Tibetan female singer Xie Yang Dolma, with a song "Walking the World" became popular all over the country, known as the most beautiful mezzo-soprano on the grassland. Her voice is thick, calm and infectious, and some people describe her voice as like a river shining by the sun, flowing into people's hearts.
Later, she covered Dao Lang's "West Sea Love Song" and received blockbuster praise. Nine years later, because of this song, she fell into an infringement storm and was sentenced by the court to pay more than 250,000 yuan.
Born into poverty, he had excellent grades
In 1984, Zhuoma was born in a herder family in Ganzi, Sichuan, and her mother named her Zhuoma. In Tibetan, "descending yang" means Miaoyin, and "Dolma" means fairy. Her name is Miaoyin Fairy. As can be seen from the name, her parents want her to have a beautiful singing voice and beautiful appearance.
There are six children in the Dolma family, and she is the fourth. During the day, when the mother goes to farm, she will tie the child to a tree and put a pot helmet next to it, and the child will eat for a day. When they grew up a little, the brothers and sisters went to the fields to do farm work together.
At that time, they had no additional financial resources and lived in great poverty. A teapot and a pot are all the utensils in the house.
Without a bed, they spread hay and sheepskin directly on the floor, plus a quilt, and made do with the night. At the most difficult time, the pot boiled water every day, but there was no grain to be seen. In this case, the eldest brother would go to the neighbor's house to borrow dry food to feed the whole family.
In her memories, because they couldn't afford new clothes and shoes, they had to pick up clothes that their relatives didn't wear.
Children are lively and active, and they cost more shoes, and the shoes sent by relatives will not be long to wear and will break a hole. In winter, Dolma walks in the snow in open-toed shoes, leaving toe prints wherever she passes. But at that time, she did not feel that such a day was so bitter, but she felt particularly interesting when she saw toe prints.
When I was in elementary school, because I lived in the mountains, I had to walk six or seven kilometers to school every day. Often in the morning, before dawn, she would get up and start walking, and when she returned home at night, it was already dark. After six years of elementary school, she lasted six years.
In junior high school, Dolma began to live in school. At school, she saw for the first time what color rice was and tasted it. On weekends after school, she also takes home the dry food she has saved.
In the year of the high school entrance examination, she took the top 10 in her grade and was admitted to her favorite high school. But her parents couldn't afford her tuition and had to drop her out of school.
Drop out of school to work and tap into your strengths
In order to reduce the burden on her family, she came to the county to work. During this time, she carried cement at hydropower stations, worked as a sanitation worker and worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant.
Dolma once said that he hated potatoes the most. Because when she was working as a helper in the back kitchen of the hotel, she had to cut one or two hundred pounds of potatoes every day, and she could use several scrapers.
Such a tortuous life experience has allowed Zhuoma to develop a tenacious character that is not afraid of hardship and difficulty, and it has also paved the way for her to engage in acting in the future.
For a while, Dolma worked as a waitress in a hotel. This hotel often has song and dance performances, and the guests like to watch, but there are many guests who come to the hotel to consume, and the art troupe is not staffed, so the foreman often replaces Dolma. She has a talent for singing, and she can amaze four people as soon as she opens her mouth.
On this day, there happened to be an entertainer among the guests at the meal, and when she heard her warm and generous singing, the other party immediately suggested that she apply for the county art troupe. Zhuoyang Dolma took this matter to heart, thinking that if he was really admitted to the art troupe, he could continue his education.
After a short period of preparation, Zhuoma participated in the selection and was successfully admitted to the art troupe. After a week of study, the leaders of the Cultural Affairs Bureau came to the art troupe for an inspection.
At that time, the teachers of the art troupe asked the students to perform a song live, and Zhuoma sang a Tibetan song. Her unique voice impressed the leaders. At the suggestion of the leader, the self-motivated Yang Dolma decided to apply for the Kardze Prefecture Song and Dance Troupe.
When her parents knew what she was thinking, they respected her decision. In this way, Zhuoma became a student of the song and dance troupe.
