Nicholas Tse once said in an interview: "I will not get married." As soon as these words came out, they immediately caused an uproar, and the public generally believed that Faye Wong was genuinely wrongly paid, but is this really the case?
It can be seen from Nicholas Tse's breezy expression and Faye Wong's past remarks that not getting married should be an agreement reached by two people.
Do two people who love each other have to get married?
I think everyone will have their own answer in their hearts, some people long for a marriage to prove each other's love, and some people may feel that the state of love is more important.
I think Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse are in such a state. The two met, got to know each other, fell in love, and publicly celebrated the Cannes award of "In the Mood for Love" that began in 2000.
At the celebration banquet, Faye Wong naturally took Nicholas Tse's hand. At this time, Faye Wong was 31 years old and Nicholas Tse was 19 years old.
A romance between a diva and a newcomer who has just debuted, once it was made public, it has attracted widespread attention from the media.
At that time, Nicholas Tse stood behind Faye Wong a little shyly, Faye Wong smiled happily, and many people said that it was the most beautiful look of love.
In fact, before holding hands with Nicholas Tse, everyone knew that Faye Wong once had a love, that is, with rock singer Dou Wei.
At that time, Dou Wei was already a popular singer in the rock circle, and Faye Wong admired Dou Wei's talent and ran to live in a courtyard in Beijing as a diva. There was even a picture of getting up in the morning to empty a urine bucket.
At that time, Faye Wong did not have a shelf for the queen, wearing shorts and a pair of slippers, so she appeared very casually in the courtyard in Beijing.
At that time, Faye Wong and Dou Wei loved each other warmly. Everyone knows what happened later, after Faye Wong gave birth to Dou Jingtong, the two ended in divorce.
At that time, Faye Wong was in her best years. Going around in circles, Faye Wong met Li Yapeng again, a very honest but shrewd actor.
Faye Wong and Li Yapeng have been together for ten years and gave birth to their daughter Li Yan, and everyone knows that Li Yan is a slightly defective child.
However, this does not hinder Faye Wong and Li Yapeng's love for her. Unfortunately, the family that the two people maintained together broke up after ten years.
At that time, Faye Wong's Weibo said, this life is the end of husband and wife, I am fine, you also take care. Li Yapeng also replied politely: My high school girl.
Faye Wong's two marriages ended very decently, without tearing each other apart, without each other's black news, not to mention making a very embarrassing situation.
It is not like ordinary couples who expose each other's black materials for property, reputation, status, and word of mouth.
In fact, we all know that husband and wife have been together for ten years, how can they not know some bad fetishes of each other, or some bad behaviors?
However, both chose a decent divorce, giving each other the utmost respect.
Later, some media photographed Faye Wong's red face in the car, in fact, it is indeed like this, a ten-year relationship is broken, how can it not be sad?
Later, in 2014, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse were photographed walking together in the community, and then kissed passionately, and everyone knew that the two had renewed their frontier.
At this time, Nicholas Tse is no longer the 19-year-old young boy back then, but has become a 34-year-old man with mature charm. Faye Wong is 45 years old at this time, which is also a good time.
The two people came together again so unscrupulously, regardless of the world.
We often say that if it is possible to let go because you like it, then after going around in circles, it must be because of fate.
After the two were together, many media said: Faye Wong will have another child for Nicholas Tse, or the two will get married.
However, when the media interviewed Nicholas Tse, he said categorically: I will not get married.
This has sparked speculation among the public that Nicholas Tse wants to abandon Faye Wong.
However, it can also be seen from Faye Wong's behavior over the years that after he divorced Dou Wei, Dou Wei's mother would attend her daughter's birthday banquet, Dou Wei's sister would go to support her concert, and Li Yapeng never said that Faye Wong was not. It can be seen that Faye Wong is not only a casual person and a free person, but more importantly, she is a kind person.
Faye Wong's two daughters may be a little deviant in the eyes of outsiders, like Dou Jingtong tattooing a line of death on his lips.
At that time, many people thought that this was very ugly and unsightly.
Later, I learned that it was because Dou Jingtong wanted to accompany her sister Li Yan, telling her that she was also different, so that her sister bravely faced the unfairness in life and faced her own physical defects.
I think a sister like Dou Jingtong must be warm and full of sunshine in her heart. And their mother, Faye Wong, although she seems to the outside world, is very selfish and free, as if she completely ignores her two children.
But the two marriages, the two half-children have a very good relationship, I have to say that Faye Wong must have poured absolute love into them and gave them enough freedom.
Dou Jingtong once said that we don't need to rebel, in our family, I am the eldest sister, my younger sister is the second sister, and Faye Wong is the third sister.
Therefore, it can be seen that Faye Wong is getting along with children very equally, and this equality is something that many parents cannot do.
Parents always think that they are high and can control everything in their children. As everyone knows, pushing the child too hard will cause the child to be more deviant.
Therefore, Faye Wong is a very wise mother, and many people say that she is selfish and does not care about the feelings of her children, but she is completely wrong.
Because after Faye Wong and Li Yapeng divorced, she can also attend her daughter's birthday banquet very calmly, and dance happily with Li Yapeng and her two daughters at the banquet. I believe that you can't do it without a big heart.
What about Nicholas Tse? He is also a very insecure person and a very deviant person.
When he, a deviant person, met such a deviant person as Faye Wong, it was not surprising that the two fell in love.
The two people use their own experience and their own attitude to prove to the outside world that they are not bad at the piece of paper of the marriage certificate, they love each other, they don't care if they need to get married, because they have been in love is actually quite good.
Like us ordinary people, we should also learn Faye Wong's free-spirited attitude, do not care about everything, follow your heart, as long as you don't hurt others, no matter how you do it, as long as you are happy.
I think this kind of free attitude is something that few people have now.
Therefore, Faye Wong's sincerity is not wrongly paid, but a high degree of fit with Nicholas Tse, a high degree of co-optation, so that the two can make a consistent decision not to get married.
The free and comfortable attitude of two people to life, I think it is worth learning from everyone.