preface
"Once you enter the Buddha Gate, it is as deep as the sea, and there is no reason for people to be red and dusty ever since."
Under the multiple pressures of today's era, mortgages, car loans, and intricate interpersonal relationships, or emotional life are not smooth, people are often overwhelmed, so that many people will have the idea of escaping into the empty door, hoping to stay away from the hustle and bustle in this way.
Just like the singer Li Na, the hero of our story today.
When it comes to Li Na, many people may think of tennis players for the first time, and they know very little about singer Li Na.
But as long as you mention "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau", I believe you will not feel strange, this song is also Li Na's masterpiece.
Once upon a time, Li Na became popular all over the country with her song "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau", which can be said to be the idol of many people, but a few years later, Li Na suddenly faded out of the public eye at the peak of her career and chose to be accompanied by the Green Lantern Ancient Buddha.
Regarding Li Na's choice, many people did not understand at that time, and public opinion boiled for a while, some people said that Li Na became a monk for hype, and some people said that she was emotionally unhappy, or encountered some difficulties.
So, what is the truth about Li Na's renunciation, and today, 25 years later, is Li Na's life doing well?
Born poor, but very hard
Li Na, formerly known as Niu Zhihong, was born in July 1963 in an ordinary family in Zhengzhou City, Henan Province, and in addition to her, there is a younger sister in the family.
Although the family is not good, it is very happy for the family of 4 to live together.
However, when Li Na was 5 years old, her father died of illness, which was undoubtedly even worse for them, who were not rich.
In order to pull Li Na and her sister, her mother did not remarry because she was worried that finding a stepfather for her children would not be good for them, so she took on the burden of supporting the family alone.
A single woman needs to bring two young children and have to work to support her family, you can imagine how difficult it can be.
Fortunately, children from poor families have been in charge of the household early, and Li Na has been very sensible since she was a child, not only often helping her mother take care of her sister, but also doing housework as much as she can.
However, because they did not have a father since childhood, the Li Na sisters often suffered from ruthless discrimination and cold eyes from those around them.
Sometimes, the mother will also be bullied by others for no reason, and at this time, the family always hugs and cries, which also makes Li Na sensitive and inferior.
Later, as Li Na grew up, she gradually fell in love with opera, and in 1976, she was admitted to the acting class of Henan Opera Academy to study Yu opera.
Give up opera and turn to music
After coming to school, Li Na cherished this learning opportunity, and was always the most diligent person in school training on weekdays, so her academic performance has always been very good, and before graduation, she was affirmed by the Henan Yu Opera Troupe and was recruited as a member of the Yu Opera Troupe.
Since then, Li Na has worked harder, because of her good performance in the group, her salary has also risen, after receiving the salary, Li Na did not spend it indiscriminately, but sent it home as soon as possible to improve the life of her mother and sister.
After a few years, pop music began to take on the storm, and many young people were deeply attracted to it, including Li Na, of course.
In that era when popular music was just beginning to be popularized, Li Na also began to sing her favorite songs often along with tapes, not only that, but in the process of listening to and singing, Li Na also had the idea of becoming a singer.
For this dream, Li Na quit her job at the Yu Opera Troupe and came to Beijing alone to study pop music.
During this period, Li Na studied very hard, often participated in various music competitions, and won many awards, but what really made her stand out in the music scene was the "Ruyi Cup" singer competition.
In that competition, Li Na originally just participated with the mentality of giving it a try, after all, the contestants of this competition are many outstanding young singers from all over the country, and it is very difficult to win the award, however, contrary to everyone's expectations, Li Na finally passed all the way to win the championship of the competition.
After winning the championship, Li Na began to become famous, and successively sang the theme song "Bitter Fence" of the TV series "Fence, Woman, Dog" and the theme song of the TV series "Longing" "Good People Have a Safe Life", and then released a series of popular classic songs, such as "Women are Tigers", "Ode to Sister-in-law", "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau", "Into Tibet", etc., which suddenly became popular all over the country and became a first-line singer with Mao Amin and Wei Wei.
Repeated emotional setbacks
At the same time as her career is booming, Li Na's income has also increased significantly, and she has not forgotten her family, not only renovating her mother's old house in Zhengzhou, adding new furniture and appliances, but also sponsoring her sister to go to college. Later, Li Na was also responsible for all the expenses of her sister's study in Canada.
However, Li Na, who has a brilliant star path in the eyes of outsiders, is actually not happy.
On the one hand, after Li Na sent her sister to study in Canada, in order for her young and ignorant sister to live better in a foreign country, Li Na asked her mother to follow her sister to Canada.
This made Li Na, who rarely saw her family, even more distant from her loved ones.
