You Yong is a famous old drama bone in the 80s and 90s of the last century.
He is the dumb Kang gourd in "The Bell of Qingliang Temple", and he is the iron-faced and selfless Yang Tieru in the TV series "The Justice",
It is Tian Fujun, who has both virtue and talent in "Ordinary World", and Li Dayou, the "thorn head" in "Mountains and Seas".
In the past few decades in the film and television industry, You Yong's acting skills have become more and more pure, from "military professionals" to increasingly diversified images, You Yong has won the audience's affirmation in the process of climbing and rolling.
He has been singing all the way in his career, but he has many twists and turns in his feelings.
You Yong married the girl he had in mind in college when he got married, but divorced a year after marriage.
He and Xu Qing also had a lingering and compassionate love, but this relationship did not last long, and the two parted ways.
After the breakup, You Yong looked back at these two failed relationships, and he had deep doubts about himself.
He felt that perhaps he was destined to die alone in this life.
For the next 8 years, he did not dabble in love again.
Whenever someone talks to him about feelings and girlfriends, he always shakes his head: "I'm not suitable for someone to talk to." ”
But such days did not last forever.
He met the person who made him willing to open his heart, Shen Rong, a university professor 10 years younger than him.
So, what happened to You Yong and Shen Rong?
What is You Yong's life like now?
Loved to fight since childhood
You Yong was born in Shaanxi to intellectuals.
He has been rough and burly since he was a child, and he is a typical northwestern rough man.
You Yong's parents are busy with work, and he grew up free-range.
This also gives You Yong, who already likes to be naughty and mischievous, more space to play his lively and active.
Climbing high and low, digging out bird eggs, touching fish, these little boys like to do it, and You Yong is naturally very enthusiastic.
Fights are even more common. He was even labeled as having loved fighting since he was a child.
Moreover, his academic performance is not ideal, and his relationship with teachers is not very good, and it is common to call parents.
At that time, You Yong was simply the "Great Demon King of the Mixed World" in the eyes of his parents and teachers.
But in fact, he is very good, in the free-range state, he can easily practice life skills such as nailing buttons, sewing clothes, and cooking.
Moreover, he is very righteous. If a friend has something, he will definitely do his best to help.
You Yong, who is enthusiastic and young, has always dreamed of becoming a pilot, soaring in the blue sky, and contributing to the aerospace of the motherland.
But You Yong, who often fights, inevitably leaves scars on his body, which also makes him eventually miss the pilot.
During that time, You Yong was very depressed, his academic performance was not satisfactory, and his dreams could not be realized.
He was confused about the future.
In order to relieve the pain in his heart, he took the pocket money given by his parents and watched movies one by one, and slowly the seeds of literature and art took root in You Yong's heart.
You Yong, who was in his adolescence, grew up like a drawer.
The once rough guy has become tall and handsome, and no matter who sees it, he has to praise "young and beautiful boys".
So, the friends around him jokingly said to You Yong: "You have the potential to be a movie star." ”
The speaker has no intention, the listener has intention. You Yong took this sentence to heart.
At that time, the Xi'an Repertory Theater was expanding.
You Yong did not tell his parents and signed up.
There are about thousands of people who signed up for reference, but the Xi'an Repertory Theater only has 16 people.
The competition is fierce.
You Yong was also very apprehensive in his heart, and he had just had a fight with someone before the interview, and his face was still colorful.
Everyone will feel a little suspended in this matter, and You Yong's heart is also up and down.
But he always felt: When they come, mules and horses will be pulled out and slipped.
During the interview, You Yong looked at the solemn and serious examiner in front of him, pointed to his own face and explained: I was too excited to participate in the interview, and I accidentally hit the telephone pole on the way here.
The examiner listened and laughed.
His humorous and sincere explanations impressed the examiners and eventually stood out from the thousands.
When he arrived at the Xi'an Repertory Theater, You Yong looked at the versatile people around him, and he suddenly realized how big the gap between himself and others was.
He changed his previous love of fighting and began to calm down to learn acting.
Running and practicing his voice every morning without moving also made his performance skills gradually become solid.
After several years of tempering, You Yong has matured a lot.
Later, when he was in the drama entrance examination, You Yong was successfully admitted with the first place.
In the play, he not only gained solid acting skills, but also met a beautiful relationship.
A brief and dying marriage with Liu Xiaochun
In the play, You Yong has also made a lot of friends while honing his acting skills.