The learning opportunity she missed before came to her again, and Dolma cherished it and practiced her singing skills harder. Soon, Zhuoma was given the opportunity to study at the Sichuan Conservatory of Music and began professional training.
In the year of graduation, she participated in the musical and dance drama "Dream Khamba" and won the first prize in vocal performance, which made her known to the public. After that, she joined the Tibet Military Region Cultural Troupe, often went to the countryside to perform, and won a series of honors on the road of singer. Loving learning, she also went to military art for further study and released many albums.
With the rise in popularity, she has accumulated a large number of fans. Her career also ushered in a peak and got the opportunity to appear on the CCTV stage.
A good gift and a happy marriage
In 2009, she was invited by friends of the song and dance troupe to participate in a party of fellow villagers. At this party, she fell in love with Ding Zhenquzha at first sight.
Ding Zhenquzha is a photographer for CCTV documentaries. His appearance is thick, and he is not a handsome guy in the secular sense, but in the eyes of Zhuoma, he is the best-looking "Kangba man"!
Years later, when Zhuoma recalls this past, her heart still throbs. She only looked at it and was sure that she was in love with each other.
Tibetan sons and daughters do not have so many twists and turns, they are very direct about feelings, and after a few dates, they are determined to be lovers.
But their love is not smooth, Zhuoma is more irritable, Ding Zhenquza is also full of personality, the two always quarrel together, and it didn't take long to break up!
After the breakup, Dolma devoted himself to work. However, no matter how busy her work is, she can't forget her ex-boyfriend. She told her father about her reluctance, and her father encouraged her to reclaim this love. So, the idea of getting back together hovered in Zhuoma's mind.
It happened that at this time, Ding Zhenquza needed surgery due to physical reasons. Zhuoma, who learned the news, called the phone before the operation. The moment the call was connected, there was only one thought in the hearts of the two people: they must be together!
Soon after, the two got back together! After falling in love again, they cherish this relationship even more.
In 2014, Zhuoma and Ding Zhenquza held a grand wedding in their hometown, and shortly after marriage, the eldest son was born.
Because the couple were very busy and had no time to take care of the children, Zhuoma's mother-in-law came to Beijing to help take care of the children and take over most of the housework of the small family. In the face of her mother-in-law's selfless dedication, Zhuoma felt very happy.
Unexpectedly, shortly after her comeback, her career development was good and she was pregnant again!
After giving birth to her second child this time, Zhuoma suffered from postpartum depression. In order to allow Dolma to rest well, the mother-in-law would take the child away every night. The mother-in-law's meticulous care gradually improved Dolma's depression. After the child is half a year old, Dolma considers a comeback.
After her comeback, she participated in several events and also recorded songs. Who expected that before a performance, Zhuoma suddenly felt a stomachache, and after being sent to the hospital by a colleague, she was found to be pregnant with a third child!
Although her career is on the rise, she still chooses to give birth, and this small family is becoming more and more lively!
Cover songs and get into lawsuits
In 2010, Zhuoma sang Dao Lang's "West Sea Love Song". Her singing contains the breath of life, with the vastness and fragrance of the grassland, which is endlessly memorable. With this cover song, she rose to the rank of first-class singers and also met Dao Lang.
Xianyang Dolma and Dao Lang are both from Sichuan, and their singing styles are quite similar, and they quickly became good friends. During this period, Zhuoma Yang covered Dao Lang's "Tenderness in the Palm of the Hand", because of her personal characteristics, this song was also sung by her.
It stands to reason that a singer who covers someone else's original song needs to pay a copyright fee. But Dao Lang is particularly tolerant of Zhuoma. For the first few years of the cover, the two didn't talk about copyright.
On the contrary, Dao Lang also told his singing skills to Zhuoma, and the two also maintained a relationship of mentorship and friend. Even if some netizens think that Zhuoma sings better, Dao Lang has been ignoring it.
As the cover songs became more and more popular, she attracted many business invitations. They invited Dolma to sing cover songs on stage. As a result, the cover version of Zhuoma has appeared in commercial performances, solo concerts and other occasions many times, and even the cover version on the online platform has begun to charge.
