I believe that the vast majority of people will not easily try cross-border marriage, after all, the language barrier is a huge gap between husband and wife. If you don't understand each other's language, how can you talk about entering each other's inner world, emotionally resonating with each other, and spending the rest of your life together? Even if the couple or couple is fluent in each other's language, the two families will not always be able to? Is it possible to live together and guess and communicate by gestures?
In addition to language barriers, there are also displacements, cross-country borders, and large differences in lifestyles. Transnational marriage means that one partner must abandon his or her homeland and follow the other half to live in a foreign country where he or she is not familiar with life. For the woman, even if she is married in different cities in the same province, she can't go back to her mother's house several times a year if her in-law's family is outside the province, and once there is any emergency, the yellow cauliflower is cold.
Sabine was exposed to marriage! Self-deprecating that the marriage is hopeless and does not leave, just because of 2 points, Li Bai is suspected of being rejected by his in-laws
Once became popular because of the phrase "Peking University is okay", so that more people realized that this life is "Versailles" joker host Sabine, married a white-haired Canadian wife "Li Bai". After getting married, the couple was particularly low-key, if not for Li Bai being exposed to give birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, the couple's marriage was well known to everyone, and there must still be many people who regard Sabine as a "future son-in-law".
I thought that Sabine and Li Bai could grow old together, and the family of four would always be sweet and happy, but I didn't expect that the rumors of Sabine and Li Bai's marriage suddenly exposed on the Internet, which made everyone hard to believe. The cause of the incident was that Sabine openly laughed at himself on a certain program that he and his wife Li Bai had "looked together", and faced the camera with a face to express hopelessness for future married life, and his tone was full of helplessness.
Sabine's sudden revelation shocked Ma Dong, the host on the side, and quickly asked why he didn't divorce Li Bai, and whether it was difficult to maintain his marriage? Sabine's reply revealed that there are only two reasons for not getting divorced, one is that it is not easy to explain to the public, and if the divorce is divorced, it will definitely be stormy in the city, and it will not be good to affect the reputation of the unit at that time. Another point that everyone can also think of is that it hurts the two children too much.
Think about it, it is not easy to walk together in cross-border marriages, what should the children do if they are divorced? Especially at such a distance as China and Canada, I am afraid that the opportunity to see children will become rare in the future, which is extremely detrimental to the growth of children.
In fact, as early as some time ago, after Sabine took his wife and children back to his hometown in Hubei, netizens posted photos of their whole family, Li Bai was like an insignificant person, silently standing behind Sabine, his expression and movements did not seem to be very acceptable to this environment.
It stands to reason that Li Bai, as Sabine's wife, does not stand side by side with Sabine, at least he must stand in front, and Sabine also completely ignores his foreign wife, shrinks his neck and stands alone in front, and does not have much contact with Li Bai. This picture made Li Bai wonder if he was rejected by his in-laws, so he stood alone in the back row, with a cold expression on his face.
You must know that cross-border marriage is inherently difficult to maintain, and if Sabine is tired of such a life, it is too unfair to Li Bai, who marries far away from China. Do you have any other thoughts on this? You can leave a message in the comment area to discuss.