Strange Story Rinan Ran Gao Woo talked about family problems in a strange story, and since he was a child, he acted as the host of the family dinner at every dinner table in the family, collecting various small stories at the school every week, and learning set programs, just to make this dinner decent.
Many families are actually facing such problems, of course, my parents are no exception, in my very small impression, my parents will quarrel once a few months, no other reason "because of money, because of the environment" the family life is big, the father did not earn a few money, but also like to lead the random flowers, and his good friends squandered, like to install big brands outside, but a few pounds of a few pounds of themselves know that every year there will be days when the family can not open the pot, are borrowing money from the mother's relatives, the mother is a thrifty traditional woman, superstitious feudal, She thought that what was right was right, which made her father particularly disgusted, but she had only been for her husband and children all her life, so it was she who was always angry, and it was she who was also entrusted.
When I was a child, my father gave me the feeling of being unreal, sometimes not, sometimes my father, sometimes a drunken and fierce man, he was very domineering, very masculine, very controlling, and everything should be based on him, because because of this, my mother did not give less commission for him. Because my oldest child, I learned to look at words and colors at a very young age. I lived my life with trembling, and so did I later
When they grew up, their parents' feelings were like walking on thin ice, almost except for a marriage contract, the feelings were exhausted in the past ten years, they learned not to quarrel anymore, but instead used the cold war to face each other, the father's career ushered in a high period, the scenery was proud, for a while countless people were flattered, in my third year of high school, he had the idea of divorce, the mother did not agree, crying and making trouble, and later did not leave, because there were still children. That year I was suffering from extra points, and even wanted to die, there were too many things that happened in life, I thought that after working hard, after persevering, I would definitely usher in my spring, and then there was no, and the high one fell off the list. I once wanted to die, I felt that there was nothing in the world that I was nostalgic for, and then I thought about my brother, and him, if I was gone, what would he do, could he bear the affairs of his parents, if I was there, at least he would not become me.
In the years that followed, their relationship was only a marriage contract, and the father no longer paid living expenses to his mother, and he told his mother: "If you have money, you won't give it to you." I felt uncomfortable in my heart, how my parents had become like this, and my existence seemed to be evidence that they had loved each other but were annoyed with each other. I know a lot of things in my heart, knowing that it is completely okay to know that they only have to go through the last formalities of the political situation, but I am actually still maintaining this family, and I always maintain a happy and active role in their front, trying to provoke their communication, although it is useless. I saw that their relationship had become like this, my father was only because I and my brother were coming home, my mother refused to divorce because I was with my brother, I didn't dare to believe in love, I didn't dare to believe in marriage, I became very strange. Insecurity, paranoia, paranoia, hypocrisy. There are many people like me, there are so many families in China, and there are thousands of unfortunate families.
For the sake of the children, for the sake of the home that has leaked everywhere and has no feelings, for the home that is finally given to the child's household registration book, it is actually not necessary, and the child grows up in such an indifferent family and will only become another indifferent person.
Too many people don't know what it means to have children
Kids are not a commodity you want to own
It's not a tool that's just built for the sake of morality
It is the continuation of love
Going home was never enough for myself, but enough for my original intention. If you decide to have children, I hope that you can shake hands together, be witnesses to the growth of children, and do not let children become the host of your silent dinner table. Kids are expensive and we don't deserve it.