Faced with the gradually changing cover, Dao Lang couldn't sit still, and he took Zhuoma to court with a complaint.
In Dao Lang's view, Zhuo Ma's cover behavior is a manifestation of his love for music, and this cover behavior promotes the spread of songs, which he can fully accept. However, using his own songs for commercial performances is completely contrary to his original intention. The infringement damages of 100,000 yuan he applied for were not high, just to show his attitude.
In court, Dolma defended herself that she believed that the cover was carried out at the request of the organizers and was not intentional. However, this argument was not accepted by the court, and in the end, the court found that Zhuoma had committed infringement and needed to pay Dao Lang 250,000 yuan.
After that, the cover versions of the two songs were all removed, and Zhuoma's career also had some twists and turns. But now that she's in the mood and ready to set off again, this time turning her attention to original songs.
Looking forward to the power of Zhuoma, I believe she will bring us more surprises.
From a farmer's daughter to a nationally famous singer, Zhuoma has rewritten her destiny with love.
Whether before or after marriage, Zhuoma did not give up her singing career, which is inseparable from her love for singing and her husband's support for her.
In the eyes of the world, many people feel that women must give up one thing in career and family. But the author believes that two people live in partnership, where there are so many sacrifices, the two sides tolerate each other and support each other is the right way.
I hope that women who read this article, especially those who become mothers, can find a balance between career and family and live as their sparkling sparkling selves.
@艾弥儿 says
What I particularly feel is the view of love of some ethnic minority women. They treat love very directly, especially passionately, especially close to the original instinct and impulse, without so many rules, not so many things imposed on them by society. When you see a mighty and majestic man, you can fall in love at first sight, and then bravely fall in love, marry bravely, and give birth to a child after marriage, because this is a natural thing.
This is a natural thing to say, but in today's society, especially around us, it is becoming more and more valuable. Some time ago, I saw a small paragraph, he said that there are 56 ethnic groups in China, and 55 ethnic groups sing and dance during meals, and there is only one ethnic group, and we must drink alcohol when eating, that is, we Han people. Therefore, the lack of that expression of singing and dancing carnival seems to suppress the feelings in my heart a little.
So you rarely see a girl around us meet a boy she likes, just by looking at her appearance, you can fall in love at first sight, and bravely confess that she loves each other regardless of each other's conditions, whether it matches herself. That instinctive thing, that warm and direct thing has been obscured.
A few days ago, chatting with a friend who is a tourist industry, he also said that Xishuangbanna in Yunnan is particularly worth visiting, and he said that their itinerary will include a part, that is, lighting bonfires, singing, dancing and revelry with local ethnic minority people. He said that in their local customs, love is after singing and dancing which man fancy which girl, will directly run to their house in the middle of the night, they live in the kind of hanging foot building, so he will reach under the girl's bed to touch her, if the girl does not object or dodge, he knows that this girl is also interested in him, and on the 2nd day the two can start falling in love openly. It's so direct and frank, no need to beat around the bush, don't need such a long pursuit process, don't need too many sweet words.
Haven't I been doing blind dates lately? I sighed that if our human union process was as direct, so enthusiastic, and so open as it was, then there would not be so many single men and women.
It seems that the more we grow up, the more our hearts are filled with fear, suffering from gains and losses, thinking too much and doing too little. Without that kind of desperate courage, always waiting for a statement from the other party, waiting for the other party's input and dedication, always weighing and making trade-offs. In the end, the good times passed in vain in these trade-offs and trade-offs.
The epidemic has also passed, the weather is better, spring is warm, spring should be a season of love, I think both men and women, should be more direct and enthusiastic to express their love and feelings, to have that kind of exuberant desire and vitality. Although time is constantly passing, if there is love and passion in this process, it is worth it.
In fact, if you think about it, there is nothing to lose in life, and all people are a process of birth and death. And when people die, they die very completely. The last sentence was not from me, it was Maugham who said it.