a large number of disappointing facts, they have clearly seen the essence of love and humanity.

Can I say that the singleness and uniqueness that marriage and love seek are themselves anti-human?

Love is a product of social civilization, an ideal way of emotion, and often fails to withstand the test of harsh reality.

Both husband and wife, no matter how difficult it is to love at the beginning, after a certain period of time, they will be tired of each other, which is normal, but people with a strong sense of responsibility and morality keep the bottom line, and many people betray the marriage.

Of course, there are couples who have loved each other for life, but there are very few.

Faced with his wife, who was forced to ask him every day like a prisoner whether he was cheating, he showed the usual behavior of men, he acted angry, mad, hysterical, he first denied it and then forcefully reasoned.

The two people quarrel constantly, if their marriage is a dish, then the matter of opening a house is undoubtedly like a fly falling into the dish, disgusting and disgusting.

Marriages are most afraid of cheating, illness, and huge debts, and most marriages fall apart for at least one of these three reasons.

Man, is an animal composed of flesh and thought, although advanced, but still maintain the nature of animals, they are likely to meet different thoughts, regardless of men and women, but from ancient times to the present female virtue will seal women's thoughts, in fact, it is really difficult for a person to love only one person.

If you want to maintain the apparent harmony of marriage, you must learn to endure, otherwise it is better not to get married. The more sober a person is about human nature, the less likely they will be to be happy by getting married.

Because the experience of marriage is often not so cool.

Husband and wife in marriage will quarrel because they find that the other party does not love themselves, quarrel because of housework, quarrel because of different educational concepts, quarrel because of relatives on both sides, quarrel because of economic problems, and even, sometimes quarrel over a worthless thing.

How could I have fallen in love with you in the first place?

Because at the beginning, you only cared about enjoying the sweetness of love, but forgot to manage each other's love well in marriage, you mistakenly thought that love can be evergreen in the greenhouse of marriage and blossom and bear fruit, but you just forget that only after the flower blooms and fails, it will bear fruit.

The meaning of blossom is not only to be fragrant and decorate spring, but also to bear fruit and create more value.

This is also the truth that many couples who cheat in marriage but still do not choose to divorce understand in their hearts.

The most beautiful love should live in memories, and only love living in memories can make you sad and moved. A person who pursues emotional purity is not worthy of marriage, because marriage itself does not serve love, it serves the interests of both husband and wife.

Otherwise, wouldn't it be better not to get married together? There is really no need to use a marriage contract to prove the other party, mostly so that when they break up one day, they can calculate the economic accounts clearly.

I have a neighbor, male, in his fifties, who is a model husband in the eyes of the big guys on weekdays, and he is very good to his wife. Everyone else is envious, but in fact, I know the secret of my neighbor, he has two mobile phones, one mobile phone is placed in the office to cope with people's affairs, and the other hand is used to chat on the Internet.

He was not afraid that I would know, he said: In this life, people have lived to be more than fifty years old, and they really do not have to stick to the rules, otherwise they will come to this world for nothing.

But his wife didn't know that he was chatting about himself behind his back, and even if the people next to him knew, they were only talking after tea. The days have passed happily until now amid the praise of the exemplary husband.

I also accidentally found out because he asked me to help me complain and log in to the WeChat account.

If you want to maintain family harmony, you can't be too serious, otherwise, it is better to be celibate.

Why are more and more people becoming less convinced of love and more willing to pursue material things? It's not that people don't need love, but love is more expensive than money, and the average person can't afford to consume it.

The controllability and stability of love are too poor, but money is much more real, and you generally can't lose it in your hands.

It doesn't really matter who your partner opens with, what matters is who your door is willing to open to. Fear of being hurt, lock it up.

If there is no desire, it is strong, and without love, it is light.

Feng Xiaogang understands marriage.