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Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

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Song Dandan, a national first-class actor, was a permanent guest at the Spring Festival Gala and brought us a series of classic works.

From "called Wei Shufen" to "laying eggs rooster, fighter in the rooster", how many years have passed is still talked about.

From the earliest said that she did not act in sketches, which damaged her image to the current "queen of sketches", how wonderful is her career experience?

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

However, nothing is more exciting than her career than her love life.

In her life, she was abandoned by her first love and betrayed by the famous director Yingda, and it was not until she was 37 years old that she found Zhao Yuji, who could be with her for life.

How bumpy is Song Dandan's love experience?

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

As early as when Song Dandan was 19 years old, at the age when her relationship was just beginning, she talked about her first boyfriend.

The two are very in love with each other and often secretly write love letters to each other.

Such days continued until the college entrance examination, and Song Dandan felt that he could no longer indulge in love.

Because she fell in love with her boyfriend, she has already delayed a lot of study time, and she is also very panicked in the face of the college entrance examination.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

On the other hand, Song Dandan's boyfriend, a proper student, has excellent grades and has won the first place every time.

Although Song Dandan has realized such a problem, she still can't withstand the impact of love.

So Song Dandan's first college entrance examination in his life ended in failure.

Her boyfriend, on the other hand, was admitted to Peking University with excellent grades.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

This means that the two often do not see each other, and this situation is the root cause of most love breakdowns.

With the encouragement of Song Dandan's boyfriend, she decided to challenge the college entrance examination again.

However, the reality is cruel, and Song Dandan still failed to get in.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Just when she was sad and depressed, a good friend who lived with her in the same compound told her that Beijing Renyi was recruiting students and hoped that she would try it.

Song Dandan feels that this may be the only chance to be with her boyfriend.

She didn't say anything and went straight to the Beijing Renyi Admissions Office.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

But when he arrived at the place, Song Dandan was stunned in place.

She didn't know the entry fee, and she hadn't prepared any talent herself.

The registration fee is easy to solve, and you can find someone to borrow some, but the hard condition of talent really makes it difficult for Song Dandan.

But when they come, you can't turn around.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

As soon as Song Dandan gritted his teeth, he went to take the exam.

It may be because her father works in the Federation of Literary and Artistic Circles, Song Dandan has been educated in some literature and art since she was a child, and she can also improvise a little.

Coupled with Song Dandan's bright eyebrows at that time, she was a very beautiful woman.

There were no accidents in this exam, and she was able to pass it successfully.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

This can make Song Dandan happy like a flower, and he can finally continue his sweet love life with his boyfriend.

Later, on a variety show, Song Dandan said: "Although I was not admitted to Peking University, I wandered around Peking University all year round because my boyfriend was a student of Peking University. ”

Song Dandan also said that her first love was the most intense and romantic relationship in her life.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Unfortunately, the relationship did not last until the stage of marriage.

When Song Dandan was still immersed in a sweet love life, her boyfriend had quietly completed the procedures for going abroad.

He wanted to go abroad to develop, but he did not tell Song Dandan about this.

Later, after Song Dandan found out, he realized that he had been kept in the dark, and his boyfriend's life plan had never been himself.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

This caused Song Dandan to suffer great trauma in her heart, she couldn't believe that she regarded her boyfriend as everything, and in the eyes of her boyfriend, she was just a hurried guest in his life.

Song Dandan, who was immersed in sadness, could not let go for a long time.

Probably in order to get out of his previous relationship as soon as possible, Song Dandan got married soon after.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Who is the husband this time, Song Dandan did not reveal.

What we do know is that they divorced peacefully shortly after they got married.

The two did not have any attachment, and after the divorce, they were strangers, and no one mentioned anyone.

After that, Song Dandan began to devote himself to his career.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

In 1985, Song Dandan starred in the film and television drama "Looking for the World Back".

In 1986, he starred in the movie "Crescent Child" and won the Italian Silver Award.

