Xu Fan, she is a very lucky girl, because there are always surprises on her life path.
Xu Fan's luck starts in 1967,
In 1967, she was lucky to be born in a literary family, and her parents were both actors-related professions.
After growing up, she is still very lucky, because she was also very successful when she applied for the art class.
Coming to Beijing from Wuhan, Hubei Province, her life is full of surprises.
When he first came to Beijing, Xu Fan was very popular with friends,
At that time, she was particularly young, beautiful and temperamental, and she was especially taken care of by her good friends around her who were not familiar with her life.
Later, she was also very lucky to meet the personable Wang Zhiwen at that time.
After knowing Wang Zhiwen, Xu Fan was moved by him,
Yes, you read that right, it was Xu Fan who fell in love with Wang Zhiwen first,
Before Xu Fan, Wang Zhiwen had other emotions, and Xu Fan was different at that time,
When she first met Wang Zhiwen, she was a girl who had not yet been in love, and she was also a very simple girl.
is also a fledgling and is not afraid of tigers, so in the face of the people she likes, she also dares to pursue decisively,
When he was young, Xu Fan was very beautiful, and his smile was particularly charming, and Wang Zhiwen also fell under the pomegranate skirt in the face of her active pursuit,
At that time, when Wang Zhiwen and Xu Fan were together, many people envied him.
The reason why people envy Wang Zhiwen is because after he and Xu Fan were together, Xu Fan was willing to go to his dormitory every day to wash and cook for him.
Xu Fan's willingness made many people cast jealous eyes,
On campus at that time, many people often talked about them, and even some people would say: If only they had a beautiful girl like Xu Fan who was willing to cook for herself behind her back.
At that time, Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen were the objects of envy and admiration,
At that time, many people thought that the two of them would be together for a long time and forever.
But what everyone never expected was that Xu Fan, the woman who was willing to cook for Wang Zhiwen, was finally dug up by Feng Xiaogang, who was married for the second time.
01: Why was Wang Zhiwen dug into the wall?
Many people can't understand why Feng Xiaogang was already married for the second time, but Xu Fan liked Wang Zhiwen so much, but in the end she would turn around and marry Feng Xiaogang.
As for why Wang Zhiwen was dug into the wall, there are many reasons,
First: Wang Zhiwen himself does not attach so much importance to emotions.
When he was with Xu Fan, Wang Zhiwen was still the object of many girls' pursuit, so at that time, he was not so dedicated to emotions,
In the face of some other girls in the circle, he will still be moved.
Wang Zhiwen's own reasons made Xu Fan drift away,
In addition to Wang Zhiwen himself, there is also the appearance of Feng Xiaogang, which has changed Xu Fan a lot.
The meeting of Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan began in 1991.
In 1991, Xu Fan, who had just graduated, was invited to become the heroine of the movie "The Great Sajia",
After arriving at the crew, Feng Xiaogang, who was working as a screenwriter in the crew at that time, was attracted by the young and beautiful Xu Fan.
However, at that time, he did not dare to show his affection.
Feng Xiaogang and his wife Zhang Di at home met through introduction, the two did not have much feelings, and they simply formed a family to live together, and they were not as thrilled as seeing Xu Fan,
Although there is already a wife and children at home, Feng Xiaogang still can't help but be nice to Xu Fan,
When filming the movie "The Great Sajiang", he took special care of Xu Fan,
It is not a problem to serve tea and pour water in the crew.
Later, Feng Xiaogang often joked with outsiders, Xu Fan is his girlfriend,
Feng Xiaogang's humor and thoughtfulness gradually made Xu Fan have a contrast in his heart,
When she saw Feng Xiaogang, she thought of Wang Zhiwen at that time,
One is good to herself, the other is her own willingness, between these two people she can make a choice,
At the beginning, Xu Fan didn't know how to choose,
Later, Feng Xiaogang's warm actions again and again made her have a firm idea.
Before establishing a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, Feng Xiaogang did not dare to publicize to the outside world that he wanted to marry Xu Fan and go home, after all, there was really a family behind him at that time,
In order to get Xu Fan's favor, he also paid a lot at that time,
After the filming of the play "The Great Sa" was completed, Feng Xiaogang strongly recommended Xu Fan to the people around him, and he praised Xu Fan's good in front of many directors,
With Feng Xiaogang's boost, Xu Fan's career in the entertainment industry is much smoother,
However, Feng Xiaogang had a small ambition at that time, that is, to make Xu Fan the heroine in front of his camera.
