Text | Rice grain mother
A few days ago, Mi Li's mother saw two hot searches, both about fifteen or sixteen-year-old girls in the flower season. But the two hot searches of two girls of the same age are put together, which makes Mi Gran's mother feel that she was born with a blank piece of paper, but the gap between people and people is getting bigger and bigger.
A hot search is a 16-year-old girl wearing heavy makeup on the street, wearing high-end brand clothes, beating an aunt riding a tricycle. The ruthlessness of the attack, the rice grain mother saw the scalp numb.
The other is that a 15-year-old girl was admitted to the junior class of Xi'an Jiaotong University, and at a young age in the third year of junior high school, she will skip the middle school entrance examination, college entrance examination and graduate school examination, and use the next 8 years to study for a master's degree and directly obtain a master's degree.
The same teenage girl is also in the best adolescence. The direction of these two children's lives has already pointed in two completely different directions.
In their story, the rice mother sees how important a child's three views are.
Life is varied, thousands of people and thousands of faces, children who read and do not read live different lives.
A 16-year-old girl beats someone on the street
This hot search is about a 16-year-old girl An Yi, a small Internet celebrity who makes short videos and violently beats a tricycle aunt on the street.
The cause of the incident was that the girl accidentally left her mobile phone on the car after riding in the tricycle aunt's car. After the two got in touch, the tricycle aunt sent the mobile phone to the agreed place to wait for the girl.
After the girl arrived, the aunt asked for 60 yuan, but the girl was only willing to pay 20 yuan, and the two sides had a dispute, which finally turned into the girl's beating of the aunt.
The online video shows that the tricycle aunt first sat in the driver's seat, and the girl stood next to her and shouted:
"If you still want 60 (yuan), I won't give you 10 yuan."
Auntie said:
"I'll send you back, how long will I wait for you?"
The girl said:
"Why are you waiting?"
After that, the girl was about to leave. The tricycle aunt got out of the car and pulled her to prevent her from leaving. On the other side of the tricycle, the two continued to argue.
The girl said:
"Just don't give you money, give you 20 (yuan) is not enough, but also mobile phone money, is to beat you, beat you."
Aunt Tricycle said:
"So far away, you told me to send it back to you."
The girl said:
"Don't send it if you have the ability!"
During the argument, the girl waved her hands from time to time, appearing angry.
In another video, the girl grabs the hair of the tricycle aunt with one hand, first kicks the aunt with her foot a few times, then hits the aunt on the head with her hand continuously, and then kicks the tricycle aunt with her foot.
The crowd of onlookers couldn't stand it, so they quickly stepped forward to pull a fight and persuade the girl to let go. The girl again quarreled with a persuasive onlooker.
The beating girl was only 16 years old, wearing heavy makeup and tattoos. Her videos on the short video platform have thousands of comments and likes, but her dress is mature, so that people can't see their age at all.
The 16-year-old girl was supposed to go to school, but the girl had been immersed in society for many years. When the girl was taken away and detained, a psychiatric examination certificate was posted online, which showed that the girl suffered from depression.
In the short video she uploaded, there were also some screenshots of cutting her wrists, which made Mi Grain's mother feel particularly suffocated when she saw it. At the same age as a flower, what is conveyed in her video is a sense of sinking and languishing atmosphere.
In her world, the only way to solve problems is insults and violence, and the prospect of life may only be begging on the Internet, and grumpy, sad and gray mood.
The 15-year-old girl was directly admitted to Xi'an Jiaotong University
The hot search on the other side is in stark contrast to An Yi's dark painting style.
Yang Linlin, a 15-year-old girl who was admitted to Xi'an Jiaotong University in advance, is a particularly confident and cheerful girl. This "Sichuan girl" stood out in the 2023 junior class exam and became one of only two students in Sichuan Province who were successfully admitted.
What is the concept of Xi'an Jiaotong University? Rice grain mother to popularize it to everyone.
Xi'an Jiaotong University is one of the C9 Tiantuan, which refers to the Nine-University Alliance, which is the first university alliance between top universities in China.
The members of the alliance are all first-class universities in the first batch of national "985 Project" key construction, including Peking University, Tsinghua University, Fudan University, Shanghai Jiao Tong University, Nanjing University, Zhejiang University, University of Science and Technology of China, Harbin Institute of Technology, Xi'an Jiaotong University, a total of 9 universities.
Yang Linlin is a top student, there is no doubt about it. More than 2,000 people across the country have been referenced, and 200 have been admitted, and she is one of only two people in Sichuan Province.