While the career continues to develop, the next love also quietly comes.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

In 1987, when Song Dandan was preparing to star in the stage play "Arsonist", he met director Yingda, who had just returned from the UK, under the stage.

At that time, Song Dandan, who had just finished reading the lines, had a dry mouth and wanted to drink water, but he didn't bring a water cup yet.

Just as Song Dandan was looking for water, she saw a large thermos cup on Yingda's table.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Song Dandan quietly went over and asked if there was any: "Can I drink some water from you?" I was so thirsty. ”

Yingda saw Song Dandan's frequent pursing of her lips, couldn't stop laughing, and handed her the thermos cup.

After that, Yingda began to pay attention to Song Dandan from time to time.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Because they are in the same troupe, the two often perform together, and they are very compatible in their work, and slowly the two develop feelings.

Yingda will invite Song Dandan out to dinner from time to time, and every time will invite her to a big meal.

After dinner, they would take a walk in the park and talk to each other about their thoughts.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

In the chat, Song Dandan learned that Yingda had a wife as early as when she was in the UK.

It's just that the two disagreed, and Yingda, who was bent on returning to China, divorced his wife.

Yingda's experience aroused Song Dandan's inner empathy, and they confided more and more things to each other.

Soon the two of them came together and developed into lovers.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

The two are very affectionate and always go on trips together, watch movies, and visit parks together in their spare time.

Song Dandan feels that she has found the kind of passion for her first love again, surrounded by deep love.

The arrival of love also accelerated the development of Song Dandan's career.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

In 1989, 28-year-old Song Dandan appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and his performance of the sketch "Lazy Blind Date" was loved by the public, and then became famous.

In the same year, Song Dandan and Yingda entered the palace of marriage.

Double happiness is coming, this year is definitely an unforgettable year for Song Dandan.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Shortly after getting married, Huang Hong found her with the script of the sketch "Super Life Guerrilla", hoping that she could perform with him.

At that time, Song Dandan was already pregnant, and she only wanted to raise a baby and give birth.

I thought that Huang Hong would find someone else after learning about this situation, who knows that he hopes that Song Dandan can star in this sketch.

Because the heroine in this skit is a pregnant state.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Huang Hong said: "You are so good, you don't need to prepare props." ”

Song Dandan finally agreed to star under the persuasion of Huang Hong.

And Huang Hong also took into account Song Dandan's situation and reduced her workload.

There is no doubt that this sketch has also become a classic, and Song Dandan's career path has gone further.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Shortly after starring in the skit, Song Dandan gave birth to his son Batu.

During that time, Song Dandan's career was on the rise, and the work at hand was simply too busy.

She also has to take care of the children and take care of all the family's affairs, often very busy.

Yingda, on the other hand, didn't ask, and ran outside every day to busy himself with his career.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Even when he was at home, he never helped clean up and take care of the children.

In fact, this is mainly related to Yingda's family lineage.

Yingda is also a rich second generation, and since he was a child, he has been taken care of by others, and he has never dealt with these things by himself.

He was used to the kind of life of "clothes to reach for food and open his mouth".

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Song Dandan didn't complain at first, she felt that these things were what she should do.

However, such a life will always usher in a result.

Over time, Song Dandan felt more and more powerless.

Every time she performed, she took her son to the scene, and when she got home, she had to clean and do laundry.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

She is like a small motor, constantly busy every day.

Song Dandan began to argue with the family, and she complained that Yingda never cared about the family.

But Yingda felt that Song Dandan did not understand himself and was too strong.

Two people have more and more quarrels in life, and their feelings are becoming more and more discordant.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Song Dandan believes that this situation will not last long, and it will be good to wait until the child grows up.

However, Song Dandan did not wait for this time after all.

At that time, Song Dandan had appeared on the Spring Festival Gala many times, and his fame was also increasing, far surpassing the fame of director Yingda.

Yingda, who has been competitive since childhood, will definitely not be able to endure such a situation.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

He began to devote himself to the TV series "I Love My Home", wanting to make this drama a classic film and television.

