Maybe the producers of "Crazy" did not expect that the role of "sister-in-law", who does not have many scenes, would be so out of the loop.
In several groups I dived a while ago, "sister-in-law" was a high-frequency word. Men naturally like her, and women have become stars when they mention her, and they are echoed.
"Sister-in-law" is not a new word, nor is it a new image, in film and television dramas or various gossip news, there must be sister-in-law everywhere there is a big brother. They stand next to men, giving too male and tough pictures, adding a slight soft feminine color, becoming a landscape that must be seen.
However, times have changed, and now women are no longer willing to make quiet background boards and will have their own voices. "Sister-in-law" also has something to say, Chen Shuting, the sister-in-law wants to say, "I am like this".
Why do you say that? Because of the former sister-in-law, they all said "what do you want me to be".
Whether it is a submissive virtuous hanging, or a swaying enchanting hanging, it seems to be customized on demand, what are they like? Maybe they don't even know it.
In ancient gossip, it is often talked about a well-known big brother boasting that his wife is more suitable to be a wife than another well-known female singer, because the female singer loves cleanliness and is afraid of noise, and his wife can joke with her brothers and laugh...
Look, this is the so-called "sister-in-law Fan" in the past, does that sister-in-law really like it? I think probably not, she can speak, but she doesn't want to talk, because in the past, women would be better off talking less.
But the sister-in-law in the context of the new era is not "silent" at all.
On the one hand, it is reflected in her appearance. As soon as the sister-in-law in "Crazy" appears, you know that this is a murderous and ruthless character, with flaming red lips, rosy complexion, natural sexiness, and always full of a vigorous vitality. She is strong and beautiful, even beautiful because she is strong.
This kind of toughness every woman can have, not to say that we should be so ruthless, after all, we are not underworld people, but, in the face of the workplace and family, in the face of the chaotic world, do not fear, do not avoid, dare to meet the truth of reality, according to their own will to get it.
This kind of boldness is Chen Shuting's true color. As a woman, she is not "conquering the world by conquering men", she is her own pillar.
Chen Shuting has her life, as well as her resources and connections. It is said that she did not meet the "eldest brother" to become a "sister-in-law", but Gao Qiqiang met a "sister-in-law" like her to become a "big brother". She is also Gao Qiqiang's helmsman, hoping that he can withdraw from his "career" without a future.
Women who "live directly" are attractive, not only because they are more capable, but also because they are used to using their minds, are able to constantly renew themselves, and are creative and informative people. They do not need to borrow the light of others, but truly "have light in their eyes and light in their hearts".
So, what are we talking about when we talk about "sister-in-law"? We're not talking about an identity, but what a woman looks like.
When society requires women to be virtuous and docile, roles such as sister-in-law are at the junction of girls and mothers, and as a derivative of the identity of "big brother", they are required to do the ultimate. At present, when the spring breeze of women's liberation blows into such a corner as "sister-in-law", there will be this phenomenal aesthetic shock.
From being "what you imagine you are" to having the confidence to say, "This is how I am," it's an amazing leap. Because "I'm purple like this" is actually what women should be.
Refusing to be trimmed, unrestrained like a wild horse and having her own direction, whether she is a sister-in-law, a big sister, or even an aunt, she is fascinating.
So how can you become a woman like "sister-in-law"? I have countless experiences in this area – ah, no, I can share them.
The first is to cultivate your own confidence.
Many times we grew up surrounded by admonitions and doubts, and we heard too many girls "what they can't do" and "what they have to do". When I found that I was able to control my life, I gradually gained confidence and slowly tried to loosen myself little by little.
Only by giving up self-doubt, stepping out of the established framework, and embracing one's uniqueness can we live freely and with unlimited possibilities.
The second is to try and make more mistakes and don't limit your appearance.
In the past, I was somewhat flattering, and I was afraid of making mistakes in every way. In the case of dressing, I was afraid to say "I like it", and as long as I had a hunch that I would be pointed at, I first banned myself.
But only by trying can we discover new worlds, even if that dress is not particularly suitable for you, the way you explore infinite possibilities is beautiful. Try more, wear the clothes you like, "not afraid of being criticized" is the ultimate sense of security.
And the third point is to have a good body.
Some girls will be afraid of becoming "strong", but "strong" can't just be a positive word for men!
The aesthetic of white and thin and young admires weak and uncontrollable women, and feels that such women are more lovely. But my own experience is that in good health, in the morning, I really have the passion to turn the world up.
So whether it is mental or physical, we should continue to build ourselves, give ourselves enough confidence, when you can calmly say to everyone: "I'm like this", confidence and calmness will come from the inside, giving people an intuitive and unquestionable "sense of strength".
It is not deliberately flattering, but it can present a straightforward beauty that is not limited to differences and ages. Such a frozen beauty,
"Each one is unique to you".
This reminds me of the promotional video of Shancun I saw the other day, and the girls in it are in such a state! The "I'm like this" attitude they have been expressing also coincides with the attitude of "I am like this" that I want to express.
The girls in the video are touching with the beauty of women, they are all sunny and energetic, this vitality is not only psychological, but also relies on the physical state, they say to the world:
"There is light in the eyes, light in the heart, shine,
Illuminate yourself and I'm purple like that. ”
They have a light "ageless feeling", age becomes unimportant in them, you can still dress up and dance.
To shine, to bloom for yourself.
They accept their true selves and pursue a better version of themselves, after all,
"No matter how old you are, long live love yourself".
Being able to confidently say "I'm purple like this" is a beautiful vision of mine, but I can occasionally be in poor shape during the journey of pursuing a wonderful life.
Because of my work, I inevitably stay up late and face the electronic screen for a long time, and over time, my skin, complexion and body shape are changing.
In addition to healthy diet, skin care and exercise, I found that those female friends around me who have been in good shape almost all have the habit of regularly supplementing with multivitamins.
For the health care category that eats in the mouth, trustworthiness is very important, the first choice or even must choose a good reputation, reliable big brands, but not what three no product IQ tax.
As an internationally renowned brand, Shancun is still safe enough to eat. And because men and women face different needs and conditions, in fact, the nutrients that women need are really different from boys.
And Shancun especially brought triple care for women this time:
VC+VE + Niacinamide, care for the beautiful skin, good skin that can be had without makeup, is what everyone yearns for.
Folic acid + iron, care for beautiful complexion; It exudes a rosy luster from the inside out, and the spirit will look particularly full.
There are also chromium + magnesium + B vitamins, take care of your beautiful body, and a healthy body is the basis of everything.
Internal health care products are the same as skin care and exercise, which are not immediate and considerable results, but require long-term persistence to slowly transform the physical state, and have a glowing state from the inside out, and this good state can be lasting.
In the upcoming 38th Festival, this is also Shancun's blessing to every girl, with a full spirit, healthy and good skin, and a lighter and more free future.
On the way to a more beautiful and better place, we need combat boots and boots, and we also need good survival to support us. On the way to self-achievement, let us confidently express:
"I'm so purple!"
Author: Yan Hong
Responsible Editor: Xiaoyu
Produced by: Miss Lan and Miss Huang
The text is original, and the picture comes from the Internet