At that time, You Yong, because of his experience in the drama troupe, when others were still learning to perform, he began to make money by filming advertisements.
His financial situation is much better than that of other students.
You Yong, who is bold by nature, often invites his classmates to eat together.
He is handsome and has a good personality, and there are naturally many people who adore him.
And Liu Xiaochun is one of them.
In fact, Liu Xiaochun at that time was also very good.
She has picturesque eyebrows, gentle and dignified appearance, and is also very popular with her classmates.
Male talent and female appearance, Lang has a concubine intention, You Yong and Liu Xiaochun naturally came together.
During the school days, they attend classes together, rehearse together, and eat together.
When You Yong has an advertisement to shoot, Liu Xiaochun is always with him.
A good life always passes very quickly.
In the blink of an eye, it was time for them to graduate.
It is said that graduation season is breakup season. You Yong and Liu Xiaochun are not like this.
After they graduated, they received a marriage license.
When they got the marriage certificate, Liu Xiaochun and You Yong were particularly excited, and they felt that they would definitely go on firmly in this life.
But marriage and love are different after all.
Love is talking about ideals, talking about romance.
But marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, it is full of chicken and dog scraps, it is very realistic.
Two people who are not fully mentally prepared, under the wear and tear of daily life, the relationship slowly changes taste.
You Yong is a bold northwestern man, and he always treats guests to dinner when he earns money.
Liu Xiaochun, on the other hand, felt that they had already started a family and should save up their money.
The concept of disagreement often leads to various frictions between the two of them.
As soon as the number of times and the time passed, the relationship between the two was exhausted.
One year after their marriage, they obtained a divorce certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau.
Marriage is like this, two people who are not suitable are like inappropriate shoes, and they will be especially tired when they go far.
The only way is to stop the loss in time and leave with dignity.
was abandoned by Xu Qing and did not dare to fall in love for 8 years
After receiving the divorce certificate, You Yong returned to his residence, packed up his clothes, and planned to leave.
But when he rummaged through all the pockets on his body, only two dollars, You Yong realized that his pocket was really cleaner than his face.
At that moment, he was extremely bored in his heart.
You Yong roamed the streets with his luggage on his back.
Later, he got into a taxi.
"Master, it's time to get to the ground in a while, you wait for me first, I'll go to my classmates to borrow money, and then give you the fare."
The driver master is also a good person, after listening to You Yong's words, he did not drive him out of the car, but asked about his experience.
You Yong slowly told the driver master in the car, You Yong, who was unmarried and did not have any savings, and finally You Yong cried silently in the car.
"Boy, have a good time, you will definitely get better. I won't charge the fare. ”
You Yong remembered the words of the driver's master fiercely, and he must come out like a person.
During that time, he led his luggage between the various crews, regardless of the size of the role, as long as there was, he devoted himself to the shooting.
It is also because of You Yong's dedication that his reputation has gradually increased.
Later, he received the movie "Madness".
In this movie, he met Xu Qing, who made him uneasy.
At that time, Xu Qing was just 22 years old, with delicate facial features and fair skin, and Xu Qing, who had a graceful figure, quickly captured You Yong's heart.
In the crew, You Yong took care of Xu Qing meticulously, from eating and drinking water to the script lines, You Yong did his best to make Xu Qing comfortable.
What You Yong did, Xu Qing saw it in his eyes and remembered it in his heart.
Half a year later, You Yong finally hugged the beauty back.
After being with Xu Qing, You Yong can be called a 24-filial boyfriend.
No matter where he is, he will call Xu Qing.
Once, You Yong was filming in the mountains, the signal was not good, and there was no way to call Xu Qing.
You Yong borrowed the crew's car and drove to the county town in the dark at night to contact Xu Qing.
You know, the mountain road is particularly difficult to drive, if not an old driver, it is likely to fall off the cliff.
But You Yong didn't care.
Xu Qing needs to shoot scenes in the mountains for several months, and she has not suffered since she was a child, and she is a little afraid.
After You Yong found out, he accompanied Xu Qing in the crew for several months.
In You Yong's opinion, as long as Xu Qing is happy, he can do anything.
But even so, You Yong still didn't keep Xu Qing's heart.
When Xu Qing was filming "Roots of the Imperial City", he had an affair with Wang Zhiwen.