It was in this crew that Yingda and Liang Huan met.

Liang Huan is a screenwriter, she is not as good looking as Song Dandan, and she is not as famous as Song Dandan, but she still captures Yingda's heart.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

It may be that Yingda was attracted by Liang Huan's talent and felt that she had a different temperament.

And after the TV series "I Love My Home" was broadcast, Yingda, the director, became completely popular and was known as the "father of sitcoms".

After becoming famous, Yingda and Liang Huan came together, indulged in the lights and wine all day, rarely went home, and never asked Song Dandan's mother and son.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

However, Song Dandan did not know at this time that Yingda had betrayed the marriage, and she still took care of the family in an orderly manner.

However, Song Dandan, who is busy every day, is psychologically exhausted and makes her gradually lose expectations for this kind of married life.

At this time, Song Dandan met a man in the crew filming the TV series.

He took meticulous care of Song Dandan and listened carefully to the troubles in her heart.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

This made Song Dandan, who was lonely in his heart, feel a warmth, and the two gradually fell in love.

In 1997, Song Dandan said to Yingda, who was filming outside: "I'm in love with someone else, let's divorce." ”

Yingda didn't react after hearing this, just said lightly: "Good." ”

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

It was also in this year that Song Dandan and Yingda ended their eight-year love run.

Their child, Batu, lives with Song Dandan.

Soon after Song Dandan and Yingda divorced, there were reports of Yingda and Liang Huan getting married.

When Song Dandan saw it, he knew that he had been deceived, and it turned out that his husband had already had an extramarital affair.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

During this period, Song Dandan once felt that life had no hope.

She has been depressed and immersed in grief all day.

My friend Ni Ping saw Song Dandan like this, and her heart was also very unpleasant.

She accompanies Song Dandan every day, hoping that her company can enable Song Dandan to get out of this marriage as soon as possible.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

But this blow really broke Song Dandan's heart.

Once, Song Dandan said to Ni Ping: "I can't hold on, my heart is very uncomfortable." ”

Hearing that Song Dandan's tone was wrong, Ni Ping was afraid that she would do something stupid, so she hurried to see Song Dandan.

Ni Ping took her for a walk in the park, enlightened her, and cooked her food when she got home.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

For Ni Ping, a friend, Song Dandan is also very grateful and respectful.

But there was one thing that kept them from contacting each other for years.

It was at an event party that Song Dandan saw Ni Ping sitting at the event table.

She greeted her with joy and said, "Look, Ni Ping and I are good friends. ”

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Who knew that Ni Ping said: "Who are you?" ”

This sentence deeply hurt Song Dandan's heart, and they have never contacted each other since.

In fact, for this matter, Ni Ping later said on the variety show: "I am a person who likes to joke regardless of the occasion, if Song Dandan can't hear this sentence as a joke, then no one should be able to hear it." ”

Then Song Dandan was also remorseful when he learned about it, knowing that he had misunderstood Ni Ping.

The two are also back together.

Ni Ping has indeed helped Song Dandan a lot on the road of life, without Ni Ping, it is difficult for Song Dandan to get out of this relationship.

During that time, under Ni Ping's careful care and companionship, Song Dandan gradually wanted to open this matter.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

She knows she can't stay in this love all the time, and she has her own children to raise.

In the days that followed, Song Dandan focused on his career.

With Song Dandan's hard work, she became a resident sketch actor at the Spring Festival Gala, bringing us many classic sketches.

The career has been rising, but the marriage has not progressed.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

The friends around her also began to worry about her, always afraid that she had not yet come out of the haze of her previous marriage, so they began to introduce Song Dandan to objects.

It was also from this blind date that Song Dandan met a partner who could be with him for life - Zhao Yuji.

Zhao Yuji is a wealthy businessman, who often goes in and out of aristocratic places, and he shows elegance in his gestures.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Maybe it's because of his temperament, or maybe because Song Dandan needs spiritual comfort.

