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It's 2023, why is Feng Fei still good? | Entertainment and hot play plan

Let's take a look at what's going on in your circle lately:

The second season of "Dark Glory" was hot, and the Douban score reached 9.3 on the day of its launch, and Qiao Mei, who was middle-aged and experienced a marriage change, also ushered in a gorgeous turn;

On the other hand, 61-year-old Michelle Yeoh won the award for "Instantaneous Universe", and finally won the first Asian Oscar for Best Actress.

Needless to say, this is like an era of big heroines, and people are more willing to see the infinite energy of women than the wind and snow with soft light filters.

But there is a sister who did the opposite and opened the idol drama style on her own. I saw the 54-year-old with two small pulls, walking side by side with her boyfriend who was 11 years younger at the airport, pink bubbles overflowed the screen, and the majority of netizens who prided themselves on their hearts and minds were caught off guard with a mouthful of dog food.

It has to be Faye Wong, just do something to make headlines. No one said that she was outdated, no one scolded her for being in love, and the envy and blessings full of screens in the comment area were genuine.

First, Nicholas Tse is really young and handsome, and he has also performed well in career and private morality, which cannot make people feel that "looking for a boyfriend in the garbage heap" is not steel;

Second, the two of them are not a day or two, more than 20 years of integration can finally cultivate positive fruits, sweet and sweet, but also hard work, good things grinding, whether work or love, a difficult thing is done, can always make life a little awe.

And the so-called "hard" is not just about outperforming time. Feng Fei has also abused, they have also crossed many obstacles to come together, if there is no turbulent waves in the past, where can they exchange for stable happiness today?

Sibling love who died halfway

Feng Fei first disclosed her relationship in June 2000, and the famous scene of "Holding Hands in the Century" is a memorable page in the history of gossip in your circle: the woman before and after the man, ten fingers shaken, the two are tightly surrounded by the reporter's long guns and short cannons, but there is no sense of crampedness on the face, the man bows his head and is shy, the woman is full of spring breeze, the sweetness value is more explosive than holding hands in the same frame more than twenty years later, and it is the extent to which onlookers can know that these two are dealing with each other without reading the text.

It is also obvious that the woman dominates the relationship.

It is she who walks in front, she is the one who deals with the media, and she is the one who behaves more generously. No wonder, at that time, Xiao Xie was a young man under 20 years old, fledgling, shallow experience, verdant and lacking aura, where can he withstand this battle?

Sister Fei is different, she has already been married and has a baby, and it was only a year since the end of her last marriage.

As we all know, the male protagonist of the previous paragraph is Dou Wei, and that paragraph contains bad plots that many contemporary romance dramas such as threesomes, long-distance relationships, unmarried pregnancy, and male cheating dare not film.

But miraculously, these messy things do not seem to affect the prosperity of Faye Wong's singing career, as the first marriage deteriorated, she also sat firmly in the position of the queen of heaven in the continuous ascension, holding the left and right balls and Na Ying singing "Meet Nine Eight" at the Spring Festival Gala is a glorious moment during this period.

Career luck is indeed top-notch, but Faye Wong was not so lucky at the beginning. She also had an embarrassing and confused "Wang Jingwen period", was ridiculed for Beimei, and the records did not sell well, in desperation, she also briefly withdrew from the circle and went to the United States alone to study and live for a period of time. When he returns again, he accumulates and rises.

So you see, before the age of 31, the ups and downs of career, emotional bumps and the bitterness of long-distance life, Sister Wuli Fei has all experienced it, and Nicholas Tse, who is less than 20, is not a pure younger brother in front of her, and his younger brother is not a sister hood.

But life is not cool after all, and the age difference at that time may not be a problem for the two.

The interference of external public opinion and media buzzing is one thing, and the key is the generation gap caused by age.

After all, Xiao Xie is young, he has not yet started cooking at that time, he is still a wild boy who will smash guitars on the stage at every turn, and there is infinite vitality to release, and he is full of longing for the world, so he needs a playmate who makes trouble together, and a sister is afraid that it is not enough. It was as if Yang Guo, who was young and vigorous, still wanted to see the flower world, and at first he was not willing to stay with his aunt in the ancient tomb.

At an award ceremony one year, several protagonists in the story - Nicholas Tse, Faye Wong, Cecilia Cheung, and Edison Chen were there. When Xiao Xie sang solo, he deliberately ran from the stage to the audience to interact, skipped Faye Wong in the first row, went straight to Xiao Zhang and Xiao Chen, and handed the microphone to the two from time to time to sing awkwardly, playing well. Faye Wong turned back frequently, her face showing displeasure.

