Only oneself knows the suffering of life, and no matter how much others say, they can't feel it.
Recently, there is a drama about family life that is very popular, and the protagonist is also the actor Huang Bo who we are quite familiar with, this drama is "The Right Way to Open Life" starring Huang Bo and Mei Ting.
I was still very excited to see Huang Bo again.
From ordinary to blockbuster, Huang Bo can be said to be a person who has experienced from beginning to end, from a singer who no one sees well, to the popular actor Huang Bo is simply writing an unyielding history of struggle.
In this drama, Bian Liang, played by Huang Bo, is a person with a small career achievement and loves his family. And Fu Xintong, played by Mei Ting, is a full-time wife who quit her job to take care of her family. This is a daily drama about life and the workplace, showing the various attitudes of different people to life.
As the saying goes, behind every successful man there is a shrewd and capable woman. But this TV series is not like that, and it is exactly in line with the title, this show is about finding the right way to live.
Obviously, Bian Liang and Fu Xintong, the protagonists of the TV series, did not find the right way to live, and a series of things happened to them.
What exactly makes Bian Liang feel helpless about life, and what makes a Fu Xintong who takes care of his family wholeheartedly suffer from depression and even go crazy and collapse? Let's take a look together.
Originally, the two people have been living peacefully and smoothly, with a very good standard of living, a duplex building, and funds to send their son to study abroad. Bian Liang went out to earn money, and Fu Xintong took care of the family internally, such a family is the envy of countless people.
The only thing that needs to worry and solve is the son who does not have good grades, but the two also think about letting their son study abroad, so that they don't have to worry too much about their studies, as long as they work hard to get a good score. But all this beauty was shattered when Bian Liang was ready for a happy promotion.
The first problem Bian Liang encountered was that his new boss was his ex-girlfriend, and the promotion plan failed. It's not difficult to get together and scatter, it's not difficult to say goodbye, and at the beginning Bian Liang and his new boss Dongxiao are not happy to break up, so this has become a knot that is difficult to untie in the next meeting.
Looking at Bian Liang, who had achieved success in family affairs, Dongxiao was jealous, after all, they had been together before, how could they not be red-eyed. So taking advantage of his position, he began to target Bian Liang. Not only is Bian Liang uncomfortable at work, but since his ex-girlfriend Dongxiao appeared, Bian Liang's emotional life has also had twists and turns.
But after all, after knowing each other, the two did not break the net, and Bian Liang and Dongxiao also untied their hearts.
However, when Bian Liang was ready to be promoted again, he was robbed of the position by the chairman of the board of directors, and it was rumored in the company that he had a leg with the new humanities, which made Bian Liang even more unable to stay in the company, and finally Bian Liang chose to resign.
Bian Liang seems to have encountered a water reversal, and life is full of unhappiness. Resigning naked in middle age is a very risky thing, that is, after resigning, Bian Liang found that he was no longer as hard working as he was when he was young.
Bian Liang's work has not yet stabilized, but on the other side, Fu Xintong at home was deceived by finding an intermediary for studying abroad for his son. This scam defrauded the family's millions of deposits, and the sudden change made the family even worse.
Fu Xintong is also a good wife, she did not give up life, but took the initiative to find a job to earn money to subsidize the family.
However, it can also be seen from here that Fu Xintong may have resigned from the school job at the beginning, although she devoted herself to her family, but it also made her circle smaller and her vision narrower. Fu Xintong needs a sense of security, but the full-time wife over the years has not brought her more security, but has made her humble.
Bian Liang and Fu Xintong's lives have not improved, but suddenly the news of Fu Xintong's mother jumping into the sea to commit suicide came out, which hit Fu Xintong even more. When there are no adults above, it is when she becomes an adult and when she has more pressure to bear.
We always want to grow up, but one day when our parents grow old and leave us, we will constantly reminisce about the past. After Fu Xintong's mother died, the last rope in Fu Xintong's heart broke.
Fu Xintong couldn't withstand the pressure and was "crazy", and Fu Xintong, who suffered from mental illness, fell into low self-esteem and irritability, and she couldn't feel safe. Bian Liang didn't understand why Fu Xintong was like this, could it be that Bian Liang had changed his heart? However, whether Bian Liang faced his ex-girlfriend or his young subordinate Wen Caocao, he did not change his heart and still loved his family and wife.