The two have only known each other for 28 days and began their marriage journey.

Everyone thought that this marriage would not last long, but who knew that Zhao Yuji "hit us in the face" with practical actions.

After getting married, Zhao Yuji spoiled Song Dandan very much and regarded her almost as the whole of his life.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

He will give gifts to Song Dandan during the festival and will take the initiative to take over the burden of housework.

And Zhao Yuji is very good to Song Dandan's son Batu, just like treating his own son.

He will take the initiative to contact Batuu, chat with him, take him to the amusement park, make games...

Even when Batu School held a parent-teacher meeting, he would immediately withdraw all business matters around him to give Batu a parent-teacher meeting.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Slowly Batu began to accept this stepfather in his heart.

However, in this process, Batuu still misses his father Yingda very much.

But Yingda is very ruthless, never going to see Batu, nor will he answer Batu's calls.

Yingda said: "We will definitely not be friends after the divorce, I will not go to see them." ”

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Yingda completely forgot that he was Batuu's biological father.

On the contrary, he is surprisingly good to himself and Liang Huan's child, Ying Rudi.

Yingda does its best to meet any requirements for Yingrudi.

Ying Rudi likes figure skating, Yingda finds him the best teacher, he likes ice hockey, Yingda spent a lot of money to buy a set of ice hockey equipment.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

It is said that Yingda also built an ice rink for this purpose.

And Ying Rudi also ignored everyone's expectations, and with his hard work, he represented the Chinese men's ice hockey team in 2022. ,

Yingda's concern for these two children is very different, which is embarrassing.

Fortunately, with his stepfather Zhao Yuji, it will not make Batu lack the care of his father's love.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Song Dandan also put a lot of effort into Batu.

Once Batu returned from abroad, Song Dandan looked at the bloated Batu with worry in his eyes.

After going to the hospital for examination, sure enough, as Song Dandan was worried, all kinds of obesity found Batu.

Since then, Song Dandan has strictly controlled the Batu diet.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

And at that time, it happened that Song Dandan encountered the filming of a TV series, and Song Dandan wanted Batu to participate.

On the one hand, it is to exercise Batuu's social skills, and on the other hand, it can also make Batu lose weight.

Because this drama requires that the actor's weight should not be too heavy, Batuu embarked on a difficult road to weight loss.

Song Dandan made light food every time, so that Batu did not eat oil and water for months.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

She also regularly supervised Batuu's workouts, often until she was out of breath and her clothes were soaked with sweat.

The kung fu paid off, and a few days before the filming of the TV series, Batu had lost dozens of pounds.

It is precisely because of Song Dandan's strict control that Batu's body gets rid of obesity.

And in 2017, Batu married Wang Bogu, who was six years older than him.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Now the lives of the two families are gradually on track, and the old grudges are fading with time.

is not continuing his path of directing, but Song Dandan is gradually fading out of the entertainment industry.

In 2020, Song Dandan appeared on the Spring Festival Gala for the last time.

This time she did not bring us a happy skit, but sang a song.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

She is more like waving goodbye to the stage that once brought her honor and glory.

It was in the summer of that year that Song Dandan retired from Renyi and began to return to his family to live seriously.

In 2018, Song Dandan welcomed his first eldest grandson, and in 2022, his younger grandson also came to the family.

Song Dandan's bumpy love experience also ended.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

From the first love ruthlessly leaving her and experiencing Yingda's cruel betrayal, Song Dandan still did not give up her love of life and yearning for a beautiful marriage.

Song Dandan: After being betrayed by Yingda, he turned around and flashed marriage with a blind date who had known each other for 28 days, what is the current situation

Song Dandan once said: "You are very good together, that is not called happiness, how suitable you are between you is not happiness, happiness should be the place where you deal with the inappropriate together." ”

Everyone has a different definition of happiness, someone needs companionship, someone loves each other.

However, no matter what the outcome is, you must stick to your heart's choice and always be warm and sincere about love.

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