I don't know if it's sluggishness or nature, in short, many childish things are really only suitable for doing with peers. Age is not just a number, a similar age will automatically allocate experience, mind, physical strength, hobbies, etc. to the same frequency, which is an advantage that people of another age cannot obtain no matter how hard they work and how special they are.

And Faye Wong, who has experienced the emotional pull with the talented son Dou Wei, may want a relaxed love that does not have to look up to each other and does not have to spend too much effort.

Dou is only talented, arrogant, and also very patriarchal, and they can be together back then, and they are also chased backwards. It can be seen that this relationship has undergone a major reversal of the position of power - from strong men and weak women to strong women and weak men.

You can imagine Dou Wei's mental journey: at the beginning, you chased me and worshiped me with big ignorant eyes, and then you became a big star, you couldn't find anyone every day, you were either busy or in K songs when you called, and the only compensation you made was to buy me a car and a house, where did my old man put his face...

This gap is indeed a bit of a big deal.

So later Dou Xian'er recalled the marriage and summarized it as a conspiracy theory, saying that she was designed by Faye Wong. This...... It's a bit of a persecution delusion.

People who always believe in conspiracy theories do not necessarily overestimate the meticulousness of the so-called controllers. I think Dou Wei is just using this psychological defense mechanism of "dumping the pot on others" to cover up his imbalances, frustrations and moral flaws in this relationship.

So what is really going on? It's not so much a conspiracy as a successful take-down and then can't help yourself.

Many people's impression of Faye Wong is "dragging sister", arrogant and proud of everything, but many times her "stunning" is not angry, she just has her own views and firm her inner voice, that is, the so-called "resolute without hatred". Because of such a personality, in addition to dragging, she has another very distinctive characteristic, that is, initiative and decisiveness.

This is true for her career and feelings, Faye Wong has always taken the initiative to get closer to the people and things she likes, and never twists or hesitates too much. Based on such a personality, almost all of her choices are not forced, nor are they in order to ask others for rewards, and the moment she takes the initiative to fight for it according to her heart, she has already obtained and is happy, so she does not care about regret and complaints, so she will never complain to her ex. This is why she never shows bitter feelings.

So she quickly turned the page, it doesn't matter if it's long-term or not, she just knows what she wants better. At the turn of the millennium, she was already a diva who had passed her age, achieved fame, and had no filter for talent, and in the face of fame and fortune, she wanted to regain the simplicity and innocence of love.

It's 2023, why is Feng Fei still good? | Entertainment and hot play plan

It's just that no matter how simple love is, it also requires management, patience, tolerance, and compromise. Ease is relative, not absolute. All of them cost money, and the degree of fatigue of finding her brother was probably what she had not expected before, and after experiencing it herself, she found that she was also tired, but it was not the same as the tiredness with her father's great talent.

So Feng Fei began in the millennium, broke up for the first time in early 2002, and got back together in late 2002, but also failed to survive to New Year's Day of '04. After that, the two began an 11-year strange journey.

Each is fine, and then the front edge continues

The age of 11 is by no means a match in the worldly sense, so this relationship can be so eye-catching, but interestingly, after a short period of shock, the two returned to the "right path" expected by the public.

Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung married and had children, becoming a model for golden children and jade girls to tie the knot; Faye Wong quickly married Li Yapeng, who was about the same age, looked stable and down-to-earth, and was still handsome (and had hair at that time).

Years later, many viewers attacked them for being selfish: "Not long after the divorce, I broke the mirror and reunited, saying that I haven't broken the silk connection over the years, who believes it?" Besides, you two are both staying and flying, co-authoring the tool people that Li Yapeng and Cecilia Cheung used to give birth, and then completing the background board for others to spend a good full moon? ”

Another conspiracy theory, how pitiful and passive those two are.

First of all, Nicholas Tse and Faye Wong are not uninvested in their respective feelings.

Xiao Xie personally said that if he died one day, then the person standing next to him must be Cecilia Cheung.

And the national sensational nude photos door was three years from their divorce, when Nicholas Tse, as her husband, chose to support Zhang Bozhi, and also said a particularly responsible declaration of love: The day I knelt down to propose to you, I told myself that if I can do such an act, I must be tolerant and accept your past.

That's not something every man can do, right?

Looking at Faye Wong's side, as a queen of heaven, she naturally has full right to choose a mate at that time, coupled with her active, freewheeling, and unpretentious personality, she can choose Li Yapeng naturally because of love, she has no need to be in the future, and it will not be her style.

And in those years, her overall state was also very cooperative with Li Yapeng - retiring from the music scene, loving her husband and godson, and being the good wife expected by this traditional husband. This is naturally related to her planning at a certain stage of life (after all, who can always stand on the center of the stage), but it is still that sentence, a relationship can last for a long time, it must be inseparable from compromise, tolerance and integration.