At that time, Wang Zhiwen, humorous, with flowing long hair, threw out the unruliness in his bones.
Anyone who sees him will be fascinated by him.
When You Yong heard the rumors, he immediately panicked.
He and Xu Qing had a fierce dispute, and finally the relationship between the two ended.
You Yong didn't understand why he tried his best to love, but in the end he didn't get a good ending.
You Yong, who was hurt all over his body in the emotional world, did not dare to get involved in love again.
He threw himself into his career.
He completely closed his heart.
This period lasted for 8 years.
Until he met Shen Rong, a university professor 8 years younger than him.
Remarried to Shen Rong, who is 10 years younger, and Dink has been so far
In 1997, 34-year-old You Yong won his first award in the entertainment industry - the Golden Eagle Outstanding Actor Award for his wonderful performance in "Big Family".
A year later, he brought home the Most Popular Actor Award for his acting skills in "The Justice".
At this point, You Yong really has a name in the entertainment industry.
His relatives and friends around him are happy that he has achieved such an achievement.
But they saw that he had always been single and felt that it was not a problem.
So, You Yong's family began to take turns to unravel him.
In the end, You Yong took the step of blind date.
He didn't know this step and opened the door to happiness and sweetness.
The one who went on a blind date with him was Shen Rong, and You Yong said the first time he saw Shen Rong: "I have been divorced once. ”
Shen Rong was the first time to see a boy so frank, and he also became interested in You Yong.
Later, when You Yong asked her if she minded, Shen Rong's answer touched You Yong's heart: "Getting married is normal for a normal man in his thirties. ”
After that, the two of them often had dinner and watched movies.
At that time, Shen Rong was a graduate student at the Central Academy of Fine Arts.
They will talk about art, movies, and the trivial daily life of life.
As they got to know each other, the hearts of the two of them gradually approached.
Shen Rong knew that You Yong had a failed marriage before, and those past painful experiences left a shadow on him.
Therefore, she is very tolerant of You Yong.
And You Yong saw Shen Rong's sincerity towards him.
The solid ice in You Yong's heart gradually melted under Shen Rong's care.
In the end, the two of them entered the palace of marriage.
Shen Rong is 10 years younger than You Yong, and when the two got married, it was when Shen Rong was fighting for her career.
You Yong understands that Shen Rong has her own pursuit of career, so he likes children and is willing to let his wife pursue her dreams first.
After graduating from graduate school, Shen Rong stayed on to become a photography teacher, and later she became an excellent university professor step by step with her own efforts.
With the passage of time, Shen Rong and You Yong also had thoughts of having children.
However, fate is often so tricky.
When they had the time, energy, and preparation to have children, the children were delayed.
They saw doctors, took medicine to recuperate, exercised and fitness, and did everything they could, but in the end they did not usher in the crystallization of love.
You Yong looked at his annoyed wife, he felt a faint pain in his heart, he tightly grabbed his wife's hand and said: "It doesn't matter if you have children or not, as long as you are by my side." ”
Under You Yong's explanation, Shen Rong was no longer obsessed with the problem of children.
She spent all her time on living with You Yong, and the two of them went to climb mountains and travel together in their leisure time, to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and life was not comfortable.
In an interview, when the reporter asked You Yong about Xu Qing, You Yong's face changed slightly.
"It's all in the past," he said. ”
When the reporter asked about his relationship with his current wife, You Yong's face instantly smiled: "I will call her no matter how late I finish filming, and we are in love every day together." ”
Maybe love is like this, there are misses, there are hurts, there are sweetness, and in the end no matter what, you will meet the person who is in tune with you and is willing to join hands with you for the rest of your life.
epilogue
Today's You Yong, who has changed his name to You Yongzhi, said that he wants to change his image of courage and incompetence.
Now he is also 59 years old, but he is still active in the entertainment industry.
Last year's "Mountains and Seas" and "A Hundred Refinements into Steel", this year's "County Party Committee Compound", "Never Compromise", etc., all have his wonderful interpretations.
In his career, he had a long period of dormancy, and then accumulated and became a veritable old drama bone in people's hearts.
Emotionally, he was injured twice in 3 relationships, and finally found the person who resonated with him at the same frequency.
Although he has not given birth to a son and a half daughter until now, such a life is not necessarily unhappy.
A full house of children may not lead to happiness, and families may not be harmonious.
Everyone has their own position and considerations, we may not understand it, but respect it.