But Mother Rice prefers her confident, sunny personality.
When she learned that she was admitted, the math teacher called her out of the classroom and told her the good news as soon as possible. She hugged her teacher excitedly.
Her science grades are particularly good, and she has almost perfect marks in physics. When communicating with reporters, she has strong language organization skills, clear logical thinking, and confident conversation, which actually benefits from her previous experience in speech competitions.
She said that at the beginning she was also very timid and stage frightened, when she first entered the school, she was selected as a campus radio host, and with the help of teachers and her own efforts, after several years of training, she now has a very confident appearance.
Yang Linlin said:
"There are people outside of people, I must not be satisfied with the status quo, but work harder."
Entering the junior class of Xi'an Jiaotong University is just the beginning for her. In this exam, she came into contact with many excellent children, many of whom have completed high school on their own, which is both pressure and motivation for her.
In the future, she should be deeply cultivated in her favorite physical direction and enter a new circle, which means that she has started a higher life.
This made Mi Li's mother think of Guan Ziqin, who was known as the successor of Peking University's "Wei Shen" some time ago.
Ziqin, a 14-year-old young official, went straight to Tsinghua University for a master's degree. Because he loved mathematics and was obsessed with mathematics since he was a child, he entered the Tsinghua training program at the age of 14 and studied under Master Chengqiu Chengtong.
Yau Chengtong is the first Chinese to win the Fields Medal, the highest international prize in mathematics, and is also a good friend of Hawking's during his lifetime.
Children like Yang Linlin and Guan Ziqin are natural students, but teenage children should also know that they should be responsible for themselves, have the correct three views, and know what to do and what not to do.
What causes are sown, what fruits are obtained
The same fifteen or sixteen-year-old girl, a 15-year-old admitted to the junior class of Xi'an Jiaotong University, and a 16-year-old was detained by the police for beating a tricycle aunt.
One has become the envy of everyone, and the other is a rat crossing the street that everyone shouts at. In a single thought, heaven and hell, their lives, also went to two completely different sides.
In fact, these two children have very good language expression skills, but Yang Linlin used this ability to become a campus radio host, and An Yi used this ability to become a vulgar Internet celebrity, causing her physical and mental injuries, full of negative energy, and now she is on the hot search because of vicious events.
Fifteen or sixteen years old, say big is not big, say small is not small. The nine-year compulsory education has just ended, and since the beginning of the middle school entrance examination, the children's lives have embarked on different paths. And upbringing is really a child's lifelong feng shui.
Learning and not learning, living a different life. Learning does not determine the upper line of life, but at least it can ensure the offline of life.
Rice Mother has always felt that reading is the most effective way to success and change destiny. There is no threshold, as long as you are willing to work hard and persist, the opportunities are equal.
The purpose of receiving education, in addition to having a stepping stone to employment, is to cultivate children's upbringing.
Earlier, Mi Li's mother saw a news about Li Ka-shing meeting children at the airport and funding their travel expenses.
While going up the escalator, the group of children collided with Li Ka-shing and his party.
As soon as the children saw that he was an old man, they took the initiative to stand next to him and let them go first.
Li Ka-shing praised the children's comity and courtesy.
Afterwards, I tried my best to contact the teacher who led the tour, saying that I would fund the entire cost of this study tour.
The future development of these children must not be too bad, because the upbringing allows them to meet noble people, which is the feng shui of children.
And what about uneducated children?
In a neighborhood near the Shenzhen Industrial Park in Xiangyang, Hubei Province, several elementary school students on bicycles, armed with hammers, began smashing shared bicycles placed in public parking areas, just to break the locks and then take them for themselves as their own toys.
The future life of these children has also been seen. They enter society early, no longer receive education, and then wait for them is the "re-education" of them by society.
Just like An Yi, the girl who beat the tricycle aunt, the world she sees is only prison, violence, depression, and gray prospects.
Fifteen or sixteen-year-olds, they don't realize that one afternoon after school in the third year of junior high school, he is eating snacks and chatting with his classmates, and his fate has already taken a turn.
Children are born with a blank sheet of paper, and by the age of teenage, the state is indeed very different. And the core factors that determine the state of children are reading and education.
A little deviation in education has been infinitely magnified in more than ten years, and the gap with other children is getting bigger and bigger, Yang Linlin and An Yi are like this.
Children should be told that they must maintain the ability to learn for life, and when their wings are not yet full, they would rather read books badly, and use reading and learning to ensure their lower limit. Never give up, never mess!
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