On the other hand, Li Na's emotional road has not been smooth.
While Li Na was living alone in the country, a man broke into her life. At that time, the man was divorced and had a child, but Li Na did not care.
Because in Li Na's heart, he just likes this man, and his past is just the past for Li Na.
Later, when the two were talking about marriage, the man suddenly left.
Faced with the man's sudden departure, Li Na was very devastated, and finally found the man in the man's hometown and asked the man why he left.
The man said: "We are not suitable. What I need is a wife who can take care of the family, not a star who doesn't see anyone for days. ”
Li Na, who heard this, was silent, she really couldn't be a housewife, and she was focused on work.
So, she chose to leave, but later, she learned that the man's words were all excuses, and he left without any signs, because he had a family.
Thinking that she had inadvertently become a "third party" who destroyed other people's homes, Li Na felt very uncomfortable, so she put all her energy into her career.
However, life did not let her go, and the second man she met, Zhang Qianyi, did not give Li Na a home.
At that time, Li Na was the "goddess" in Zhang Qianyi's mind, and her voice deeply attracted Zhang Qianyi. They met in a bar and quickly became acquainted and called each other friends, both liking each other. The two also quickly broke the compartment window paper to get along.
Li Na originally thought that this time she really found a lover, but unexpectedly, this person also had a destination.
Such a blow made Li Na disappointed in love, and slowly saw through the red dust and had the idea of becoming a monk.
Resolutely become a monk
In 1997, Li Na put aside all the noise of the world and resolutely chose to go to Tianmen Mountain to become a nun, with the legal name "Changsheng".
Not only that, Li Na's household registration also moved here, and built a house in Tianmen Mountain, even if it was completely settled in Tianmen Mountain, even the vegetable plot in front of the house and behind the house was dug up, grow some vegetables by yourself, and occasionally follow the caretaker out to pick wild vegetables.
In this situation, she felt more peaceful than ever.
However, such a dull day did not last long, and then, the news of Li Na's renunciation as a nun was exposed in the media, which shook the music scene for a while, and many people could not understand, Li Na was in full bloom, why should she become a monk?
Subsequently, a large number of tourists and reporters also rushed to Tianmen Mountain to interview, and on Tianmen Mountain, there was an instant mess!
Li Na's peaceful life was also destroyed, and Li Na had to leave her country for the United States.
At the end of the same year, Li Na came to a temple in Los Angeles to practice.
When she arrived in the United States, Li Na told her mother and sister the news of her renunciation.
By then, my sister had made a home in Canada, and my mother was there to help with the children.
When the bad news came, my mother and sister immediately rushed to Los Angeles to see Li Na.
When the relatives met, her mother cried and persuaded Li Na to return the custom.
Li Na calmly said to her family: "This is the life I want!" ”
No way, in order to persuade her daughter to change her mind, her mother also personally lived in the temple where Li Na became a monk, and has been trying to persuade Li Na to return to the world.
However, Li Na was very decisive and let her mother witness all this with her gradually improving physical condition and gradually rosy face, and she really lived a good life.
Seeing her daughter becoming increasingly healthy, refreshed, and with a peaceful smile on her face from time to time, Li's mother finally accepted the reality that she became a monk.
Later, Li's mother lived with her daughter in the temple for a long time.
Write at the end
To outsiders, Li Na's becoming a nun is a pain, but Li Na does not agree with this, she likes this kind of life.
At that time, Jiang Kun accidentally met Li Na in the United States, and Jiang Kun, who has always been nosy, couldn't help but ask Li Na why she became a monk,
Faced with his question, Li Na replied: "I am not a monk, but a homecomer. ”
It can be seen that Li Na enjoys the current state very much, and after choosing to become a monk, Li Na is red and cheerful every day, and the unrestrained spirit makes her relaxed physically and mentally.
That's what it's like to be home.
Being a monk is her best choice and destination.
Now Li Na is still accompanied by the green lantern of Los Angeles, occasionally appearing, and also sharing Buddhist music, for example, a few years ago, there was a music album called "Sing the Sutra to You", which can be regarded as a different form to accompany fans.
Regarding Li Na's mother, after watching Li Na's happiness because of chanting, she was gradually relieved to compromise, and recently, she was persuaded by Li Na and her sister to move out of the temple and live in a nursing home next to it, perhaps, for Li Na and her mother, it can be said to be a relief.
Therefore, in life, everyone has the right to make their own decisions, and it is too important to look at these worldly eyes, as long as you can find your suitable lifestyle, nothing is absolutely "wrong".
The respect for the choices of others and everything we should do as viewers also wish Li Na to always be so happy. #Entertainment Awards##头条创作挑战赛 #