She also stood up for Li Yapeng's career, and did her best for her daughter's recovery, and the once pioneer diva was just a wife and mother who tried to be a competent wife during that time. Judging from the state of the two daughters, her mother is doing quite well.

Look at the two "innocent supporting characters" again.

Cecilia Cheung herself has said more than once that she really likes to have children, anyway, men will have affairs, and it is most important to keep children by their side. He also said that he wanted to keep having children, so that when he got older and other children grew up, he would still have one around him.

She did this, when you lamented how difficult it is for her to be a single mother, people have quietly fought for the third child without her father knowing, firmly practicing the policy of "going to the father and keeping the son", and there may be a fourth placenta and a fifth child in the future.

Belch...... Maybe she just needs companionship, likes to take care of people, and needs to build personal value on another body. This may have something to do with her deep insecurity.

In short, having children is Cecilia Cheung's first demand.

So since that's the case, don't criticize Nicholas Tse every time he sees him dashing alone, is there a possibility that it is not that he wants to be a dispenser, but that he wants to fulfill Cecilia Cheung's wish? Besides, I haven't heard that the man pays less child support.

As for Li Yapeng, it is even more lossless.

Although he has been obsessed with investment and business for many years, in the eyes of onlookers, the most powerful thing about him is that his ex-girlfriends are super powerful, and the queen of heaven is undoubtedly the most dazzling of his shining merit medals, married, more glamorous resume, and a child, where is the loss?

And after the divorce, Lao Li, who has less and less hair, also found a little girlfriend eighteen years younger than him, and gave birth to a cute daughter, singing to start the second spring, how can it not be considered to have found a good home?

Therefore, I beg some friends that they really don't have to take the place of Xiao Zhang and Lao Li every time to complain, and then criticize Xiao Xie and Sister Wang for their irresponsibility and lack of conscience.

This is not true, but just a kind of self-projection of you, instead of always crying and angry in other people's stories, it is better to honestly face your own resentment and grievances, open your heart knot and look forward, like Lao Li embracing new media, like Xiao Zhang embracing new children.

As for Xiao Xie and Sister Wang, even if they don't continue their frontiers, they will start a new life in their own way, but the teammate who built a new life together happens to be an old person.

Going around in circles, why are you still you?

Of course, there is also an inevitability in coincidence: more than ten years have passed, everyone is more mature than then, the years have diluted the pain, precipitated the essence of memory, look back, the conflict is very small, the emotions are very real, or think you are the best, then hit it off and spend the rest of your life together.

The "difficulty" I mentioned at the beginning may only seem to the beholder, especially in 2014.

When people reach middle age, one is in his thirties and one is in his forties, and after all the twists and turns, he has grown more like himself, knows what he wants, and is naturally easier to break through the shackles of the world and live from the heart. Anyway, they are all financially free, they have their own children, they have no limits, and there are not so many stumblings in reality.

In short, the hearts of the two, the fate of God, and the sincerity of the material nature give this relationship the freedom and unruliness, which may be the reason why Fengfei's sugar is still good in 2023~

Of course, there are always doubts.

Some people say that when Xiao Xie has no hair in ten years, maybe he should be disliked by Faye Wong.

Maybe, anyway, Faye Wong also sang in the song: "Whoever says that a lover should love his soul, otherwise it sounds insincere." "The flesh is also part of people's families, and it's rude to forcibly cut it off, right?

It's 2023, why is Feng Fei still good? | Entertainment and hot play plan

Some people also say that Ting Feng is lacking maternal love and likes to feel taken care of.

Wrong. First of all, Faye Wong is not the kind of woman with a very virgin heart, she has a sense of boundaries, does not like to cater to the audience, will not attack herself, will not be restrained by the joys and sorrows of others, psychologist Wu Zhihong also said that Faye Wong's core of "who loves whom" makes her basically not attract Yang Lijuan's fans who try to threaten and control idols.

Therefore, she will not be keen to brush up her sense of existence and value by being a mother to others, and in love, she is more like a wayward little girl.

Li Yapeng said that Faye Wong is a high school girl, and Nicholas Tse said that Faye Wong is very simple, and she still remembers the scene when the relationship was exposed in 2014: Xiao Xie made breakfast for her, she ran over to steal a bite of Xiao Xie, and then Lehe quickly ran away.

Forehead...... Where is this little bit of a mother? It is almost the same to say that Xiao Xie raised a daughter.

It's 2023, why is Feng Fei still good? | Entertainment and hot play plan

Therefore, you can not only look at the physiological age, but also look at the psychological age. Being able to spend 10 years together is enough to show how compatible the two are.

As for whether sweetness can continue until 2033, I don't know, but what is certain is that it is really difficult not to be happy for people who know how to love and can constantly renew.

Author: Miss Bovary

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