In 1992, "The Great Sajia" received a lot of attention after it was broadcast, and Feng Xiaogang also took this opportunity to approach Xu Fan many times,
Although he was a man with a family at that time, he still continued to be attentive to Xu Fan, and he also kept saying that this girl was his girlfriend,
Although it was a joke on the surface, in fact, this was Feng Xiaogang's heart, and Xu Fan at that time also happened to need this warmth.
Feng Xiaogang is an invisible warmth to Xu Fan, this kind of warmth Wang Zhiwen can't give,
What Wang Zhiwen couldn't give, Xu Fan got it on Feng Xiaogang's body,
It is also like this, Feng Xiaogang invisibly defeated Wang Zhiwen, and more importantly, Feng Xiaogang at that time wanted to support Xu Fan's career, and even wanted her to become the heroine in his own lens.
Feng Xiaogang is different from Wang Zhiwen, Wang Zhiwen even if Xu Fan is willing to wash and cook for himself, he feels very enjoyable, and he also has a natural feeling,
And Feng Xiaogang didn't let Xu Fan do this, he just let Xu Fan live like a princess behind his back.
In 1998, Feng Xiaogang invited Xu Fan to play the heroine in the movie "Not Seen, Not Dispersed", which was also the first time that Xu Fan became the heroine in Feng Xiaogang's movie as a friend.
Although the movie "Not Seen, Not Dispersed" is starring Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen together, this movie was carefully created by Feng Xiaogang for Xu Fan.
After the broadcast of "Invisible Scatter", it was particularly popular, and until 2018, the film was still rated as one of China's top ten outstanding love movies on the 40th anniversary of reform and opening up.
It was also this movie that made Xu Fan start to be impressed by Feng Xiaogang,
It is also this movie that makes Xu Fan be a little princess behind Feng Xiaogang regardless of everything.
02: Feng Xiaogang, who wants to marry Xu Fan despite resistance
In fact, what touched Xu Fan the most at that time was Feng Xiaogang's love for himself.
When Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan confirmed their relationship, he and Zhang Di were not divorced, and there was a child at home,
As a well-known artist, divorcing his ex-wife and then marrying another new love is very hotly discussed,
At that time, whether it was Xu Fan or Feng Xiaogang, the pressure of the two was also great,
When facing pressure, Feng Xiaogang carried it alone, and he never let Xu Fan be pushed to the cusp.
When facing various difficulties and pressures, it was Feng Xiaogang who stood in front and sheltered her from the wind and rain,
It is also this that makes Xu Fan particularly moved,
Later, she also cried and said this: When she was with Feng Xiaogang, she experienced a lot of tribulations, but at the most critical moment, Feng Xiaogang appeared, and it was he who adopted my heart.
For Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang did not live up to it, because the final decision he made was to divorce his ex-wife and marry Xu Fan.
For love, Xu Fan has gained a lot in Feng Xiaogang's body,
For marriage, Feng Xiaogang really owes his ex-wife Zhang Di,
But a marriage without feelings, a heart-pounding love, Feng Xiaogang chose the latter,
Feng Xiaogang is a person who is willing to do anything for love, and Xu Fan is also a particularly infatuated person,
Feng Xiaogang's desperate use of the right place, so he was able to dig Wang Zhiwen's wall foot in the second marriage,
Xu Fan's infatuation was used in the wrong place, so she found her own sense of security in Feng Xiaogang's body.
After getting married, Feng Xiaogang did not change his original intention for Xu Fan,
After getting married, Feng Xiaogang will often let Xu Fan be the female number one in his movies,
After getting married, Feng Xiaogang still expressed his love for his wife in front of the camera many times,
After getting married, Feng Xiaogang still pampered Xu Fan as always.
Now Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan are already old husbands and wives, but there are few conflicts between the two, and there are almost no scandals behind the two parties after they get married,
More importantly, Feng Xiaogang would often take Xu Fan outside to relax and enjoy life.
Met in 1991 and married in 1999, Feng Xiaogang spent 9 years telling Xu Fan that he was a person who would not change his heart for her,
From 1999 to 2023, Feng Xiaogang spent more than 20 years telling everyone that his love for Xu Fan has never changed, and he also spent more than 20 years telling everyone why he was able to let Xu Fan turn around and marry him in the first place.
Conclusion:
The reason why Feng Xiaogang was able to defeat Wang Zhiwen at the beginning was mainly because he was really attentive to Xu Fan, and that kind of admiration came from the heart.
The reason why Xu Fan turned around and came to Feng Xiaogang's side was also because there were too many unique things around Feng Xiaogang, and these were exactly what Wang Zhiwen did not have.
Today's Wang Zhiwen and Xu Fan are the same, he also has his own stable family,
But Xu Fan has to live a more exciting life, because she is pampered like a little princess, and she doesn't have to wash and cook every day like before.
What do you think of the love between Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen?