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Unexpectedly, in the end, it was the choice of two old-school men, which made us feel the most. Watching the "Goodbye Lover" extension "See the Lover Again", let me serially review the story of the purpose of the two seasons.
In the second part of "See Your Lover Again", we hear that Aiwein gradually understands his wife's love and his heart, and chooses to get back together with Lisa until he is old. I also saw that Wang Qiuyu understood his wife's desire for independence and strength, reflected on himself, and chose to let go.
Also for love, the choice is so different, the expression of love of these two old-school men makes netizens and guests sigh.
1 The stubborn Ai Wei knows how to choose to stick to it
Ai Wei just appeared, which is really unpleasant.
With a stubborn and judgeful attitude, he confronted his gentle wife.
The mantra, you don't play mahjong, don't think I'm good to you, I'm going to get back together with you.
To his wife, who has been with him for half his life, he is condescending and chattering, only saying that mahjong does not mention affection.
It seems that the responsibility for the separation of the two people lies with the wife, and it has nothing to do with him.
There are loving husband and wife guests to set an example, and he is cold and unmoved.
The young couple around him quarreled endlessly, and he broke the problem with a word, but did not participate in it.
Unswayed by his wife and other people's emotions, Ai Wei, who is in his 60s, looks like an old-school man with machismo.
When people think that even if the gentle Lisa tries to lower his posture, Ai Wei will not get back together.
This stubborn man actually became the one he loved the most.
In fact, he has love in his heart, but his mouth is not right.
Mouth, you don't play mahjong, don't think about me getting back together with you.
Action, you can see that Lisa is cold, care about whether she is tired or not, and understand her strength and firmness for love.
Lisa's altitude sickness, nosebleeds, cough and fever completely exposed this stubborn old man.
He actually knows love very well and can find love.
His mouth is hard because of care and love.
Years of companionship, and dedication to his sick wife, made him resentful, and wanted to use life to escape the final parting, and his heart was reluctant and unwilling to show.
So duplicity, say one thing disgusting, do one set of care.
He knows that commitment means being responsible to the end, and avoiding the words of love in his heart.
He can find love, and Lisa, who is not in good health, is willing to participate in the show with him, Plateau Mountain Climbing.
In itself, it is a commitment to love.
He first saw love, and then understood his heart under the reminder of psychologists and friends.
When faced with the sick Lisa, he chose to get back together with his wife and accompany her to face life and death together.
It turned out that Ai Wei's mouth was hard because he valued the promise of love too much, and he couldn't bear to face the life and death of his lover when he wanted to leave.
Ai Wei, this old-school man in his 60s, does not say love in his mouth, but expresses love in action. Dare to bear the pain and responsibility of love.
His choice to get back together in order to understand love is really touching.
Behind this choice is love, but also responsibility.
Love without responsibility is empty and rootless.
Without the responsibility of love, it is heavy and there are no gaps.
Only when love and responsibility are synchronized, is a life with roots, thick and broad.
2 Wang Qiuyu, who paid silently, chose to let go
Wang Qiuyu, who does not understand love, just appeared, and was also very scolded.
Even many people watch the goodbye lover of the first season, just to see how the man in this hot search does not understand love.
The lover in the wedding dress said, "Am I beautiful, he said, the clothes look good."
The wife sang songs she had composed, and he said that he didn't like it, it was ugly.
His wife was late and talked a lot while driving, which became the reason for his violent accusations.
Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong, two people who seem to be on completely different tracks, have walked a long way together.
Wang Qiuyu really doesn't understand love, maybe he doesn't understand the expression of love.
In his world, it is very shameful and weak to say love.
Just like when he was a child, he was a genius child, who would not say anything emotional to his parents, only to study hard and keep fighting.
He believes that there is no need to talk about love.
So, in the face of Zhu Yaqiong's obsession with expressing love, he was angry and stubborn.
I know my wife needs it, but I don't want to change it.
So did he really love?
When Zhu Yaqiong stopped looking forward to it, he seemed willing to do something for her.
Pick small flowers on the mountain for her and make her happy. Yaqiong's camera is lost, and he returns a long way alone to retrieve it too.
Until later, he saw Yaqiong's determination in divorce and finally chose to let go.
On the last day before making his decision, he sat alone with alcohol and spent the night.
He left her a house for his son to be with his mother. Be a lonely old man yourself.
He told her that if she encountered any difficulties, she could also find him.
He has been silently loving with actions, but he refuses to say love in the way Yaqiong likes.
Wang Qiuyu, this old man who loves silently with actions, finally chose to divorce and let go for love, which is also moving.
Behind this choice is love and responsibility.
Choosing to let go rather than control is to allow the person who loves to live better, and this is love.
Choosing to let go, but still willing to take a responsibility, jointly protect the child's young heart, this is responsibility and responsibility.
3 Two stubborn old-school men, both brave men
These two stubborn old-school men, with different choices, are both brave and sincere people.
One goes from being stubborn and not reunited, to letting go of obsessions in the face of life and death, and bravely facing the cherished lover in his heart.
One goes from stubbornness and not expressing, to when it is necessary to let go, bravely bear, for lovers and children.
Many times, we think of bravery as facing many crises in life, such as facing crime, or daring to stand up for major occasions.
In fact, dare to face your heart, and dare to have a commitment in an uncertain future.
That's amazing bravery.
How many people dare not show their sincerity and face their hearts.
And how many people dare not commit to love, and cannot face the harm that love may bring.
Write on the back
When we, lamented the choice of two old-school men in the show.
It will be found that valuing action and responsibility, and not speaking lightly, are the virtues of traditional old-school men.
And these virtues are often hidden behind the words "unexpressive, uninteresting, straight man and machismo".
It seems that traditional men are strong, stubborn, and not delicate stereotypes.
Watching this show, from a different perspective, you will find that the advantages of these old-school men are exactly what other new-school men lack.
Today's common new school of men say that love is so easy, but they may not do it well in action. They either say they can't do it, or they don't understand what responsibility is.
Modern love stories, some of which are soulful, are also fun and joyful.
But there is only a little less, the commitment, responsibility and action in the old-school man.
I want to ask, do you have the kind of responsibility of an old-school man in your love?
In the serialization of the drama review of "See My Lover Again", I reviewed and asked about the shining emotional pearls of the two seasons of goodbye lovers, and the difficult marriage growth. If you like it, please like me for questions and comments, and I will continue to write for love.
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