In fact, it seems that their marriage broke down in a bunch of small things, in fact, there are two important reasons.
One is the lack of communication between Bian Liang and Fu Xintong, and we can see from the play that Bian Liang's love for Fu Xintong is real and not false. But Bian Liang did not do a good job of husband and wife communication, this very important thing, Bian Liang did not do.
Is Bian Liang really not wanting to communicate? No, it's just that Bian Liang is too tired and loves his family too much. In order for the family to live better, as the only income in the family, Bian Liang needs to work harder to earn more money so that he can have money to take care of the elderly and send his son to study abroad.
But a lot of work brought Bian Liang tired, and there was less time to accompany him, he slept when he went back, and he basically did not communicate with Fu Xintong. In the long run, Fu Xintong seemed to have become the most familiar stranger.
And there are not enough topics to talk about between Bian Liang at work and Fu Xintong, who is a full-time wife, and Bian Liang does not want to bring the emotions of work to his home. But in Fu Xintong's eyes, the distance between Bian Liang and her has become far away, and although he has been at home, he does not know what Bian Liang is thinking, which is a great psychological torment for a full-time wife.
Fu Xintong, who lost her workplace, had a small range of activities and limited daily contact with people, which made her anxious.
Because she can't get a sense of recognition, people need to be recognized, but Fu Xintong doesn't, her full-time life is too stable to basically change, so the sudden change makes Fu Xintong unacceptable.
If Bian Liang can communicate with Fu Xintong more in life, and give Fu Xintong an inner outlet tree hole, Bian Liang can better understand his family and his pillow person, instead of sharing a bed and dreaming.
The second reason is Fu Xintong's lack of confidence. Because there is no work income, Fu Xintong can only rely on her husband Bian Liang, so that to support his mother, he has to find Bian Liang.
Fu Xintong gave his sustenance to Bian Liang, although Bian Liang did a good job, but when Fu Xintong knew that Bian Liang not only had his boss and ex-girlfriend but also a young and beautiful working sister, how could this make Fu Xintong not think and worry.
Fu Xintong was too unattractive compared to these people who appeared next to Bian Liang. So much so that after Fu Xintong suffered from depression, he asked Bian Liang to look directly at his body and ask him if he loved himself.
Even Fu Xintong said that he was very inferior to his aging body.
The once young Fu Xintong also lived decently, but in this life full of firewood, rice, oil and salt, a person with ambition and enthusiasm was consumed all his passion. I was ready to continue in a stable life, but accidents followed, constantly breaking Fu Xintong's world.
I admire Bian Liang a little, not only for his loyalty, but also for his courage not to bow his head and tenacious in the face of difficulties.
The son lost the opportunity to go abroad, the family was defrauded of millions of dollars, the wife fell ill and went crazy, and had to repay the loan. None of these pressures are easy, but no matter how perfect they are, there are loopholes, and it is precisely because Bian Liang tries his best to do everything well that he forgets what he needs to ask his wife and what things need to communicate, which seems to be insignificant but a bridge that cannot be avoided.
Bian Liang and Fu Xintong are both people chased by life in the play, as if they have been solving life's problems.
Huang Bo performed the helplessness of a middle-aged man and the sense of "incompetence" in the face of sudden changes, and Mei Ting even performed the bitterness of being a housewife. Huang Bo's "incompetence" and Mei Ting's collapse after the wide coat have thoroughly acted out the difficulties of the middle-aged couple.
When I was young, I wanted to grow up, and I didn't realize that life was not easy until I grew up, but now it's too late to look back. We can only continue walking, life is colorful, and only by being in it can we truly experience life.
"The Right Way to Open Life" basically recounts the pain of middle-aged people, people cannot escape work and family, let alone escape the emotions of living in the same room and not touching each other.
Everyone in the play is a microcosm of life, and they actually happen in real life. Art is the processing and sublimation of reality, and reality is far more boring than art. We may cut off the picture when we see a footage we don't like, but in reality, we need to face things that cannot be crossed, and we always have to go step by step.
Judging from the popularity of the TV series "The Right Way to Open Life", there are many viewers, and it is still rising.
This drama allows us to see the different dilemmas and things that we may encounter in life, and some things may be acceptable to us.
Because life is everywhere, there are no perfect people in life, and there is no absolutely correct way to deal with it, we can only find our own life path, to face the future things with our families and lovers, as long as we do not stop, one day will usher in the light.