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01 Ye Fei is affectionate
Ye Fei fell in love with Yang Shumao.
For Yang Shumao, she can get pregnant out of wedlock, she also has to endure the vexatious behavior of her mother-in-law, and even more have to endure the gossip of others, but Yang Shumao did not give him an explanation after all.
Ye Fei's first disappointment in Yang Shumao was because Yang's mother forced Yang Shumao to break up with her, and Yang Shumao's performance disappointed her.
Yang Shumao called her to say that they broke up, but did not give her a reasonable explanation and comfort afterwards.
In the years when she went away to the Great Northwest to find her parents, Yang Shumao did not go to great lengths to find her, which was the place that made Ye Fei most sad.
But Ye Fei insisted on giving birth to Yang Shumao's child, and she couldn't let go of Yang Shumao, but she wanted to come to Yang Shumao to ask clearly.
In this process, Ye Fei rekindled his old relationship with Yang Shumao.
She re-accepted Yang Shumao, she could give everything for his business, she could whisper for his family, and she could learn to curry favor for his family.
Ye Fei is as humble as he is in this relationship.
When Ye Fei was pregnant with his second child, Yang Shumao listened to rumors and suspected that Ye Fei had an affair with someone else, which made Yang Shumao begin to misunderstand Ye Fei and subverted Ye Fei's position in his heart.
At this time, there was a conflict between Yang Shumao and Ye Fei, coupled with Ye Fei witnessing Zhao Yajing's ambiguous behavior towards Yang Shumao, she was disappointed in Yang Shumao again.
It is clear that Yang Shumao said that he didn't care who Ye Fei's son's father was, and in the end, there would be a gap because of this.
The consequence of this disappointment was that Ye Fei became Yang Shumao's child and left the northwest again.
But Yang Shumao was indifferent, he never considered Ye Fei's feelings.
Women all left after saving enough disappointment, and every time Ye Fei left, she was full of disappointment.
As Yishu said:
Anyone leaving you is not a sudden decision. People's hearts are slowly getting cold, the leaves are gradually turning yellow, the story is slowly written to the end, and love becomes unlove because there are too many disappointments.
02 Poplar Shigeru is not enough to love
For Yang Shumao, a woman who leaves her twice, the most important thing for him to reflect on is what his mistakes were, and even understand why he became the way he was.
But Yang Shumao never took the initiative to seek answers.
When Ye Fei, who was far away in the northwest, learned the news of Yang Shumao's marriage from a friend, she ran back to find Yang Shumao to "make peace".
She wants to tell Yang Shumao that her son Ye Yang is his son, and she wants to prevent Yang Shumao from getting married, and she still thinks about Yang Shumao.
No matter how Yang Shumao had hurt her: the first time he unresponsible to break her up, the second time he had an affair with Zhao Yajing during her pregnancy, and even accompanied Zhao Yajing to divorce during her pregnancy test, Ye Fei forgot.
At the moment when he learned that Yang Shumao was going to divorce, Ye Fei only wanted to prevent this wedding.
Judging from Ye Fei's various behaviors and reactions, she loves Yang Shumao too much, and even has a bit of a love brain.
Even if this person is always unreliable, always hurting her and disappointing her, even if his parents are greedy, patriarchal, and unreasonable, even if his brothers and sisters are always dragging him down, she is desperate to fall in love with Yang Shumao.
But Yang Shumao did not love Ye Fei so much.
He did not go all out to save this relationship, nor did he make Ye Fei feel happy.
On the contrary, his suspicion and lack of sense of proportion made Ye Fei fall into disappointment and pain again and again.
In addition to these, there is no sense of proportion between Yang Shumao and Zhao Yajing, even if Zhao Yajing sticks up, it is Yang Shumao who acquiesces, and he allows Zhao Yajing to cross the line.
This transgression deeply hurt Ye Fei.
It was Yang Shumao who was obviously wrong, but it was Ye Fei who was responsible every time.
03 Ye Fei is humble
Ye Fei was too humble in this relationship.
She can give everything for Yang Shumao, even Zhao Yajing's love for Yang Shumao cannot withstand the test, Shi Xiaona's love can not withstand the test, only Ye Fei is the stupidest, she always believes in Yang Shumao.
Of course, Yang Shumao knows Ye Fei's goodness and Ye Fei's kindness, so he will use, hurt, and wronged Ye Fei again and again.
He knew that Ye Fei was the most suitable for him, she did not have Zhao Yajing's shrewdness, nor Shi Xiaona's mercenary motives, what she had was a piece of sincerity towards him.
This is what Yang Shu Mao likes the most, because such a person will never betray him.
But Ye Fei's repeated peace and turning back again and again will make Yang Shumao unscrupulous, and will also be pinched by his family.
Human nature cannot stand the test, and sometimes kindness and true love are exchanged not for comparing hearts to hearts, but for inches.
Even if Ye Fei and Yang Shumao can have a happy ending, Ye Fei in reality must have a miserable life.
Don't try to change a person or a family, that's a harder thing than climbing to heaven.
Ye Fei couldn't change Yang Shumao, nor his family.
Even though she was fortunate to be the ultimate victor in marriage, her life was not good.
She will be disappointed again and again, heartache again and again as before.
If two people are divided and merged many times, it proves that these two people are not suitable.
For Yang Shumao, Ye Fei may be the most suitable person for him; But for Ye Fei, Yang Shumao is not a good match for her.
There is a line in "The Perfect Divorce" that says:
The worst outcome of a marriage is not divorce, but becoming a "mask couple". Disappointment in each other's savings, no expectations, no care, no love, but having to live together because of children or some factors, this is the greatest misfortune of marriage.
This state is what Ye Fei will endure in the next few decades, unless she can change herself, reshape her character, and learn to manage, she is destined to be bruised all over her body.
Ye Fei, who constantly seeks peace, is like Ming Lan who married the little father-in-law, and her future is not glorious.
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