"We don't believe that stress can be transformed into motivation, stress can only be transformed into medical records", is a sentence sent by a parent to the teacher, intriguing, but worth pondering. The few numbers show the sadness of Chinese education, and also reflect the love of parents for their children, and I have even seen the helplessness and sadness of many ordinary parents!
Children are the hope of a family, no one hopes that their children can get ahead and do something more than the parents of children, and if you want to grow up to be brilliant, you must pay a great price from childhood and bear a lot of pressure, which is the inevitable choice of today's society. And this parent is willing to give up excessive pressure to give the child a freedom, so that the child can follow his own preferences to choose the path of development, not to be a victim of the brushing machine and the system, in fact, I agree, but behind the approval I don't know whether this naked real society approves.
The more I grow up, the clearer I see, the so-called decent, welfare, stable all kinds of work need academic qualifications, such as banks or civil servants, or railways, national grid, tobacco even count, want to enter tobacco rely not only on academic qualifications but more is human affection and solid family circumstances, this is not within consideration, the real examples around other fields tell me that we as ordinary people can reach through learning, these units can be said to be a lifetime thing as long as they can enter, That is, the iron rice bowl that we have been craving and pursuing! Whether you admit it or not, it's unfair or not, and the strength and charm of these jobs are there.
The higher your education in the civil service exam, the less competitive pressure, the greater the chance of going ashore, if you want to enter the bank, you have at least a bachelor's degree to have the opportunity to take the exam, this is the reality, so is education important? Very important! The thing I regret the most now is that when I went to school, I only knew how to have fun and did not know how to make progress, which led to the embarrassment of my work and life now, and I usually don't say these words, because it is useless to say it, and there will be no chance to turn back after time, and there is no point in leaving my sad memories. But there is a real chance to do it again, and I would rather be a victim of the problem-solving machine and system than struggle in this cruel society.
Many people say that no matter how much they read, the final result is just to work for those children who do not read, so reading is useless. This is absolutely wrong, being an individual boss is a way out, but we must be soberly aware of ourselves, there are 1.4 billion people in China, how many bosses can be accounted for? There are too many uncertain factors in the current social environment, uncontrollable factors such as diseases, wars, and natural disasters are increasing day by day, as far as the three-year epidemic is concerned, the most affected are not ordinary people but those bosses, how many people are in full bloom when the company is thriving suddenly facing the company's bankruptcy, carrying huge debts, life from heaven to hell, and those who serve the "iron rice bowl" do not have so many worries and concerns, this is the reality!
The words sent by my parents to the teacher made my eyes wet and my heart ached, and I knew that this was also something I would inevitably encounter in the near future, on the one hand, the most selfless love for the child, on the other hand, the stranglehold and torture of the child's nature, I don't know if I will have the courage to make such a choice as resolutely as this parent. I would probably rather let my child suffer from learning than let him suffer from society, but whether my thoughts are pathological and non-compliant is now full of doubts. I can only tell him as much truth as possible about my thoughts and what I have seen and experienced, although as a parent, I do not have the right to make choices for him and influence his life, but I will tell him that he must be a person of value to society. Wearing a uniform to protect the family and defend the country, a three-foot podium to teach and educate people, and wearing white clothes to save lives and help the wounded are a few good choices for you, and it is also the advice of your parents, as for how you want to go about your way, under the premise of not touching the bottom line of the law and not endangering the motherland and the people, I respect it! Learning is not the only way out, but it is definitely a way to cross classes and achieve higher life value, this road is by no means a shortcut, but a long and arduous road of struggle, I hope you can make a good choice, within the scope of parental ability to give you the best protection and support, in addition to parental ability, parents will also desperately fight for you, you don't put too much pressure on yourself, do not ask you to be rich, just ask you to be healthy and happy to live dashing and transparent is enough!
I finally know that the next life will not come, why this sentence can arouse strong resonance with hundreds of thousands of comments, because born as a human being, all living beings are suffering! Whether you live happily or sadly, don't question our parents' love for us, or blame gardeners who work hard for us with occupational diseases. Always be grateful, work hard for the path you choose, and hope that we can all live as we like, instead of growing up and lamenting that we have finally lived the person we hated the most!
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